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It has come to my attention that this lie being told concerning me continued on after I waited for a posh decision declaring my concerns grounds for cancellation of an order. I blocked the woman that I purchased from and ignored her original dishonest and irresponsible accusations but I feel that I need to clarify for the future and anyone that I do business with.
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4tornados
It is insulting that a person can list an item, answer questions about an item and then sell it and expect the buyer to be satisfied when what they are told was wrong. Then because she felt she should keep my money regardless of her inaccuracies in describing her own item she accused me of scamming her.
Mar 24Reply

4tornados
She answered another's question stating that the jeans were boot, we received them and in the label was clearly marked skinny, we contacted posh explained and awaited a response, posh sided with us and we sent them back in the exact condition they were sent in which I might add included reeking of cigarette smoke. She attacked me then blocked me so that I could not expose her.
Mar 24Reply

4tornados
I would have ignored it all but it continued. Any who have done business with me already know what kind of buyer I am, this if purely for those that have not. Read the listing and decide for yourself. Have a wonderful day and hopefully you all avoid dishonest people like her.
Mar 24Reply

yoused
So sorry it had to come to this. Feeling sad 4 you. Hope you won't let this stop you. Stay strong through it all. Best Wishes
Mar 26Reply

4tornados
@yoused
Thank you, you're very sweet. I didn't tag anyone or share it with my followers because I really just want anyone that's interested in the truth and any seller that checks on me to know what really happened. Have a wonderful weekend:)
Mar 26Reply

yoused
We almost got scammed a few times so I understand. Personally purchased then called the sale a mistake. Creepy! You just keep your head up Sweetie
Mar 26Reply

4tornados
@yoused
Thank you again! I really appreciate your time and your thoughts. I understand as well, I've seen a lot on here that was very creepy and some jut plain wrong. The fact that I waited and posh paid to send the item back and the fact that she obviously re-offered the item should have been enough for her to be honest but I guess not. Thank you again for your support, people like you make this still a wonderful site😊
Mar 26Reply

yoused
I BELIEVE YOU.
Mar 31Reply

4tornados
@bagheera13
Thank you so much for your time and kind words. I love so many of your things and saved them for hopefully some future purchases!! Have a wonderful day:)
Apr 06Reply

shawina22
Yikes this is horrible. Hope you got your money back 😊
Apr 06Reply

zenmode
Thanks for the warning and I'm sorry this happened to you. There's always two sides to the story so thank you for sharing yours.
Apr 06Reply

4tornados
@shawina22
Hi, Thank you. Yes, after posh reviewed the the pictures of what I received and the pictures of the listing where the questions were answered they gave my money back to me. I more than anything am concerned for my reputation, this really is a place where trust is built and honesty is very important. I feel like I am protecting myself a little bit at least. Thank you again for your kind words and time. Have a wonderful night:)
Apr 07Reply

4tornados
@mygenet
Thank you for your kindness and time. I am hoping that people realize that there are two sides and actually read the whole original listing before they decide about who I am. I try to be open minded and fair when I see these stories. Have a good night.
Apr 07Reply

poshgarden
Hi
Apr 09Reply

themagicarmoire
Thanks for the likes! I'm sorry this happened to you! 💗
Apr 09Reply

4tornados
@saracampbell
Thank you for your kind words and taking your time! Have a wonderful day:)
Apr 09Reply

tketzz
Hey just stumbled on to this. Sorry you have had such a bad experience. And thanks for posting. My experiences so far have been good but td good to know that we need to keep on our toes and that not everyone is honest. Hang in there Good triumphs always 💞💞💞
Apr 10Reply

4tornados
@tketzz
Thank you so much for your time and sweet thoughts. I feel bad because even though I posted "warning" it was more a warning about who I am and I didn't even think about other people going through the same types of situations. I do hope that I help someone else while I keep my name clear, lol. I also agree that good always wins, I'm not really upset I just felt like it was something that I needed to do. Thank you again so much, I really do appreciate you.
Apr 10Reply

4tornados
@queenie75
Thank you for taking your time:)
Apr 14Reply

bsociale
Hi Christina, This is ugly side of posh. I've had a similar experience and unfortunately things like this happen😩. It stinks but it's still pretty fun for the most part💕. Thanks for the ❤️too. Cheers💋
Apr 16Reply

4tornados
@bsociale
Hi, I'm sorry to find that it's happened to others as well. I expected better but that's ok and why I decided to defend myself. You're right though it didn't stop me from loving posh and there are so many nice people that they outshine the bad. Thank you so much for your supportive comments and taking your time to share with me! Have a wonderful day😊
Apr 16Reply

ringsthings
Hi Christina-
This has happened to me twice, on another site!!! I feel for u!!! I know how frustrating it is to have someone accuse u of foul play & know ur in the right, & having someone saying something else!!! HOW DARE THEY!!! U try ur best to always make sure ur customers r totally happy. It's too bad that u have to deal with someone with mental illness or maybe they had a bad day!!! And they take it out on u!!! U have my support.
Cheryl 🌷🌷🌷
Apr 16Reply

4tornados
@ringsthings
Hi,
I'm sorry that's terrible. I'm so naive that I expect from people what I would give and I was disappointed but all of the lovely ladies on here that are so sweet have really made me feel better about the entire thing. This makes me feel like I can trust so many and block a few and continue on poshing, lol! Thank you for sharing, for the kind words, and your time. I really appreciate everyone that has listened. Have a wonderful day.
Apr 16Reply

chanel456
Can't believe somebody would give you that kind of service! Poshmark is supposed to be a friendly way to buy and sell things problem free. I know how frustrating it can be getting bad service and try strive to be an honest buyer so that everyone is happy with my services😊
Apr 22Reply

4tornados
@Chanel456 Thank you for taking your time and sharing your support, it is comforting to know that others understand and try their best as well. I am going to start selling soon and I will use this experience as an example of what not to be. Have a wonderful day and Thank you again!
Apr 22Reply

ejeveryday
That ordeal sucks! Thank you for sharing your experience and getting the truth out there. Hopefully this bad apple doesn't ruin it for the rest of us honest folk 💝
Apr 22Reply

4tornados
@ejeveryday
Hi! It wasn't fun lol but the more I hear from people the more convinced I am that it an uncommon scenario and that makes me happy because I love to shop in here! Thank you so much for taking the your tome to read my experience and for your friendly comments. Have a great day!😊
Apr 22Reply

chanel456
No problem‼️ thank you for warning us about this seller
Apr 22Reply

ejeveryday
i've been on Posh buying/selling for several years now and i've read quite a few stories as well. You are not alone! but know that there are mostly really good sellers on here wanting to make this a safe and fun place to buy. glad you are still here! :)
Apr 22Reply

4tornados
@ejeveryday
Thank you again!!😊😊
Apr 22Reply

siennaacre
Hi Christina, thanks for liking my Alexander McQueen heels. There's some breathing room in the list price if you're interested. Have a great day! ✨
Apr 24Reply

carpe_diem_mt
Wow! Did poshmark resolve in your favor? You had all the evidence, right
May 01Reply

4tornados
@pattyyun
Hi,
Yes, they did. I had pictures of the item plus the actual conversations from her listing that contradicted each other. Posh paid for me to send the item back and she relisted them, that's why I was so incensed that she not only falsely accused me but continued with it after she got her item back.
May 01Reply

4tornados
@pattyyun
I have had items that were not what I expected before and I have never complained when it's clearly my fault for not reading correctly or missing something, I just live and learn to be more careful and ask questions. I expected the same honesty from another human being. Sorry, I know that's more than you asked for lol. Have a wonderful evening😊
May 01Reply

carpe_diem_mt
Wow that is really bad... I am sorry this happened to you... It is scary! But i believe in Karma lol. Well see you around and good luck
May 01Reply

4tornados
@pattyyun
Thank you, I believe you should treat others how you want to be treated, so I try regardless of someone else:) Have a lovely night.
May 01Reply

carpe_diem_mt
Yes! I totally agree! Good night 🌹🌺💖
May 01Reply

nativenyer
Hi! I'm new to Posh and just learning how everything works...so far my experiences have been good, but I have read a few stories like yours. I am so sorry that this happened to you. There will always be scammers and nasty people wherever you go, but there are many more people who are honest and kind. Plus, karma's a bitch, so she will get hers in the end. Wishing you the best!
May 08Reply

4tornados
@nativenyer
Hi there,
Thank you so much for taking the time to read about my experience and for your sweet words. I definitely believe that you should treat others how you want to be treated. I love love love posh and my good experiences far out way the bad so I'll stay;) Have a lovely night!
Thank you again
May 08Reply

ion0206
@4tornados wow,asa seller,you have all the right to return my items if you are not satisfied and I didn't disclosed anything about my item,I felt bad that happened to you dear.When I was new (couple of months ago)couple of poshers try to scam me too saying they didn't received the item,well the fact that they received it clearly said on their tracking number.,there's so many scammers here.and if you're an honest seller and buyer you will be fine .💕
May 10Reply

4tornados
@ion0206
Thank you for the supportive comments. I just purchased something that didn't work out for me and even though the seller felt bad I knew it was my responsibility to ask questions before hand. I gave her 5 stars and I kept the item and will figure something out to do with it.
May 11Reply

4tornados
@ion0206
Regarding the item in my listing, I am honest and the fact that I showed so much by screen shots and her selling the item that I supposedly scammed shows who was wrong. I love posh and will continue to be honest and enjoy myself. Have a wonderful evening and Thank you again!
May 11Reply

ion0206
@4tornados 💕💕💕💕you're always welcome ..I love posh ..so many things to buy too💕💕💕
May 11Reply

ion0206
@4tornados that lady just need some manners...the way she talk is kinda feisty ..problems sometimes happen but when you discuss it and talk things out ..it will be solved ...💕💕💕💕take care my dear and have a good night 🌸💕💕
May 11Reply

4tornados
@ion0206
By the way, as far as your experience I want to say I'm so sorry, I know how it feels when someone is dishonest and you have to defend yourself. I hope that those worked out for you and you don't have to deal with that again. Good luck with your business.😊
May 11Reply

cricket6187
I dealt with people like that.
You send them something, then the complain that its not new, are authentic,or else its damaged .i got yelled at by POSHMARK, and i was very angry.
They would not listen to me, cause they said the buyer is always right.
So yes i lost my money, and got in trouble
May 11Reply

4tornados
@cricket6187
Hello,
I'm so sorry that that happened. I would have understood if she had questioned me but she didn't and I didn't complain or treat her poorly I just sent them back. I would never abuse a seller and I do not agree that the buyer is always right! Everyone makes mistakes it's really sad that we can't be fair and kind to each other. I hope that you have much better experiences. Have a lovely night.
May 11Reply

4tornados
@sp08rp
Hello and Welcome!
Thank you for taking your time to read my experience and for your kind words:) I hope that you love posh! Have a wonderful day!
May 13Reply

rhongol
@4tornados same type incident hapoen to me - it is sad
May 16Reply

4tornados
@rhongol
Hello,
I'm sorry to read that, it is sad. At least those of us that have experienced these things can be supportive of each other, that lightens the burden that it places on a person a little:)
I hope that you still love posh, I do! Thank you for taking your time to read my experience and for sharing yours. Have a wonderful day!
May 16Reply

themissnixon
Welcome to posh doll🌷🌷
May 20Reply

4tornados
@themissnixon
Hello! Thank you:)
May 20Reply

triciatx
@4tornados When people post hateful stuff like that it makes them look bad, not you. Don't even worry about it. You did the right thing and followed proper protocol. No one should speak to a customer that way ever. 💕💕💕
May 21Reply

4tornados
@triciatx
Hello!
Thank you for your time spent reading my experience and for the more than sweet words. I can't imagine treating someone this way let alone someone that I would hope to do business with again but that's just me. Like I said before (I know I'm repeating myself) I was going to just ignore it but I really felt like others needed to know who I am from me. Thank you again so much it's nice to "meet" you. 😊❤️
May 21Reply

lettymckenzie
@4tornados People suck! But most of us are not bad! Right Shawny!!? You can follow me LOL. 💕🤔💕. I sure hope this doesn't happen to me. The bad thing is we get a shipping ticket with our address on it. @shawina22
May 26Reply

4tornados
@lettymckenzie
Hi!
Lol, Thank you:) I know most of posh isn't bad and I'm still here so the good is definitely worth it. Thank you for your thoughts and reading about my experience. I appreciate your time. Have a lovely day!
May 26Reply

needsnwants18
Sorry you went through all that! I think your track record of 100+ love notes speaks for itself. Sometimes people have to take responsibility for their actions and it's always better to under promise and over deliver 😜 happy poshing and thanks for checking out my closet!
Jun 04Reply

4tornados
@needsnwants18
Hello!
Thank you so much for taking the time to look at my notes, hehe I never even thought to add that to my explanation:) I really do enjoy posh and so many of the wonderful people. Thank you also for your kind words, I really appreciate you. Have a wonderful day!
Jun 05Reply

barneysbargains
Sometimes people can be very rude and disrespectful to others. I've been blocked by two people for making simple comments trying to be nice.
For the most part, everyone else has been kind and welcoming. So sorry that you had to go through this, but IMHO I'd take this post down and just move on to the nice, wonderful Poshers that are around!
Happy Poshing hon! Don't let one bad apple.....
Jun 13Reply

4tornados
@vasirois89
Hi,
Thank you so much for taking your time to read about my experience. I agree that people should take responsibility, maybe that's common sense that's not so common anymore;) I also like what you said about posh taking some responsibility as well I wish that they would insist on a certain level of etiquette. For now I guess I'll depend on nice, honest, fair people to believe who I am.
Jun 17Reply

4tornados
@vasirois89
I appreciate your comments, like the ones from other lovely posh ladies it makes me feel like I'm not alone and that posh is still a wonderful place to be. Have a wonderful day!
Jun 17Reply

travelinggirl68
@4tornados good for you for posting this!!! I'm so sorry you had a bad experience, but happy to see PM took care of you! ☺️💖
Jun 25Reply

snc1994
Thank you for your purchase!!
Jun 29Reply

4tornados
@travelinggirl68
Hello,
I am so sorry, I usually try to respond to comments right away and I forgot to! Thank you for your appreciation and for your kind thoughts. I really am grateful for all of the lovely comments and support that I've received, it was quite unexpected. I too was vary glad that posh backed up a member that followed their protocols:) Have a wonderful night!
Jul 01Reply

callielives
Well.... Thanks for stopping by my closet 🤗 feel free to make an offer on that Ivory Cream Quilted Moschino Bag you like. 😉😘
Jul 07Reply

trendycutedeals
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Jul 12Reply

ddz
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Jul 15Reply

foreverfortyone
Good morning. I came across your listing and I have to say some people are just rude. I had two very rude people post something on an item that was sold. It shocked me especially when I look at one of their profiles and she bragged about being a mother of 5. I blocked both of them. There are more nice people than rude people on Posh Mart. We just have to hope they go away on their own. You did the right thing by letting everyone know about this scammer. Thank you for sharing.
Jul 17Reply

garageondenny
@4tornados I'm fairly new to Posh and have been learning as I go, but I never thought about a reverse roll where the seller would do such a thing! It's unfair that people are rude, inconsiderate and lie. Why why why?!?! Well, good for you for posting your side, it's so true what you said, your reputation is everything; seller or buyer. 🎀 thanks for sharing!!
Jul 19Reply

sofatucker
Sorry that happened to you but I will disputed something if the seller says it's one thing and it's another. It's in the policy and your right 😀
Aug 15Reply

carolineemurphy
Hi I saw you like Lilly Pulitzer jewelry. I just added a new Lilly bracelet set to my closet. Come check it out because I am accepting offers on all of my listings❤️
Aug 22Reply

kamikundu
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Sep 05Reply

lucyintheskky
Thanks for the like:) get 20% off any bundle ❤️
Sep 05Reply

4tornados
@vritch
Hi,
I'm sorry that I've taken so long to respond! I agree about rude people, I would never do some of the things that I've seen on posh. I am glad to connect with so many nice people though, even if it is through something unfortunate.
Thank you for your time and your thoughts. :)
Sep 05Reply

hughescloset
@4tornados Wow. That was eye opening. Thank you for posting. Sorry that was your experience!
Oct 09Reply

gringa01
@4tornados I hope you don't let this one bad egg skew your idea of what Poshmark is all about. I will tell you I have never had anyone return any of my items, but myself have had to return more then I wanted. Poshmark does NOT let you return just anything anytime you want,they require you to show pics. for proof of your claim, if it's ripped or dirty or were sent the incorrect size etc... it then takes 24 hours after providing all that for their Return Board to decide if the return is approved.
Oct 22Reply

gringa01
@4tornados
So know us old PMs know who the real scammers are, the ones Selling without providing clear honest details about their items.
Oct 22Reply

leatherandgrace
Hey girl! Sorry you went through that. :( Please feel free to make an offer on that gorgeous DVF sweater top or a bundle - same or next day shipping! 💕
Feb 03Reply

ktivy
I'm so sorry that this happened to you:(
Feb 13Reply

pamthomas1960
@ 4tornados I read at least one of these stories almost everyday!!! People can be SO hateful to a perfect stranger. I see where some people resort to videoing when they pack to ship.for their safety. And what about those people who "steal" others pictures of items and build a closet not even owning any of it. Then they arrange trades and well........Yep.....SCAMMED!!! SAD.😠
Feb 23Reply

pamthomas1960
@4tornados I've ordered from over 109+ closets. The range of my items purchased is HUGE. I've gotten beautiful items. I've also received a FILTHY and ripped dress. I didn't even wanna touch it. I've opened boxes that look like they sent me their dirty laundry. Ugh! A shirt I loved and wore before I found a hole in it. It was a large oversized top with lots of material. And the white dress with very faint but noticable stains that looked like blue detergent had been poured on it.
Feb 23Reply

pamthomas1960
@4tornados Anyway, I've never sent anything back but sure wanted to. I only complained about the Nasty and torn dress and Posh split the $ amount with the seller and I. Wow. I'll leave you with my favorite Dr. Phil Quote...No matter how flat you make a pancake there's always 2 sides. Posh on honey!💜 I've also seen signs in closets saying DRAMA FREE.🚫 I kinda like that one!!!.☺ You've already felt all the Posh Love for you on here.💙💜💛 No worries.
Feb 23Reply

cabrams4
Hi there! Check out my denim JCrew skirt! 😊
Mar 14Reply

leeannjoy10
@4tornados I'm sorry about your issues! I too have experienced that twice on my earrings. I think my deal was buyers remorse. Lol. Oh well their loss! Thank you for share!
Mar 25Reply

theposhunic0rn
Hey there! Thank you so much for visiting my closet & liking an item ✨ all orders placed today will ship tomorrow morning 💃🏼 Happy Poshing!
Oct 11Reply

morrri_kittty
Hi dear, just a friendly reminder for “Accepting the order” if you have received the Locket! Thanks for shopping from my listings and you have a great day!
Jul 20Reply

4tornados
@morrri_kittty
I am so sorry, we have been out of town three different times and I stashed it away for safety and forgot. Thank you for the wonderful deal and the shipping. I’ll go into my purchases now.
Jul 20Reply

theresa369
Hi I tried to send you a 20% discount on the retro sundress. The system is refusing to put it through. Feel free to make an offer.
Aug 16Reply

sherryleane60
@tornadosmiss didn’t have to go , I love you so
Sep 02Reply
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