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My goal is to provide you with the GOLD STANDARD in customer care. That means that I expect you to afford me the courtesy of a response when I ask you a question and/or even confirm your address. I’ve canceled MANY orders because of buyers lack of response. My love notes/feedback attest to my excellence in customer care. REFER TO LOVE NOTES PLZ Thank you for taking the time to read this🥰

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abrazosybesos @tieia73 - Feel free to use it if you agree. I developed it because I have decided NOT to deal with buyers who do not respond to me at all. Starting this month, will end transaction if they purchase something and don't even acknowledge our first interaction. Some buyers need to learn respect.

Mar 04Reply

tieia73 I agree! You can see my posts about non responsive sellers. I'm like, WHY? 😩

Mar 05Reply

abrazosybesos @tieia73 - I saw. But since I can't human behavior. I change mine. They are NOT welcome here anymore. I've decided to cancel ANY and all order of anyone who does that.

Mar 05Reply

abrazosybesos @borntorun6228 - Txs for visiting my closet & liking my note. It's yours to use if you wish. It's meant to deter rude buyers. POSH❤️ to u.

Mar 09Reply

borntorun6228 @abrazosybesos thanks hun! Some can be rude I've seen the comments and read complaints. Why can't we all just get along.......

Mar 09Reply

privacylaw Sorry about the delay in shipping your item. I was in the hospital with emergency surgery. Your very low rating was disappointing considering you paid $10 for an item that retails at $48. I'm human.

Mar 09Reply

abrazosybesos @privacylaw - 1 - I am sorry to learn now that you were not feeling well. I hope you are better. However, the standards for how I rate people have been set by those I have purchased from, NOT me. And the rating is not based on how much I paid for an item. It's based on how important my sale was to them and in full disclosure, they have done the following: 1. thought and/or details goes into packaging item purchased.

Mar 09Reply

abrazosybesos @privacylaw 2. 2. they respond to my questions. 3. they get my purchase out in a timely manner & if there is an issue, I am informed there is or will be a delay. I purchased from you not just because of the product (for which you set the price) but because of your rating. However, I did not experience the same as when I purchased from my buyers or your what your previous clients did.

Mar 09Reply

onemorecolor Thanks for sharing, I love your closet's name by the way! :)

Mar 12Reply

abrazosybesos @onemorecolor - TY. I believe that abrazosybesos can help heal the world 🌎

Mar 12Reply

joaie @abrazosybesos I couldn't agree more, I'm kinda new & have had several offers & buys but the buyer does not communicate at all & the worse part is they are new with zero activity so it is kinda scary, I can only speak for myself but even when I made my 1st purchase I reached out to the seller first

Mar 27Reply

abrazosybesos @joaie - 1). I believe there is NO excuse (beyond being dead and/or hospitalized) for not communicating. I had several folks like that then the last one "broke the camels back" if you may. I went out of my way to anticipate and meet her needs - going beyond the call of duty perhaps, giving her more than most closet owners would and she gave me a 4 star rating. That may be fine for most folks but not for me!

Mar 27Reply

abrazosybesos @joaie 2). Especially given everything I did to contact her and elicit feedback. I even asked her to tell me what I could've done to get a 5 so I could learn. My clients/buyers feedback also means a lot. But of course, I was not afforded the courtesy of a response. Therefore, this is my way of eliminating these folks. I don't care for their business if they can't afford to treat me with minimal courtesy. And, I've decided I will cancel the order of anyone who does.

Mar 27Reply

abrazosybesos @joaie 3). Sorry for the rant. But It took a lot of frustration to get me there. However, now that I have made a decision about how I will handle this issue I feel better and with this post, those folks have been warned! It's also helped that colleagues like you confirm it's rampant here along with other nonsense. Please copy post if you like.

Mar 27Reply

joaie @abrazosybesos very well said! I couldn't agree with you more, it doesn't cost anything to be kind & respectful, as I mentioned I'm kinda new I joined mostly to buy but have since listed& sold a few items, I always try to communicate before I ever purchase anything so I can kinda make the seller feel comfortable & that I'm serious & also....

Mar 27Reply

joaie @abrazosybesos also so they know I'm for real, there's nothing worse than someone buying you're items never communicate with you and they have no way of you getting in contact,so I'm so glad you posted this,I appreciate it so much & I am totally with you,thanks for allowing me to copy this....God bless you 🙏🏻

Mar 27Reply

abrazosybesos @joaie - The buyer should also feel comfortable. And in the end, it makes the transaction easier and ensures success on both ends. What else can you ask for? Having worked in customer care & training of with many groups (including MD's & other health professionals) throughout my career. I know this issue is more about bad manners than anything else. So I'm not going to ok it for a sale.

Mar 27Reply

abrazosybesos @joaie - Thanks for your support also. Contact me when you need a lil help pushing a sale or wanting to sell an item. Im happy to share & share & share 🤗

Mar 27Reply

joaie @abrazosybesos thank you so so much I genuinely appreciate that & if I could ever be of any help the same goes for you..... I honestly agree with everything you're saying, it is all about manners & consideration & I wish everybody on here was like you. I've had my share of mean spirited people & it amazes me

Mar 27Reply

abrazosybesos @joaie TY ❤️🤗

Mar 28Reply

annsomers24 I'm glad you are informing your customers and what you expect in return which is a polite business transaction- we all are here to sell and possibly buy and we want more sales so I do hope ppl understand that communication is key, shipping within the guidelines and also cleanliness of the item!!! I'm shocked by that part btw. and also Anyone have people that do not respond or say anything and then get their item delivered and do not accept for 3 days! Has anyone had that happen?

Apr 04Reply

annsomers24 I mean it makes me feel like something is wrong lol I accept immediately after I open so they can get paid cause I assume they do what I do which is spend time wrapping the item & ironing it and writing a note even if it's just a 9$ sale! Maybe I'm just OCD ? 😘

Apr 04Reply

abrazosybesos @annsomers24 - 1. Txs for your feedback. I respond to a sale like you. Putting lots of time & attention into packaging and making it as lovely as I can so it can dazzle the buyer. It's my business card for future sale. I also add a couple of little TY items. However, that is the reason I put this up. It's happen to me a couple of times but NO more.

Apr 04Reply

abrazosybesos @annsomers24 2. Which is the other reason I put it up. I will not do business with someone who feels they can ignore me while attempting to purchase from me. It NO longer works that way. So buyers beware 😮. You may borrow if you like.

Apr 04Reply

abrazosybesos @neilclaire1 - Hi again! Can you kindly afford me the courtesy of a response please? Can you share what is your favorite color? If you prefer not to, let me know that too and I won't ask again. I just want to make sure you received my message. Regards🙂

May 11Reply

brokesh0paholic Wow it sucks go see that this is a common thread for sellers ☹️. The same thing happened to me the other day. Someone bought an item and never communicated with me but I still shipped it out. I let her know when I shipped as well. I sent a completely NWT items and wrapped it and even put a thank you card. Only to receive a 4 star rating but no feedback. I tried to reach out and ask what was wrong but she never answered me. Made me feel so bad... I was worried there was a problem on my part.

Jun 15Reply

brokesh0paholic Sorry for the rant! I saw your post and it resonated with me.

Jun 15Reply

abrazosybesos @brokesh0paholic - 1-My darling, it's not ranting, its sharing! And, that's the reason I added this as well. So I could see who else was dealing with this nonsensical stuff. Please copy to your closet if you like. However, please note that even with having this up, someone opted to purchase from me and ignored it! I tested the person with a simple question.

Jun 15Reply

abrazosybesos 2 - Rudeness is one of my biggest pet peeves. And, if people like her, don't understand its importance, especially because it's an online purchase, then I choose not to do business with them. Period! I will also cancel the next one who tries to do the same thing no matter how much they are spending because I have confirmed I will be the loser be it by ratings (e.g. Satisfaction, quality etc).

Jun 15Reply

abrazosybesos 3 - I had another buyer who haggled via offer to get a turquoise sterling ring from here for less than $8. She was a Newbie at POSH, so I accepted it and sent a pair of NWOT earrings. She accepted it, then came back to my closet to complain about it and say it was fake! NOTHING in my closet is fake!'

Jun 15Reply

abrazosybesos 4 - I offered her a refund and she didn't respond either. I can't tell you how much that bothered me. So I blocked her and decided to put an end to it. In any case, rudeness is alive and well here but we don't have to tolerate it. I have opted to respond in my own way (cancelation) but if not for you, there are other ways to respond. All the best to you!!!

Jun 15Reply

abrazosybesos PS: The first person I referred to who ignored my lil sign, I canceled her over $100 order AND her response was No response! So I'm glad I did.

Jun 15Reply

brokesh0paholic @abrazosybesos I totally understand your response to all of this. A part of selling is also being comfortable to sell your items and make sure they go to a good home and we are all happy. At first I felt bad not accepting people's offers or not receiving a response from the buyer... but I'm starting to learn a strategy that works for me.

Jun 15Reply

brokesh0paholic @abrazosybesos it is unfair for us to receive s bad rating or to have a claim opened over no reason. I had a woman mad at me because an item did not fit 🙄. That's a part of online shopping though, not everything will fit perfectly. Buy I feel like buyers expect us to be like Amazon hah

Jun 15Reply

brokesh0paholic Anyways, I love your Posh name 💕. And many thanks for responding

Jun 15Reply

abrazosybesos @brokesh0paholic - you are too kind. Come back whenever you like & if this comes up again (though I hope it won't) you have a place to rant. These can be our "case studies" (e.g. example if you don't use the word) in rude, non responsive poshers. I will be here to support you👍.

Jun 16Reply

abrazosybesos By the way, if something does not fit its generally on the buyer because they should have asked for sizing info. I believe you can always refer customers like that back to guidelines. And to close & go to bed "welcome baby girl"! to POSH. Don't let the negative buyers ruin your excitement of being here. Nite, nite.

Jun 16Reply

brokesh0paholic @abrazosybesos I was a Psych major in my undergrad; I like how you used case studies" hahaa. Good night! It's 7pm where I am at so I am barely starting my night.

Jun 16Reply

abrazosybesos @brokesh0paholic - Great you knew! It's 10:55 here in NY. I'm normally a night owl but that's a bad habit I'v been trying to break as part my NY resolutions to live more healthy. I was always tired. You, on the other hand my darling, sound full of energy. Go out & have fun - start your wknd.

Jun 16Reply

abrazosybesos @brokesh0paholic BTW, love your closet! Your intro is so nicely worded and laid out. And, you both are beautiful Latinas I suppose? I have a place in Caly- perhaps one day we'll bump into each other. Now, I'm really going to bed 😴

Jun 16Reply

brokesh0paholic @abrazosybesos Aww thank you! Yes, we both are Latinas living in Cali. Have a great weekend <3

Jun 16Reply

katzkoz Great great idea!! 👍👍👍💕

Jul 02Reply

abrazosybesos @katzkoz TY! Use if you wish. Txs for the support.

Jul 02Reply

sassystylinfind What does this mean & is it in case of scammers (new 2 Posh since May) Thanks!

Jul 22Reply

abrazosybesos @sassystylinfind No. nothing to do with scammers. There are Poshers who purchase items but don't afford you the courtesy of even a hello. You do your best in serving them and then do not receive a great review. which is what we all want. But they NEVER answered any questions about their order before it went out. I don't do business with those Poshers. Hopefully you won't experience them.

Jul 22Reply

earthling11 This happened to me on a sale. The buyer said the item was not a true size 10 (the tag said 10) and gave me a 1 star rating. When I wrote her saying that the description of the item was accurate, she responded that as a seller I should know how my clothes fit and describe accordingly.

Aug 06Reply

earthling11 @abrazosybesos As a newbie I thought: Am I supposed to know how the clothes I sell fit everyone? I was very sad about this unfair treatment. More so since this buyer is a veteran at Poshmark with dozens of sales. I even sent her a brand new extra gift item, packed her itms with gift wrap, and a thank you note! She kept trying to follow me ( I guess she didn't remember being mean to me). I blocked her. Kharma will straighten her up I'm sure.

Aug 06Reply

earthling11 Love your Posh Name! Such good vibes in it!

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - hi! And Txs for your visit to my closet! Hope you've had a chance to look around. I'm happy to answer any questions. As for name, thanks for the compliment. I'm a hugger and overall mush which is where it comes from. Let me know if I can help with anything.

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - 1. my darling there are a lot of divas here who are very mean! However don't let them dampen your sale of moment. Especially if the person does not afford you the courtesy of a conversation about what they received. The responsibility is of both the buyer & seller to speak before a purchase (which is why I have my sign) because all size are not the same and even then there is the issue of body type.

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - 2 In your case, I would have used her experience to support what you said about size, reminded her you were new and more importantly, she should not have accepted the item! She knows that. POSH would have given her her money back if she was in the right! But if she accepted, she knew she was wrong. So you did good by blocking her. I've blocked a lot of people and at this juncture have no regrets.

Aug 06Reply

earthling11 @abrazosybesos Thank you so much for your words! Many blessings and sales to you!

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - 3. Because of the women I've met here and bad experience I do the following: 1. Encourage questions once someone wants to buy something. 2. After purchase, I include my email in the card I send in case there are any issues, sometimes even my # depending on buyer so I can resolve any questions or issues on my own. But if I can't I tell them not accept and tell POSH. I tell POSH also. If they come into my closet talking SMACK.

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - 4. I put them in their place respectfully and block them. I DO NOT tolerate it. I had a women try to do that to me only because she wanted a higher discount on a Louie V. bag I was selling to her (tho I had already given her more info than I had to). I blocked her.

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - 5. I blocked her. She emailed me apologizing but I sold it someone else. I don't play games and you shouldn't let anyone do that with you. Feel free to use any guideline or rules I have in my closet. By the way, you'll do great. Just remember when you work with a lot of women, there are always mean ones in the midst.

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - awe thank you. Sorry for the long answers.

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @earthling11 - ahí no me cuenta que eras de Puerto Rico 🇵🇷. Mi islita. Estoy a tu disposición si me necesitas. Especialmente si quieres promover tu closet. Cuidate amiguita😊

Aug 06Reply

earthling11 Ah Boricua Tambien! Que maravilloso! Igual conmigo para lo que necesites. Empiezo dandole share a tu closet. Nos ayudamos y prosperamos todos! Es lo que siempre digo cuando me dicen que las cosas aqui estan malas. Mil gracias por todos tus consejos! Algunos no se me habian ocurrido y son tremendos tips. Un abrazo fuerte!

Aug 06Reply

abrazosybesos @carlade

Sep 21Reply

di_stark Have a problem with flakey buyers??, People not using common sense and Just ordering and thats it??.

Feb 01Reply

abrazosybesos @di_stark - Exactly! Especially not responding to important questions and/or information. However, I began canceling orders and ironically began to get feedback needed. After I put this up, learned it’s common here. A few borrowed folks this pic. I found its predominantly the women who are not selling, just buying so beware. By the way, all the best in POSH! And, thanks for the shares.

Feb 01Reply

di_stark @abrazosybesos ah i see. Thanks for the headsup an well wishes. That is irritating That they've been like that. Def kills the atmosphere. Very frustrating.

Feb 01Reply

jbonds007 @abrazosybesos Interesting! I too believe communication is important. I’ve had buyers purchase “out right without placing an offer” and NEVER respond when I say, “thank you, your item will be shipped right away.” Some have left 5 ⭐️ ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ ratings but still. NO comment. While I think it’s “different” I’ve learned not to internalize and make it about me. Just a different perspective but I CERTAINLY get where you are coming from!

Mar 31Reply

jbonds007 @abrazosybesos Also, if they don’t leave a comment, other buyers will NEVER know they had a great buying experience!

Mar 31Reply

jbonds007 @brokesh0paholic Don’t internalize other people’s stuff! If you know you did a great job.......

Mar 31Reply

jbonds007 @abrazosybesos Again, don’t take other people’s stuff persona! Assuming everyone who does this is rude is a stretch, and faulting folks for not reading your note is not really fair! Playing devil’s advocate....... you do not have to have a conversation with a person to purchase an item! And, many don’t view your entire closet, they can see and item in a search and just buy!

Mar 31Reply

jbonds007 @abrazosybesos Someone could communicate and seem lovely and still give a bad rating or scam. Lighten up! Don’t let them spoil or taint your Posh sales or fun! Blessed Poshing!

Mar 31Reply

abrazosybesos @jbonds007 - my goal is never too but these folks are rampant. Additionally, I had a bad experience with one that set the tone for this sign. I jumped over backwards for, in addition to GIVING her an item I had for sale because I didn’t have what she wanted. She paid me back with a mediocre rating. I provide 5 * rating and will not accept BS. I understand your outlook, that’s how I started here but time has taught me I have to be clear with how I run things here. That’s all.

Mar 31Reply

i03cnf Hi I'm Chayo, I wish I had met you when I started poshing. I was not sure what I was getting myself up. I could have use you as a mentor. I had a bad experience when I made a purchase. It was a bad customer service from the seller. I have my own closet, and my prices are firm. I was excited with my first sale. I have not had any luck after that. I'm empress with your closet, very nice🤗💞

Apr 27Reply

abrazosybesos @i03cnf - Oh no! I’m so sorry to hear that. It should not have been that way. There are a lot of POSH mentors in addition to me that I can introduce you to. But as far as clients, I have all these signs up because I’ve also had my share tough clients. But the majority have been great. But, I make sure I give them the best experience. I treat them the same way I would expect to be treated. But, I’m here if you need anything as of now.

Apr 27Reply

abrazosybesos @i03cnf - I forgot to mention that you can borrow any sign of mine you like if you think it will help. 🤗

Apr 28Reply

abrazosybesos @sass21

Jun 14Reply

mahanf @abrazosybesos 🙋🏻‍♀️welcome back 🤗

May 29Reply

abrazosybesos @mahanf - You are so kind. TY. Last year & beginning of this one were tough. Hopefully, what made it tough is behind me.😉 POSH ❤️ to you.

May 29Reply

abrazosybesos @mahanf - And my vacation was wonderful. I traveled to Paris (I go every other year) to spend time with my BFF & visit Scotland together. It was amazing! Definitely a country to add to the bucket list. How are you? Enjoying the summer so far?

May 29Reply

mahanf @abrazosybesos I am glad that you enjoyed your vacation. My sister and her family live in Paris ,I have been there many times.but I've never been in Scotland. Nice to see you again. BEST wishes. posh LOVE

May 29Reply

abrazosybesos @mahanf - Scotland is definitely one for the bucket list if you have one. She & I love the series Outlander which takes place in Scotland, so the trip was part of the our experience with the show. It’s only 1.45 minutes from Paris and I guarantee you’d love it. Edinburgh is very metro & fun. The rest gorgeous!

May 29Reply

mahanf @abrazosybesos Next time when I go to Paris I'll do it. Thanks for the tip 😃 I didn't know it's not that far from Paris!!🤨 Have a great evening 🙏🏼🍀🧚🏼‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️

May 29Reply

abrazosybesos @mahanf Perfect 👌🏽. They are known for great shortbread cookies, beer, whiskey & the Lochness monster. I looked for it there but didn’t see it 😉...lol. But it’s a beautiful lil town.

May 29Reply

mahanf @abrazosybesos I saw many beautiful landscapes from Scotland in movies and now you made me curious 😃😉 Hope I can plan a trip to there next time.

May 29Reply

vintage2classic Very interesting, you write well. I also believe communication is important, especially when dealing with items that can't be returned. Plus, when a buyer responds or initiates conversation, I am much more likely to give them a better price. I think some don't have mastery of the English language perhaps and don't feel comfortable. Others simply don't realize they are being rude. Happy Poshing 😄😎😙

Sep 20Reply

hollyaynshobby @abrazosybesos Thanks for this! You've given me courage to take the step of canceling if I get no response. I wasn't sure if that was acceptable Posh behavior. I'm a pretty new seller and still learning the ropes. 😁

Sep 30Reply

abrazosybesos @hollyaynshobby - You are so welcome. I hope your experience is great. I’m happy to help with promoting & sharing your items. It’s fun here & you get grt deals. As for this sign & others, I created them based on the annoying/bad experiences. I also don’t play. My goal is always to epitomize customer service in my closet (see reviews) As a result, ignoring me is unacceptable. I have canceled purchases & blocked those who have—something I never thought I do. Hopefully, it won’t happen to you.

Sep 30Reply

hollyaynshobby @abrazosybesos Too late! Unfortunately, it has... I went ahead and sent the item(s) and held my breath hoping they weren't unhappy and wouldn't give me a bad review. Thankfully that hasn't happened yet... all 5 stars so far. 🤗🤗 The ones who haven't communicated mostly don't bother to leave a rating either, which is fine with me! 😆

Oct 01Reply

abrazosybesos @hollyaynshobby - 1) Yup! Those are the ones who give bad ratings regardless. Also, the ones that are not sellers, so beware. The one who triggered this sign was one of them. But with her I went out of my way! I didn’t have a pair of SS earring she purchased along with a Gucci bag.

Oct 01Reply

abrazosybesos @hollyaynshobby - 2) I sent her a check (refund) for the one I didn’t have (lost 20%) and sent her a free similar SS pair & threw in lots of extras. That’s a 5 rating for me. She gave a 3. Now if I’m out of something or can’t find it, I simply cancel b/c of that exp. going out of my way didn’t pay.

Oct 01Reply

abrazosybesos 3- Oh, and I apologized a million times here & a note I sent.

Oct 01Reply

memas_money @abrazosybesos Love the attitude!!’ Some on here I really wonder!! Happy Poshing!

Nov 14Reply

abrazosybesos @memas_money 1) TY, you are so right! But some are not. Which is why I added this. Hope you don’t bump into them. Since posting I’ve actually canceled several orders due to the lack of a courteous response. Prior to this, I let two women slide & they were not happy for reasons unknown to me until this day. It upset me so much that this is what resulted from it.

Nov 15Reply

abrazosybesos @memas_money 2). I go all out when someone purchases from me. I want the experience to be a great 1 so I create a special package, add extras, a card and my email in case there are questions or concern etc. Hasn’t happened again. But it’s been my exp that it’s generally the folks that are not selling. So beware. Txs for stopping by & feel free to use this. POSH❤️✌🏼

Nov 15Reply

memas_money @abrazosybesos YES. It is people that are not selling. I had one experience and the reason I accepted was because it was for a kid. Brand new in box with original wrapping etc never even tried on and stored properly. We were under hurricane watch sent buyer a message, told him I would ship as soon as post office opened up. He even came back and said he understood and thanked me for the communication. Gave me a bad rating for late shipping and cleanliness. He is blocked!

Nov 15Reply

abrazosybesos @memas_money - 1. I never thought I’d block people. But it’s many now. You were correct in blocking him. I can’t get over the sense of entitlement some feel. I’ve created a post you can borrow if you wish. It tells buyers you photograph everything. I’d like to believe it’s a deterrent for folks like that your buyer.

Nov 16Reply

abrazosybesos @memas_money - 2) also tell buyers NOT to accept an item if they’re unhappy. I’d rather get it back ( its not happened yet) than get a bad rating. Let POSH deal with them. They are quite lenient with buyers b/c of their 20%.

Nov 16Reply

eastsidesusan In my spare (haha!) time, I've been trying to read through some of these types of posts here on PM vs just sharing, sharing, sharing. They're very instructive! (Disheartening, but instructive.) Thank you for this. It's good to see what other sellers are experiencing & how they navigate the marketplace vs just sitting here scratching my head thinking, whaaat? -S♥︎

Nov 23Reply

abrazosybesos @eastsidesusan - Txs for the compliments but don’t let this jade you either. It’s fun here. Some women are just darling & supportive. Making the experience good to great. As you can see tho, the subject at hand happens often enough that I’ve just let people copy this. I don’t believe in reinventing wheel. I have others too you might enjoy. So take off your shoes & peruse. I’m also happy to help w/questions & sharing. Just lmk. POSH❤️✌🏼.

Nov 24Reply

eastsidesusan @abrazosybesos Fortunately, I've "met" some really great people so far, too. (Count yourself among them!🌟) There just seems to me to be something particular to PM that attracts these...people. I've been selling online for decades & have had, I swear, ONE bad experience the whole time. Then I came here, wanting to check out the newer platforms, and it's been eye opening. Ppl don't really get to me but I do hate when they waste my time, which is very limited.THANKS AGAIN for your help & advice!😘

Nov 24Reply

abrazosybesos @eastsidesusan - Thank you darling. It’s so kind of you to say & very much appreciated. If we don’t chat again this week, have wonderful Thanksgiving.

Nov 25Reply

eastsidesusan @abrazosybesos Thanks so much! Thursday does loom and I feel already up to my eyeballs with it so I’ll likely do the bare minimum of poshing in the next few days. Have a wonderful holiday, hopefully spent with good food and good company and lots to be thankful for. -S🖤

Nov 25Reply

1plumeria_closn Thank you so much for this and your other posts. Some buyers are toooo much, no responses being one of the issues. 🦋✨ Posh love to you!

Apr 20Reply

abrazosybesos @1plumeria1 - I agree & understand. That’s why I had to create this sign. Plze feel to use. As well as any other.. Contact me if I can be any help. POSH❤️.

Apr 20Reply

1plumeria_closn @abrazosybesos muchas gracias. 🙏🏽

Apr 21Reply

abrazosybesos @1plumeria1 - you are welcome. De nada.

Apr 27Reply

louislover46 Love it

Jun 14Reply

abrazosybesos @notoriousfly

Sep 20Reply

aandr25 @annsomers24 no, you just treat people kindly like you hope to be treated. I had to wait for a long time for seller to ship, but I really wanted item. Then it took over 22 days to get it. Post office sent out of state ( seller lived hour from me). I received a midi dress crumpled in tiny box I would ship a watch- a wrinkled mess. I checked her love notes and rating before purchasing, but I was surprised. Gave her low rating to not caring for my first time buying from her closet. Stay safe😊

Apr 25Reply

aandr25 I appreciate this. As a potential buyer, after I ask seller questions to help me decide if I want to buy, If I'm no longer interested I let them know why so they're not left hanging. I know we don't have to, but I just do. and make sure to thank them, too.

Apr 25Reply

aandr25 and those who want something for free. I had a coach wallet to sell for $15 + reduced shipping and buyer offered me $5. I would've lost 46 cents. Made zero! So I posted a message I would decline low offers.

Apr 25Reply

abrazosybesos @aandr25 - You responded perfectly. And, if you’re not assertive, put a Stop to the BS and block pple, it continues. You’re welcome to duplicate any of my signs. They’re all connected with an annoying experience you may be able to relate to. But, if you don’t mind, give me credit. That way I feel I’m helping too pple like us too. POSH❤️ to you. I’m happy to help you when I can too!

Apr 25Reply

aandr25 @abrazosybesos thanks! Have a good evening.

Apr 26Reply

abrazosybesos @aandr25 ☺️

Apr 26Reply

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May 06Reply

abrazosybesos @kawai1kitten - please read. TY

May 23Reply

abrazosybesos @isambook- Plze read!

Jun 19Reply

maidmarian Love this! 💯 percent agree.