Please don't ask me to trade!

I have respect for all the poshers out there. That's why it drives me crazy when others come into someone else's closet and are disrespectful. A HUGE THING THAT BOTHERS ME is when someone comes into my closet and comments, "Trade?" I think that's rude. Maybe it's just me. But at least have the decency to say, "hey, would you be willing to trade?" That would be much more respectful of other poshers, their businesses, and their closets. Thank you!