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📷 If I take the time to snap a picture for you, because 👉YOU asked for it, it's RUDE TO NOT RESPOND BACK. Even if it's a "no thanks" I don't care just say SOMETHING. This also applies to measurements and other miscellaneous questions about items. It's not that hard and it doesn't take any more time than it did for me to take the picture or to answer your questions for you. Thanks! Happy poshing!💕

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186 Comments

beautifulbutton@stephanyy lol that pic is super cute. You are 100% right

Nov 27Reply

stephanyy@beautifulbutton isn't it? Haha such a cutie🐶

Nov 27Reply

beautifulbutton@stephanyy he is lol.

Nov 27Reply

stephanyy@jblacombe I have! .. Currently waiting!☺😁

Nov 30Reply

bleushoegirlSo true! Such a cute way to get the point across. :-)

Dec 04Reply

parabudsCute photo!

Dec 04Reply

stephanyy@bleushoegirl I tried to be nice about it hahA

Dec 04Reply

stephanyy@parabuds thanks☺

Dec 04Reply

krimmerI just took a billion pictures and no response to them...lame!

Dec 06Reply

stephanyy@krimmer isn't it insulting? You do them a favor and they don't even have the decency to respond😑

Dec 06Reply

krimmerTotally insulting! Especially when they aren't specific about what they want pictures of or what they are looking for in them!

Dec 06Reply

subfashionista👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏💣💥

Dec 08Reply

instincthahahaha awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

Dec 11Reply

margo97Drives me nuts! Also, giving measurements and then all you hear is crickets!

Dec 11Reply

stephanyy🙌🙌🙌👍

Dec 11Reply

stephanyy@margo97 exactly! I'm sorry were you too busy to respond after I was busy and took these pictures and measurements for you!? LOL 🙉

Dec 11Reply

chloecheThis JUST happened to me...

Dec 13Reply

edizaOMG!! I know right?!

Dec 14Reply

stephanyy@edizarodriguez lol RIGHT!😁

Dec 14Reply

threebeezSo true!

Dec 14Reply

ellienorThis is SO true!! I'm new to Posh, and I've already noticed this is an issue!! Totally random, but could you please tell me what app you used for the text/heart on this pic? I love it!! Thanks! Great closet!!

Dec 17Reply

stephanyy@ellienor thanks! I use snappee!☺

Dec 17Reply

stephanyy@ellienor I'm sorry it's spelled Snapeee 😜

Dec 17Reply

thekogsthis happened to me last week! It took me so long to find my prom pictures and get them transferred onto a listing- specifically for her! then no response...ever. SOoooooo rude and frustrating!

Dec 17Reply

stephanyy@thekogs ugh that's the worst.. It's such a waste your time!😒

Dec 18Reply

thekogsI KNOW! Plus- it totally gets your hopes up!

Dec 18Reply

hmbowlingI love this! 👏👏👏👏👏

Dec 18Reply

treannesfrocksAmen!!!!

Dec 20Reply

devinest3@stephanyy Amen sister!

Dec 21Reply

gfiorante50@stephanyy I love this! Would you mind if copied it? This is one of my pet peeves!!

Dec 22Reply

stephanyy@gfiorante50 sure! If you could use your own picture that's fine! I made this one myself😁 lol but I hear ya it's so inconsiderate!

Dec 22Reply

gfiorante50Yes! Of course I will use my own picture. I really like the words you used. Right to the point! And thank you so much for sharing so many items from my closet. I'll be very happy to return the favor and share your closet!

Dec 22Reply

stephanyy@gfiorante50 haha I was trying to still be nice, but to the point! It's so aggravating! And of course your closet is amazing!😉👍👍

Dec 22Reply

gfiorante50@stephanyyYes! Of course I will use my own picture. I really like the words you used. Right to the point! And thank you so much for sharing so many items from my closet. I'll be very happy to return the favor and share your closet!

Dec 22Reply

sdshopperThank you!!!!!👍👍👍

Dec 28Reply

shellhead"Posh manners" I love it! This totally drives me nuts too :) but whatever, lots of cool ladies on here!!

Dec 29Reply

hessdog6603Agree

Jan 04Reply

dollface86Urg!! Soo true!👏👏👏

Jan 08Reply

raidergirlSo true ... 👏👏👏

Jan 10Reply

mimibunny8RIGHT ON @stephanyy ! 👋

Jan 16Reply

justbecauseiam@stephanyy Thank you. You are so right. Stay blessed

Jan 16Reply

cosmicpixie@stephanyy Ah, so true and well said. How about when someone wants to buy 5 items and you work out pricing for them all to bundle, then they just disappear into nowhere without purchasing?? Good times on Posh. 👍😘😉

Jan 20Reply

stephanyy@cosmicpixie omg I just had a girl bundle 12 f*****g items yesterday totaling to like $250 and then just disappear I almost freaked out lol it took me foreverrrrr to put that bundle together!😒😒

Jan 20Reply

casualpassportAgreed!

Jan 21Reply

crystaljosOmg I love this. So cute!

Jan 21Reply

carenlovesgucci@stephanyy Stephanny .. I know you are sharing your host picks! I am sharing all you HOSTS themed items to your party, then my C & C items.. Then your picks! WHEN DUST SETTLES AND YIUR FEED RETURNS TO NORMAL... Favor???? May I borrow this listing???????????

Jan 21Reply

neelugLOL if you go to the "first look" sections in the parties you'll find all sorts of interesting stuff...and some hidden gems of new poshers with great closets but also a lot of items not allowed on PM.

Jan 22Reply

stephanyy@neelug haha oh I'm sure! Wow I gotta check it out.

Jan 22Reply

isa_wine_loverOk darling, I have a few questions! Please tag me on a listing where we can talk about the psrtaaaayyyy 😘

Jan 22Reply

edizaThank you for helping share my new blog!!! I appreciate you!!!

Feb 03Reply

brianas87I hate when people negotiate a price with me then just up and disappear!!! Grrrrr😡

Feb 05Reply

stephanyy@brianas87 I've had 2 girls have me put together bundles for them recently and they both just disappeared band never responded back to me. It's so rude.

Feb 05Reply

brianas87I wish I could call them out over it but I guess I'm more polite than they are. I also hate when someone lists an item, then tons of people comment over a period of a few months, and the person never answers back if the item is still available. I wish you could report people for bad manners!!!

Feb 05Reply

stephanyy@brianas87 most of those people are no longer active.. Which is a whole other issue itself😒

Feb 05Reply

salenaluThis is SO true! And I just love the photo! Lol 😂

Feb 07Reply

stephanyy@salenalu lol thank you!😉

Feb 07Reply

rdesigns85👏

Feb 09Reply

roxybeachLol. And so trueeee

Feb 23Reply

stephanyy@roxybeach right!?😁😂

Feb 23Reply

roxybeachLol . I love the pic makes me laugh . 😂😂. And YES !! Omg people forgot about manners . How hard is to write back "thanks" 😑. I might post something like this in my closet 😁

Feb 23Reply

stephanyy@roxybeach I know I don't get it, some people are just rude😠 great closet btw!😘

Feb 23Reply

roxybeachThank you ! I love yours❤️. I'm keeping an eye on it 😊

Feb 23Reply

stephanyy@roxybeach awesome thank you! :)

Feb 23Reply

adelajaelUgh... I hate it when this happens! Seems like manners even show through in the virtual world, or lack of... Glad you put it out there and aren't shy of letting people know ha😊

Feb 28Reply

tribalsisterI agree!!!!👍👍👍

Mar 08Reply

manij👏👏👏so true!

Mar 13Reply

redtozjen@stephanyy - Exactly! Liked and shared your post! I swear, some people's children have the manners of a billy goat. Well done, You!

Mar 14Reply

stephanyy@redtozjen lol that made me laugh, thanks😜😘

Mar 14Reply

itsloveExactly girl!!!

Mar 26Reply

clarissasclosetOH MY GOSH YESS

Apr 10Reply

sangyaycYou are soooo right! Well said!👭😃👍❤️

Apr 14Reply

moreforyou@stephanyy OMG! I couldn't agree more! I drop everything to do this and have been feeling so discouraged lately with people not responding. Great job Stephany!

Apr 19Reply

stephanyy@moorepatrice aw thanks! At first it use to pisss me off so much.. Lol but it happens so often I forget about it now😒 some people are just rude and lack manners!

Apr 19Reply

love_danicahey steph!! do you have vinted?

Apr 29Reply

stephanyy@anika27 no I don't.. Not sure I could keep up with 2 sites lol

Apr 29Reply

love_danicai just wanted you to see this, http://www.vinted.com/forum/real-talk-dot-dot-dot-vent-and-let-it-out-girl/113173-haha-oh-poshmark

Apr 29Reply

stephanyy@anika27 it won't let me click on the link 😁 lol

Apr 29Reply

stephanyy@anika27 oh my god. I typed it in. Wow. I'm done.

Apr 29Reply

love_danicait was pretty immature, i was really annoyed when i saw it

Apr 29Reply

stephanyy@anika27 I wrote to her on the listing. I'm so pissed.

Apr 29Reply

love_danicaawe im sorry i hope i didnt ruin your day

Apr 29Reply

stephanyy@anika27 no I'm glad you told me. Just so irritating! Thought we were out of high school .. I guess not. I deleted the listing though cause I didn't want it on there. BUT I hope she saw what I wrote and I reported all of her listings that had PayPal inquiries on them!😉

Apr 29Reply

love_danicait was, i couldn't get myself to ignore it. thats good that you reported her, some girls just really need to grow up

Apr 29Reply

rinsgirlSo true! Manners are awesome! :-D

May 07Reply

stephanyy@rinsgirl yes!😉

May 07Reply

theneweraWell said.👍👍👍

May 11Reply

ediamondThis is so frustrating. I'm with you

May 16Reply

gpaloI love this lol 🐶

Jun 04Reply

gaa1726I ❤️this!!

Jun 16Reply

dmenzel@stephanyy 👏👏

Jun 20Reply

chantydelauzzzI had someone do this to me yesterday and I was livid! I woke up early to take pics of several items and she never responded. RUDE!! 😒😾

Jun 24Reply

stephanyy@chantydelauzzz soo RUDE.

Jun 24Reply

laurenlunaltdAmen!!!

Jun 30Reply

donnasaur_Yes I agree!

Jul 02Reply

tams😘WOW@stephanyy I agree totally. I'm gonna say hi to@beautifulbutton Hi sweets what up? I got to come over and see whatcha got to check out!! Love Tams😘✌️PEACE

Jul 03Reply

theletterk@stephanyy Don't fret over this girl. If they really want something they'll keep close tabs on it. Can't force anyone. Sucks to wait on someone, but I myself refuse to get upset over "nonresponsive" poshers. Just have fun and do what you can. Good luck!

Jul 05Reply

stephanyy@theletterk im not upset, just pointing out an issue thats big on posh. If enough people see it, maybe less will do it, thats all.

Jul 05Reply

hoot350915I seriously LOVE this because it's just too true! What I say to women who don't have the decency to respond is "So you have enough time to share your own listings but not to to give me feedback?" Lol!

Jul 05Reply

stephanyy@hoot350915 I literally just went through your entire closet.. LOVE IT😍 I love your Do's and Dont's 👍👍 your cover shots are great too! Mind if I ask what filter/app you use for the tiny hearts/bubbles?

Jul 05Reply

hoot350915You've got a beautiful closet too! I use the app Filterzilla for most of my bubbles and filters. another app I use is Piclab which has a bunch of sweet textures and cut out shapes as well as great light effects. I'm pretty sure for Piclab you have to pay to unlock some of the really cool ones however. I know there's a ton of awesome photo editing apps out there to check out, so I'd spend some time exploring the App Store!

Jul 05Reply

stephanyy@hoot350915 thanks😉👍 will do!

Jul 05Reply

ceefelix🙌 Amen to that!!!

Jul 08Reply

ivonas@stephanyy I'm new here so just wanted to ask what should I do when someone asks me to hold an item? Do I put a higher price on it or just add that person's name to the listing? Thanks for your help!

Jul 09Reply

stephanyy@ivonas go to Edit your listing and down at the bottom it has the option "for sale" .. Click that and select "not for sale". No one will be able to buy it then😊 then when your buyer is ready, change it back to for sale and they can purchase! Good luck!

Jul 09Reply

ivonas@stephanyy thanks for your reply! I found that option and changed it..thanks :)

Jul 09Reply

abstractdreams👍💋

Jul 12Reply

berna_doodleOmg cutest picture ever!! Lol and in totally agree! Happens all the time & it's so rude!

Jul 12Reply

carenhelm@stephanyy Well said!

Jul 16Reply

dons_of_eveI 100% agree!!!!👍👍👍👏👏👏👏💖💖

Aug 21Reply

xoxokarito🙈 I know! That's why I don't take anymore additional pictures, I noticed that when I do, I don't even get a response back. 💙🙊

Aug 23Reply

jilliankaI totally agree....I was just asked the other day to post more pics bc someone seemed interested (last week). Granted, the least someone can say is "thank you."

Aug 26Reply

jilliankaCan I share this?

Aug 26Reply

stephanyy@jillianka of course! 😏

Aug 26Reply

jilliankaThanks!!!!

Aug 26Reply

dorajcrowTrue. I am new here and already people don't answer questions about their items for sale. If I'm not interested in something, I at least tell that person. Common courtesy.

Sep 13Reply

blukatCan I like this 100X

Sep 14Reply

kjd1015@stephanyy exactly girl!!! This is cute :) Thanks for sharing my closet!

Sep 15Reply

stephanyy@kjd1015 thanks for sharing mine!😉😘

Sep 15Reply

norascloset1@stephanyy ahhhhh this is the best post ever!!! I totally agree! how rude can someone possible be :/

Sep 17Reply

ilovesunset👏👏👏

Sep 27Reply

xoadanaAgree!!!! 😫

Oct 06Reply

mrsalliexo👏👏👏 seriously! Good manners are hard to come by on here.

Oct 14Reply

stephanyy@allisondickard yes definitely!! 😒🙈

Oct 14Reply

emmyrawrsOh I love this! May I "borrow" it ? (:

Oct 23Reply

stephanyy@emmyrawrs thanks! Sure☺️

Oct 23Reply

stephanyy@joannaburgs 👆👆 its effing annoying😒

Oct 29Reply

isa_wine_loverHey girl! I haven't forgotten about you ☺️ Last week was pretty crazy, but if you want to get together sometime this weekend, let me know🌻

Dec 03Reply

stephanyy@isa_wine_lover thanks love I'm pretty swamped with work and events this weekend but next weekend should be good! ☺️

Dec 03Reply

stephanyy@chantydelauzzz 👆😏

Dec 12Reply

chantydelauzzzLove this! 🙌👏🙌👏🙌👏

Dec 12Reply

stephanyy@chantydelauzzz lol yay! You can use any of my pics if you want to! Hopefully people start seeing it😪

Dec 12Reply

blondsoulYes officer👮

Dec 12Reply

stephanyy@blondsoul 😏

Dec 12Reply

rmbrandAmen!

Dec 12Reply

stephanyy@rmbrand 🙌🙌🙌

Dec 12Reply

dollface86Amen!! I'm glad I'm finally seeing someone say this, It's so rude!! 🙈

Dec 17Reply

stephanyy@dollface86 I know right!?😁😒

Dec 17Reply

mrsperkinsHahaha. This cracked me up, love this.

Jan 15Reply

stephanyy@mrsperkins lol thanks, so annoying.😒 ha

Jan 15Reply

mrsperkinsI had so much fun in your closet. Very inspiring

Jan 15Reply

stephanyy@mrsperkins thank you! Your closet actually reminds me of mine lol loved yours as well☺️👌

Jan 15Reply

mrsperkinsWe could be shopping buddies😉

Jan 15Reply

stephanyy@mrsperkins I think we should😏

Jan 15Reply

mrsperkinsCould also be dangerous. I'm so glad I found your closet, I absolutely bookmarked you!

Jan 15Reply

stephanyy@mrsperkins aww thanks girl! I'll like one of your listing to stalk your closet

Jan 15Reply

megqua14@stephanyy Amen!! It takes time and thought into "modeling" a decent picture. Wish I could tag the people who have recently done this to me, but I won't be tacky😆

Jan 20Reply

becks80Agreed

Feb 10Reply

emilymariegThis woman keeps telling me to put together HUGE bundles then doesn't follow through with communicating/purchasing... Has happened twice now 😞🔫

Feb 16Reply

stephanyy@emilymarieg that has happened to me soooo many times! It's beyond frustrating!😁😒

Feb 16Reply

emilymariegYeah! I feel like I have to harass her to get her to respond. And both times she's wanted completely different items and never followed through so I keep having to pull stuff out and put it back 😒😒😒😒

Feb 16Reply

stephanyy@emilymarieg yeah I wouldn't even bother with that 😁 seems like a flaker!

Feb 16Reply

jujumakSeriously!! It's driving me crazy . Or they ask u "your lowest?" And when u answer they disappear

Feb 21Reply

stephanyy@jusdiswunce 😉

Mar 02Reply

mk4I like this posting! It makes me so 😡😡 that people can be so rude and inconsiderate! Just say something. 😊👍👍

Mar 26Reply

tfullerton12@stephanyy (posting here because your meet me listing was too full for comments). @stephanyy I don't know how I missed this before! You are so beautiful and love the doggies too! My husband, brother and brother in law are all firemen so we hang in circles with the PD also, so much fun to be around! You are definitely the most fashionable/hottest officer I've seen! 😄💕

Mar 30Reply

stephanyy@tfullerton12 I've been meaning to make another "meet the seller"😁 lol and thank you for the compliments!😘😘😘

Mar 30Reply

classyvintageI'm not sure if you are aware but your meet me listing has reached it's max

Mar 30Reply

4doggypawzLove this👍👍👍👍💐

Mar 31Reply

classychicresalseriously though. It's so rude and annoying. It's like they're just looking for something to ask you about.

Mar 31Reply

nurse2425A-freaking-men!!!!

Apr 02Reply

stephanyy@ntaul ugh that's so rude, I wonder why😪

Apr 04Reply

stephanyy@ntaul who is it? I'll ask the same questions lol

Apr 04Reply

stephanyy@ntaul hah oh I meant don't tag her lol it's okay! You are the nicest girl on posh for sure! Haha

Apr 04Reply

stephanyy@ntaul omg wow I wouldn't even want to buy from her after she obviously is ignoring you

Apr 04Reply

stephanyy@ntaul one what a weirdo!😪

Apr 05Reply

anabel22Love the fonts in your first pic! What app is that if you don't mind me asking??🙈

Apr 18Reply

stephanyy@anabel22 it's called Wordswag :)

Apr 18Reply

anabel22I have that already but didn't know you can change the fonts within the same project??😁😋Thanks.

Apr 18Reply

stephanyy@anabel22 yup you can :)

Apr 18Reply

anabel22Woohoo!! Let me try!👏💞

Apr 18Reply

anabel22Okay...in stuck! Do you mind helping?? 😳

Apr 18Reply

stephanyy@anabel22 you have to do one section at a time so say you write "the" .. Press complete/done then there's an option to "reswag" so then you can go back and add more :) sorry hard to explain

Apr 18Reply

anabel22Okay...I got it!!👏👏I was trying to select the text and change the font but that was impossible. lol Thank you so much!! 👏😘💞

Apr 18Reply

stephanyy@anabel22 ☺️👍👍

Apr 18Reply

kanyejoyner@stephanyy hi I'm commenting here about your meet the seller listing bc it's reached its maximum amount of comments. Anyways I wanted to say, I know it feels good to get the bad guys. I love to see a super/hero girl power kind of girl.👊👊👊You rock🙌

Apr 23Reply

stephanyy@kanyejoyner I've been meaning to make a new one! Lol and thanks, right now it's not so easy on us but what can ya do!

Apr 23Reply

kanyejoyner@stephanyy pray pray pray. That's all I do lately but that's not a bad thing. Keep doing what you are doing & I'm sure you'll catch a break & once again the girl wins😉

Apr 23Reply

stephanyy@kanyejoyner hah well thank you, I appreciate it😘

Apr 23Reply

kanyejoyner@stephanyy oh & thank you for all the shares. Have a great night☺️

Apr 23Reply

stephanyy@kanyejoyner you too! Oh and not sure if you missed my last comment on those pants but are they elastic at the bottom?

Apr 23Reply

tidkey77I am with u on this. It's annoying and frustrating

Apr 23Reply

tidkey77This happens to me ALL the time. Makes me want to stop Poshing! But I won't

Apr 23Reply

stephanyy@tidkey77 just happened to me today, made a listing for someone and they never replied/purchased 😑

Apr 23Reply

elizmulOh my goodness...I soooooo agree!!! ♡

Apr 23Reply

tidkey77Sometimes my phone doesn't give me alerts and with my busy schedule I can't check my listings everyday but I try to check at least weekly. So I try to respond as soon as I can. But others just don't respond at all

Apr 23Reply

katiemeazellMy favorite is when they ask me to model and I do so. So I have to go in my room, get the item, take off what I'm currently wearing, try it on, take pictures, put my original clothes back on, put the item back away nicely, post the pictures, tag them... Then either no response or a response more than 24 hours later. Like no

May 16Reply