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abstractdreams
Updated Jan 30
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Updated Jan 30

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I've been Poshing since 2012, I'm a Suggested User, Posh Mentor, Top 10% Seller/Sharer with outstanding ratings & trade feedback. This is a great app & I'd like us all to be successful! ✅FYI : Resale stores in the real world take 30%-50%, Posh's 20% is great & you don't have to schlep your stuff anywhere!👍🏽
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190 Comments
shitzkascloset
shitzkascloset Beyond amazing posher and PFF
Mar 05Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @lorascloset : Thank you Lora!! I try & appreciate it very much.💕
Mar 05Reply
bama11007
bama11007 @abstractdreams hey!! I hope you've been doing well! I'm just now getting back into the swing! Are there any PM AL events coming up?
Mar 09Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @bama11007 : Hi there! If anyone knows about upcoming AL events it's Kristi! @bamagirl017 but I share every event I see, so I'll try to remember your tag if I see any!👍🏽💕
Mar 09Reply
honestsell
honestsell Thanks for reminding me and sharing my closet:)))
Mar 19Reply
flutter_buys
flutter_buys Hi Linda! Hope you and the baby are both well. This is such a great listing! Maybe you can take a peek in my Closet! I haven't been doing many sales. Although I haven't been on for a bit too. But I think I need new items?? 🙃 Have a good night! 💕
Mar 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @honestsell : I've been here since 2012 & made mistakes early on and my closet was reported!👎🏽I try to give Posher's the 411 instead of reporting.👍🏽💕
Mar 19Reply
honestsell
honestsell I appreciated brunch:)))
Mar 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kcford24 : Are you kidding...? You have a great closet! Patience is the hardest part of Poshing I think.💕
Mar 19Reply
flutter_buys
flutter_buys Yes I will agree with that one for sure! lol. My sister used to say just " wait." lol. But I think I'm now gonna relax a bit more. My health just needs attention. 😉
Mar 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kcford24 : for sure! Taking care of you has got to be priority #1 or at least #2!👍🏽💕
Mar 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kcford24 : I am not a patient girl, so it's easier for me to say than to do.😳Lol! Spring is historically a S-L-O-W time for sales! This is my fourth & it's the same every year.😕
Mar 20Reply
flutter_buys
flutter_buys Wow, 4 years! It will be 1 in May! lol! Summer was kinda good last year. But I hosted so that helped a bit too. But we'll see! 😃
Mar 20Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @carmelacandy : Lmk if I can help!👍🏽💋
Mar 28Reply
carmelacandy
carmelacandy @abstractdreams Thank you so much Linda! I'm still trying to figure things out. 😄 Can you tell me how you share your whole closet? I see the share button but then where do you share it? Facebook? Does it put a link on my fb page? I'm just wondering. My other shares go to my followers so I just wasn't sure. Thanks again for your help! 😍
Mar 28Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @carmelacandy : There is a bit of a learning curve. I've been here a long time (4 years this May) and I'm happy to help. Regarding sharing an entire closet: if you click on the box in the upper right in a closet, there's an option to share this closet : to FB, Pinterest, Instagram, Twitter...etc (also where report/block & view bundle buttons are). Lmk if that's clear...👍🏽💕
Mar 28Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @carmelacandy : It also works for your own closet!👍🏽🤓
Mar 28Reply
carmelacandy
carmelacandy So what does it look like if you share your closet to fb? Do all my friends get a link to my closet or do all my items actually show up on my fb page? Sorry if this is a dumb question. 😜
Mar 28Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @carmelacandy : No dumb questions.👍🏽Your items actually show up in your FB Home page. I'm not sure about other Posher's items as I only share here. It is my understanding that more sales are generated by sharing to social media sites.
Mar 28Reply
carmelacandy
carmelacandy Ok great! That makes sense. Thanks again! 😍 You are awesome!
Mar 28Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams Yes...yes I am!🤓Lol!! Thx!
Mar 28Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @carmelacandy : 👆🏽👍🏽
Mar 28Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : Hi cutie!💋I never have, but I go to ridiculous lengths in detailing my items. I did however get my first 4 star (with no comment) review. I have thanked her, regardless & asked what I could have done better, but she was difficult to communicate with before & after sale, never responding. So...whatever.😕Did PM agree??
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : oddly w/ the MK bag, it seems like she's buying it for a child. ???
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams You might make a listing saying that...many buyers who've been burned do. You know..."these items are used, not new & described accurately as to condition." Something like that. @jennagal
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : Don't do that...at least not for this reason!😕The internet just makes some ppl kinda nasty & you cannot make some ppl happy no matter what you do! Like the one I mentioned, it was an offer transaction that disappeared, so I was unable to print a label. I'm not feeling great, so I thought I misunderstood & she had not bought the item, since no label & it wasn't marked Sold...
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : I apologized for any confusion created by my thanking her for a sale she "apparently" had not made. Well she responds right away (the only time) & says she thought she "bought them for..." less than we agreed on as it turns out!! I gave them to her for that price & mailed pkg the same day!!! Included all the extras I usually do. And get 4 stars.😕👎🏽
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : I am sorry to inform you that (although it makes no sense) blocking only stops someone from commenting, they can still buy. Wth's the point, right??👎🏽😠
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : or just decline right out of the gate! That could be what cost me the star, but I even set a lower price to try & get that chick reduced shipping, which she may have gotten and never said "thx" for a single thing (really?? Ok) & declined when she repeated her original low offer! Then she actually offered 65% less than list on something else!!👎🏽
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams Yeah...the chick I'm talking about started in Feb or March & is a buyer only. Buh buy Felicia!👋🏽Lol!! @jennagal Don't sweat it hon.💋
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : ikr?? Lol! I was tempted to tell her that success here, for sellers and buyers is very much about communication! But... I chose not to "engage" as per Posh support's advice over the years.
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : brat in training...my kids were raised on resale/thrift shopping even tho my ex made boat loads of money!
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : In life and Posh!!👍🏽💋
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams More like 0 seller protection.👎🏽 @jennagal I'd ask for a detailed explaination.
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : I wish I could tell you that this situation was the exception, but it's not. I know Posher's who've been here for years, who are even SU's who could tell similar stories. You said it Spot On...It's not right!!👎🏽😠
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams Right?? Wtf is up with that?? ? How can we protect ourselves?😳 @jennagal
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : I don't mind the 20%. It's way less than brick & morter resale stores. They take 35-50% & you have to schlep your stuff there & back! But...no one can take unfair advantage of you. That's worth something.
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : I did a bit of research on that spp when they started using ppl here to get members. There are hundreds of complaints at the BBB because they randomly kick ppl off & keep their profits!!👎🏽Not to mention complaints about drama. Uh...no thank you!
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams It's almost over...tomorrow will be better!👍🏽 @jennagal
Mar 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : For sure! It's ridiculous! Not to mention she's been here like...15 minutes and has all kinds of "unsupported" items in her closet!!👎🏽I say it again...Wtf??😕
Mar 31Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams Sorry, I had a Dr's appt. It is and it happens all the time!👎🏽Like I said yesterday, it's not the exception!😕 @jennagal That's one of the reasons that I gave up want to host a party or be a SU. It seems to be meaningless. I'm just here to make some friends💋 & sell my sh!t! Lol! @jennagal
Mar 31Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @jennagal : B-I-N-G-O!! We have a winner!! Lol!!👍🏽💕
Mar 31Reply
tipsy4me2
tipsy4me2 Love this listing, so nice of you to help. Wondering if you could take a peek I'm hitting a wall I feel and trying to
Apr 09Reply
tipsy4me2
tipsy4me2 Accidentally hit send, LOL. Just wanted someone else's opinion just to see if on right track, thanks 😄
Apr 09Reply
newlook4you
newlook4you @abstractdreams hi, I need help posting a pic within a pic, like how you show side by side examples or multiple pic in one. I have asked the support team,and was told to download a pic and then edit, I have done that several times, and it still doesn't work I'm starting to think its my phone, thanks.
May 01Reply
deborahrn
deborahrn I just saw this. ..Thank you so much for all your help. ..I've been trying to follow all rules. ..some of the follow, tag and knowing how to list all my PFF followers is confusing to us older social media users. Thanks again. I know where to look now. Very kind of you!
May 08Reply
kktexasgal
kktexasgal Hi 🤗 since you're a mentor, I'm coming to you with a question! I was moving my items in my closet because of a sale (what a pain to get those at the bottom) and one of my dresses ended up with a yellow "Reserved" banner where the sold banner would be 😳 I have no idea if you can reserve something? If so, can you explain how? Thanks!!!🌺
May 29Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kendaklocks : Yellow "Reserved" banners pop up when someone's buying. An item is reserved for 10 minutes or so in case a buyer needs to manage or change cc info!👍🏽
May 29Reply
kktexasgal
kktexasgal Thank you! I thought it might be something like that 😎 bummer they didn't buy lol! Thanks for all your shares, too😘
May 29Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kendaklocks : Ikr? Sometime's ppl hit buy accidentally or just change their minds.😕My pleasure to help...anytime, I'm here every day.👍🏽💕
May 29Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kendaklocks : I should actually read entire comments. Lol! You're welcome! You have a great closet! Thx to u too!💋
May 29Reply
slroland
slroland Linda thanks for the likes and shares , sorry to about illness , yes I have epilepsy and rheumatoid arthritis very painfully The physician gave me 15mg of meloxicam It doesn't help , my joints are in constant pain I could go on , and I find people really don't know how much pain you're in, hope you have more better days than good one
Jun 04Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @slroland : I am not one of those ppl hon, I know exactly. 💕 15 mgs of mobic may not do the trick, but there are tons of other options, so make sure your doc knows it's not working! Make your dr do their job!👍🏽Do you have a good Rheumatologist?
Jun 04Reply
slroland
slroland @abstractdreams Working on it,
Jun 04Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @slroland : I think, for ppl like us that relationship is one of the most important there is!!😳
Jun 04Reply
slroland
slroland @abstractdreams You're so right💕
Jun 04Reply
beelovely1
beelovely1 Thanks for all the shares, love! Appreciate your wisdom and guidance. Happy poshing! 💛
Jun 05Reply
jackboisgirl
jackboisgirl I just wanted to say THANK YOU so very much for all the shares!!!! Amazingly sweet!!!
Jun 08Reply
berryunique
berryunique Hi, this is so cool of you. I wish I had seen something like this when I first started. Just wondering if you could take a peek and tell me if you see something wrong that I can fix
Jun 09Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @berryunique : I'd be happy to! Give me a sec.👍🏽💋
Jun 09Reply
gypsysoulboho
gypsysoulboho You're a poshmark fairy I swear😜 thank for all of the love you've showed my page today ❤️💕💘👌🏼👍🏼💯
Jun 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @gypsysoulboho : Then I'm doin' it right!👍🏽Thx to you as well!💋If I can help, lmk.
Jun 10Reply
gypsysoulboho
gypsysoulboho Actually yes! What's your personal opinion about my page and listings?
Jun 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @gypsysoulboho : A couple things. First you've got good pics, reasonable prices and you've done well in a short time!👍🏽Sharing is critical & you get that! You could use more followers tho (since that's who sees your shares)! A good way to get them is a "follow me" listing, but a faster way is by following all the ppl who "like" Party Hosts party listings! The Posher's saying congrats are active & fired UP!
Jun 10Reply
gypsysoulboho
gypsysoulboho Wow you're brilliant, of course that's a great idea! Thank you for your feedback and time, maybe I'll have a page like yours one day👌🏼😁💘
Jun 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @gypsysoulboho : It's taken 4 years, but it's a work in progress!👍🏽Tag me if/when you do a follow listing & I'll tag some wonder-Poshers, we'll get it started & your followers will increase before you know it!💋
Jun 10Reply
gypsysoulboho
gypsysoulboho Already on it 😁
Jun 10Reply
cherryblast
cherryblast @abstractdreams @jennagal hi I was Reading your convo-yep I do read a lot of what ppl write here! Lol anyway, I wanted to comment on my first and only problem since I've been with posh. (Same as Linda, long time) I got an email From posh saying an item I had sold was being disputed. It said it wasn't as described. I asked the person who said it and she said "you told me the septum piercing ring was new, and it wasn't. It had nose skin in it ". I wrote her back and said that's impossible.
Jun 11Reply
cherryblast
cherryblast I bought it for my daughter and she didn't like it. Now before sending, she asked for more pictures, so I took it out of the package to take more pictures. (Next time I will not do this!) so she could see exactly how it looked. I emailed posh and told them how long id been with them, this had never happened, and that this wasn't true. (Told them to look at post etc..) well their decision was for us both. I got paid and She got a refund and got to keep the item. It made me really angry.
Jun 11Reply
cherryblast
cherryblast I don't think it's fair she got to keep it and get refunded when she straight up lied. Nose skin?? On a brand new ring? She told me at first she just didn't like it and wanted a diff one. Angry posh basically gave her money back and the item.
Jun 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @cherryblast @jennagal : It's not right & is just bad business!👎🏽It encourages the trolls who already make life miserable here!
Jun 11Reply
cherryblast
cherryblast @abstractdreams @jennagal I agree 100%. I think from now on I am going to be a bit more hesitant when ppl ask for a ton of pics. It's making me Leary. The only Thing we can't do anything about is the buyers who aren't on posh like we are. They never release funds!!
Jun 11Reply
angelwings56
angelwings56 How do I bookmark a closet?
Jun 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @angelwings56 : You simply like a listing, so it's always in your likes until you unlike it. Some ppl have "bookmark" listings & some use their meet the Posher listings.👍🏽
Jun 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @cherryblast @jennagal : No...YOU two are funny!! 😆 I couldn't care less about the $, because I know it's coming in a few days & I'm never shopping that close to my fund limit! I have a bigger prob with ppl who don't/won't communicate, never say thx (or kiss my fanny) and/or rate less than 5 stars for no reason!👎🏽
Jun 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @angelwings56 : My pleasure Amy!👍🏽💋
Jun 11Reply
angelwings56
angelwings56 How do I find the people I'm following? I will follow some people and look at there closet when I have the time, but I don't know where to find them?
Jun 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @angelwings56 : At the top of your closet, click on followers or following & it will take you to a list!👍🏽It's good to do periodically.
Jun 13Reply
angelwings56
angelwings56 Found it 😊 Thank you so much for helping me out 😊
Jun 13Reply
angelwings56
angelwings56 On your Do's and Don't's do those rules just apply to your closet or is that Poshmarks official rules?
Jun 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @angelwings56 : My closet rule is basically just be nice! Lol! Those are Poshmark Selling Guidelines in a nutshell! I thought more ppl would read them broken into nice bite-size bits!👍🏽
Jun 13Reply
angelwings56
angelwings56 Ok I see alot of people selling used makeup and I think that's gross lol so I was just wondering about the rules. Thank you 😊
Jun 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @angelwings56 : Many ppl don't know about the guidelines & many just don't care. It is gross & I think if my bacteria on my own used makeup can make me sick...I'm not taking chances with someone else's!👎🏽
Jun 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @writeratlarge : Lmk if I can help or you have questions!👍🏽💕
Jun 26Reply
writeratlarge
writeratlarge Thank you and I definitely will stay in touch!
Jun 26Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @writeratlarge : 👍🏽Can I ask what you write?
Jun 26Reply
writeratlarge
writeratlarge Of course. I've done a lot of different kinds of writing. Published articles and essays. Advertising. Catalog copy. Website copy. Video scripts. PR materials. My portfolio is www.thewriteratlarge.com :)
Jun 26Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @writeratlarge : I'll check it out!!👍🏽🤓
Jun 26Reply
paigecxo
paigecxo I have a question! I am looking for a specific bathing suit and I have not found one yet (one that is for sale, of course.) do you know about any common online websites that the suit would be at? Thank you. Also, if you have merc, could you search the bathing suit name and see if they have it before I make an account for merc? "Jolyn nico" or "jolyn nico onesie..?" Jolyn is the brand and the nico is the style. I need to get this in time for my sister's bday! Sorry for throwing this @ you.
Jul 07Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams Hi Linda! I hope you're doing well? May I ask a question here please? 😉😍
Aug 10Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 Hi! Can you tell me how to share my closet to Instagram? Also, how to share new closets? Is it Follow, Like & Share their Meet the Posher listing? It seems like I do it a lot but my stats don't reflect that. I almost always say "Hi, etc.," too.
Aug 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : You enable sharing an entire closet to other platforms in your own settings. Then each time you actually share, on that page below where you click followers or Party, you'll see the platforms you've enabled in green. FB/Instagram/Pinterest are all there. Sharing inside of the Posh app has to be done 1 listing at a time. I don't know that shares are updated by the second or if you have to hit a number before your share total changes.
Aug 10Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams Thanks so very much!! I'm gonna check my phone settings!! ❤️🌹❤️🌹❤️
Aug 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : Just to be clear, I meant your Posh settings. Right? It used to be near the section where notifications set up was.👍🏽
Aug 10Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams Linda, I think I got it changed! 🙌🏻 Thank you, sweety!! 💖💖
Aug 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : Excellent! I was worried that I wasn't clear & had just confused things!😳
Aug 10Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams I think I got it! I'm so untechnological when it comes to all this. I have several editing apps on my phone but can't figure them out. Which one do you use? Are you on IG and/or FB or Pinterest?
Aug 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : No, it has nothing to do with photo editing. it's a setting here on Posh. I only share here, tho I have accts on FB/IG/Pinterest. So u need to go to yout acct set up here. Let me check one thing. Brb.
Aug 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : Ok. Go to where your closet stats & all that stuff is. Scroll down & you'll see "My share settings" click on it & that's where u set up sharing to the other platforms.👍🏽
Aug 11Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams Yes, I did that. I was saying I had gotten it figured out. Sorry..I changed the subject on you 🙃 then I was gonna see if you were on the others so you could see if it worked. 😉☺️😍
Aug 11Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams And I was asking which app you use to make all these cutesy pics! 😍
Aug 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : Sorry Kim. Sunday was 1 month since I lost Miss Ebony, and I seem to have taken a giant step backward in the grief process. I'm not sleeping well at all, so my brain is a bit fuzzy. Lol!😳This cartoon app is called Bitmoji. It comes with an emoji keybd as well.👍🏽💕
Aug 11Reply
kimkjc2
kimkjc2 @abstractdreams Linda, I'm so sorry you're still having such a rough time!! I hope that you will feel better soon, sweety! I'll keep you in my prayers. ❤️❤️ Thanks for answering all of my questions!!
Aug 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @kimkjc2 : Thx hon, I'm happy to. It's the only aspect of Posh that I can manage. It helps me to help, I think.💕👍🏽
Aug 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @mgsmitty : I'm glad you found me too! Lmk if you have questions or I can help!👍🏽💕
Aug 22Reply
secondlovedco
secondlovedco @abstractdreams Hello Linda! It's been a while since I have heard from you! Just wanted to catch up some shares and send you some love! 😘 I hope you have been keeping cool this summer! XOXO- Hannah
Aug 29Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @247mommieto3 : Good morning sweetie!💕I'm not back to top Poshing form. Just pop in to return messages. I'm still struggling with Miss Ebony's loss💔 & working my way thru the grief now that I found a couple good books on pet loss/bereavement. I cannot believe the Summer's nearly over! I feel like I didn't go anywhere, do anything or see anyone!👎🏽Hope you all are well!💋
Aug 30Reply
51twenty
51twenty Hi Linda. How are you?
Sep 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams It was this message I was talking about missing. Lol!
Sep 20Reply
51twenty
51twenty Good morning Linda. I'm in LA How are you this morning?? I'm a little unsettled. I got an email from PM on the Posh N Sip noting my name for credit and they sent it to my kids closet address. It was something we did together. That doesn't sit well with me. Have you seen the article?
Sep 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @51twenty : Oh! No...what article? Try not to stress about it...can you just shoot them a quick email response? Or lmk if I should do anything.
Sep 30Reply
vb2011
vb2011 @abstractdreams Linda, I'm a new Posher and you offered to help so here I am. 🙋 Would you please look at my Hunter boot listing? I got an offer in the comments. Can you check her out? I want to be careful. How should I proceed? only sold 1 small item so far. 🤗
Oct 08Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vb2011 : Sorry Karen, I've been dealing with a migraine for a few days so I missed this. First Congrats🎉on making a Sale! That's pretty fast, it took me months when I started!🎉It's up to you how much you discount individual items or if you even do. I generally discount approx 10-12% off mine, but may go to the offer at that price point.👍🏽❣
Oct 10Reply
vb2011
vb2011 @abstractdreams Linda, I hope you are feeling better. 😀 I didn't see her comment for about an hour and she never replied back to my comment, so no sale. Thanks for your advice though, I'll keep that in mind. I'll have to pay for extra shipping as they will be over 5 pounds. Take care of yourself. Thanks again for your help.
Oct 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vb2011 : I replied to your post right before walking out the door to man a voter registration table. In that case, I would not discount. If they're over, I'd factor shipping into price (maybe u did) & say "Price Firm." My headaches are strange, I may have further injured my spine/neck, they're more frequent.👎🏽After they go away I've lost days & feel like I've been run over by a truck!
Oct 10Reply
vb2011
vb2011 @abstractdreams Linda, I'm been obsessively sharing and being a good posher, but I'm in a pain flare and for the most part took today off. Of course, the one day I'm not on Poshmark all day, I just discovered I'm a host pick at tonight's party and it is almost over!!!! 😫🙈 What is the proper etiquette? How do I thank the hosts? Should I be sharing their closets to the party? I never knew this would happen so haven't read up on it. 🤗 Feel terrible that I didn't know.
Oct 21Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vb2011 : 🎉Congrats!🎉Good4U! I'm almost never awake for the night time parties. Missing a notification happens all the time. I always change the listing/edit the pic to say HP, thank the host for thinking of me (and also the ppl who congratulated me), I return the shares & share bomb the hostess (I ask them not to return the shares) to say an extra thx!👍🏽
Oct 21Reply
vb2011
vb2011 @abstractdreams I woke up from my nap to read all your encouraging comments and share bomb. 😀 I love that you have this listing to help others. I want to do this too once I figure everything out. Thanks for the advice and help. I'm getting ready to start right now! I'm feeling better -- still in flare up, but can concentrate now. 🤓
Oct 21Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vb2011 : I'm sorry to hear that hon. But I get it totally! Fall (and Spring) are very difficult for me, too, I'm feeling pretty crappy today!😖👎🏽It's funny, I made this listing when I decided I would Posh like a SU even tho I din't think I was ever going to get it! Lol! When ever Bitmoji comes out with new seasons/clothes/images I try to figure out how they will translate here!😃👍🏽
Oct 21Reply
vintagegirl_kbp
vintagegirl_kbp Hi there, my name is Kim and I am new to this! I love your closet and most importantly I love the generosity and spirit you have and wanting to help others so I know I've only been at this week and have hundreds of items to list but if you could take a look and offer any suggestions to me I would greatly appreciate it! ❤️️💕❤️️
Oct 29Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vintagegirl_kbp : Happy to! Thank you for the kind words!💋I'm doing election related txts until noonish, so I'll check your closet in between & respond in there.👍🏽💕In the meantime, you can type your city into the search feature & find/follow local Poshers in your area.
Oct 29Reply
vb2011
vb2011 @abstractdreams Linda, I'm so thankful you have this post! I have only given 5 start and love notes to my sellers so far but had negative experience & can't decide if it's worth it to open a case over a $13 necklace. I don't want to hurt someone's ratings. I asked if there was tarnish - looked tarnished, was it uniform in color. She said never worn just slightly darker area at very top - that photos just dark. Continued
Nov 01Reply
vb2011
vb2011 @abstractdreams I looked at necklace this morning. Little dark tarnish areas on necklace chain and top of chain is very dark, not just slightly at top as stated. It arrived with no tissue paper or other packing materials, etc. -- just necklace tossed in w/ card rattling around in box. It was twisted and knotted up in several places, and still has kinks at top from unknotting. Advice? Meanwhile, at hospital. Dad had stroke can't talk, paralyzed on right side. 😟
Nov 01Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vb2011 : I'm sorry to hear your dad's not well Karen.💕Take good care of yourself, while you're taking care of him!👍🏽You'll get a refund... people cannot be deceptive in describing items & careless in packaging! It will ruin Posh's reputation!👎🏽What's the point of a card if the necklace is thrown in the box to get tangled! Without consequences some ppl never learn!
Nov 01Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @bellelunana @vintagegirl_kbp : Actually, if you read comments, I was asked for my help.
Nov 05Reply
vlsavell
vlsavell Good To Know, But Actually About A A Month 1/2 ago ,$4.000 Of Fraud Was Almost Done On One Of My Credit Cards , & Now Last Week My LapTop Was Hacked Soooo Now Im NOT Really Knowing What to Think Anymoee. Ive Purchase stuff ,Ive Shared But I Havent Sold Not 1 Thing !
Nov 10Reply
vlsavell
vlsavell BUT IM Still On Gere Ciz Ice Meet Sone Amazing Ladies & Bought Some Great Things 💝💝
Nov 10Reply
vlsavell
vlsavell I Think Im Trying To Be Scamned !
Nov 10Reply
vlsavell
vlsavell IscTherecA Phosh photomaker?
Nov 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vlsavell : Not that I'm aware of. What's going on?
Nov 10Reply
vicky_ymcagirl
vicky_ymcagirl Just start singing 🎶 YMCA 🎶 maybe that will trigger my new name! ☺️ I'm glad you found me..every time I see a cute kitty item I think about you ❤️.
Nov 14Reply
vicky_ymcagirl
vicky_ymcagirl @loopholer just FYI....👍
Nov 14Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @vicky_ymcagirl : Feel free to tag me. @nia1113 does!👍🏽And it is appreciated! I'm still not in the best place emotionally, it's been a pretty rough year, but kitty stuff makes me smile.❣
Nov 14Reply
loopholer
loopholer Wonderful thank you I really appreciate it I feel like a Emma overrun with that kind of stuff because I didn't really have one when I started I got adopted which was great but it's nice to have someone to refer other people to as well our places to thank you when I check this out in just a little bit I just had too much of a laughing fit😃😃😃😃
Nov 14Reply
ijkelly
ijkelly 💗💗💗Thank you for all that posh love 💗💗💗
Jan 16Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @sherree8456 : The cartoon me is Bitmoji & the frames are different photo editing apps (I only use free apps). I use A Beautiful Mess, Photo Grid and Your Moments.
Jan 31Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @sherree8456 : My pleasure! There's a theory that sharing your own closet 3x a day is the ideal (I don't & you've done really well, not doing it). But the more you share, or other Poshers share for you...the more Sales you'll make! A bundle discount can help too...it offsets shipping costs for people.
Jan 31Reply
the_body_shop
the_body_shop Hey lady. Hope you are doing well. I'm seeing so many posting skincare items. And although I don't see it specifics saying no somewhere I don't see it saying yes. I know you'd know. I want to never do a no no.
Feb 16Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Only makeup allowed. Skincare/Beauty/Cleaning/Anti-Aging/Creams/Lotions & related products are NOT allowed!
Feb 16Reply
karladex
karladex @abstractdreams I have a question for you. I had a Posher ask me to email them about one of my listings. In the yr I have been on Poshmark I have never had anyone ask me to do that. Something just doesn't feel right. I feel like everything should be handled on Poshmark. This person is a buyer only. No items listed in their closet. What are your thoughts?
Jul 30Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @karladex Sorry, I lost power yesterday so I was not Poshing, trying to save battery. I hope you didn't email them!! Those are Phishing SCAMS trying to get access to your email! If you did, no worries, just change your passwords ASAP & be sure to report them!
Jul 31Reply
karladex
karladex @abstractdreams thank you!! I did not email and reported. Thanks again!!
Jul 31Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @karladex : Whew! Good! I'm happy to help, any time!👍🏼❣
Jul 31Reply
karladex
karladex @abstractdreams I went with my gut!! Glad I did.
Jul 31Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @karladex Critical thinking pays off again!!👍🏼😂
Jul 31Reply
thatposhlyfe
thatposhlyfe Thank you for offering this! I am having trouble moving some of my items. Was wondering if you would take a look at my board and give me some feedback? Anything I can improve on?? 😊
Sep 03Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @nikitagirl09 Give me one sec! I'll comment in your closet.👍🏼❣
Sep 03Reply
colesgrammy53
colesgrammy53 I'm ready for the koo koo house. I have photoed and deleted thou sounds of pics. I'm not happy with them. My stuff won't move. What am I doing wrong?
Oct 23Reply
colesgrammy53
colesgrammy53 I have an Android phone. I have down loaded every single camera app,editor,poster maker,collage maker .hundred upon hundreds of photos I have took only to delete
Oct 23Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @colesgrammy53 : I can tell you that 5 Sales in 3 months is GREAT! I didn't make a single sale for months when I first started in 2012! Don't make yourself crazy with pics!! What makes a difference is clear & well lit, close up of details. Specific, detailed descriptions help too. Shares = Sales! No one sees items otherwise! You need more followers too since that's who sees your shares!
Oct 23Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @colesgrammy53 : A follow me listing helps, but I think a faster way is to follow ALL the Posters on Party Host listings!! The Posters there are active & fired UP! Lmk if you have any other questions.👍🏼💕
Oct 23Reply
colesgrammy53
colesgrammy53 @abstractdreams Thank you.Greatly appreciate all your help and time.😘💗😉❤
Oct 23Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @colesgrammy53 I hope I was clear. Lmk if you need anything else!
Oct 23Reply
colesgrammy53
colesgrammy53 @abstractdreams Yes you did!,I grabbed all items and doing my closet from scratch.gonna take time but I'm not giving up
Oct 25Reply
colesgrammy53
colesgrammy53 @abstractdreams I can't thank you enough for all the sharing you did and taking time from your day to help me💗😘😊
Oct 25Reply
sohoboho
sohoboho Hi Linda, what is the best way to get my items chosen as a Host Pick? Do I need to RSVP to get picked? Should I share my items more than once to the Party during the Party to increase my chances of getting picked? Thanks for your help!
Nov 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @sohoboho Good morning! Items can only be shared to a Party 1x due to a Posh algorithm. RSVPing, sharing items often, and congratulating Party Hosts gets you on their radar! Many hosts choose HP's from their Party listings. Following ALL the Posters there helps grow your closet quickly as well. Critical since your followers are who see your shares. Posters there are active (important) & fired UP!👍🏼
Nov 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams Poshers...not Posters. Damn auto-correct.
Nov 13Reply
sohoboho
sohoboho Linda thank you so much! I do have one more question. I noticed many women are selling Boutique only items. How can that endeavor be profitable since anyone on Posh can buy those same items through Wholesale? I would like to eventually become a Boutique seller but I want to make sure I do it profitably. Any pointers or knowledge about how that works would be much appreciated.
Nov 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @sohoboho With all due respect to Posh/Wholesalers, I have never purchased for that reason. The RSP & the prices I see the boutique items actually selling for are WAY OFF! If you have a wholesale hookup you may be able to make a profit. Make absolutely sure items are Posh compliant before you purchase tho. I know a few Poshers who lost BIG buying items that aren’t - just because they saw others selling them.💔
Nov 13Reply
sohoboho
sohoboho Linda thank you again you are so helpful. I have one final question. Thanks for being so patient with your answers. What App do people use to create fun artful listings with writing and artwork like the one you created of your cartoon self?
Nov 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @sohoboho My pleasure hon. Mentoring is actually my fave part of Posh. If I sell something, that's gravy! My favorite FUN photo apps are : ImageChef (photo templates 4 your txt), PhotoGrid & A Beautiful Mess. I was BORN to be a cartoon & those are Bitmoji & Zmoji!
Nov 13Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @sohoboho They're ALL FREE! 👍🏼💋
Nov 13Reply
sohoboho
sohoboho @abstractdreams Thank you so much!
Nov 13Reply
thebowtique
thebowtique @abstractdreams all your PoshMark listings are very helpful!
Nov 21Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @trendyselection Thank you, I try. One of my early mentors (queenmumm) has a saying in her closet (along with many really useful Q-Tips & a great blog) ‘Each One, Teach One’ - as the mom of a Special Ed teacher, I took that to heart! Mentoring is my favorite thing about Posh. If I sell...that’s gravy!
Nov 21Reply
thebowtique
thebowtique @abstractdreams I will have to check that blog out, is it on the PoshMark blog? I am firm a believer in mentor and mentee relations. I need all the mentoring I can get with life and Poshmark😉. I work in the field of special education myself, how ironic 💁❤️. I will be on the look out for your listings on all of your recommendations, tips, tricks, and PoshVetern knowledge. I will let you know now you are my go to POSHER for Posh expertise & I will be requesting your help.
Nov 22Reply
thebowtique
thebowtique @abstractdreams May I request at your leisure, of course...if you could browse my closet and give me feedback please ? Thank you for being a seasoned and welcoming PoshVet.
Nov 22Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @trendyselection I’m HaPpY to hear that the info is helpful! Brenda’s blog is many things & has it’s own ‘Keep Calm’ listing in my closet : it’s www.midlifealamode.com Her closet is a valuable resource as well! I’ll be happy to check out your closet, give me a sec. I’m baking shortbread & need to be careful!
Nov 22Reply
datpiff99
datpiff99 Awesome! Thanks
Nov 26Reply
ladybugluxe
ladybugluxe Thank you so much! I have been doing this full time sort of since August! I have a ton to learn! You are so sweet
Dec 04Reply
alexpeacock2017
alexpeacock2017 @abstractdreams can you please tell me if there is a way to offer a private discounted price to someone who has liked one of my listings?
Jan 16Reply
51twenty
51twenty Hi Linda. How’s it going?
Jan 30Reply
goldenpolkadot
goldenpolkadot @abstractdreams is it ok to post the situation about the follows here too loveeeze in case someone else changed or changes names its a big deal cuz we spend so much time gaining followers i hate loosing them
Feb 08Reply
krvb2
krvb2 I have a question. I am a newer Posher (I’ve had 100% good experiences so far buying and selling). However, sometimes I just get it wrong and buy the wrong size. In my busy busy life, I don’t have time to do returns or haggle a seller for a return, what is the proper protocol for re-selling something that doesn’t fit... or is there one? In other words, if I bought from you and re sold on Poshmark because it didn’t fit, is that offensive?
Apr 06Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @krvb2 Not at all! Asking for measurements can help, but many Poshers are not accurate, so it happens. I clearly state that it’s a rePosh, and often give the orig seller a shout out & tag their closet. It alerts them & can smooth over any issues. I’m pretty sure that Posh only does returns for damage, misleading descriptions and/or fakes. So asking a TON of questions helps both the buyer and the seller. 👍🏼💕
Apr 06Reply
krvb2
krvb2 @abstractdreams Thank you!!
Apr 08Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @krvb2 👍🏼💋
Apr 08Reply
ladyobirds
ladyobirds Hi. New to PM . How can I share items/closet if I only do fb? Thx for your input!
Sep 29Reply
2ndtimeearound
2ndtimeearound @abstract-dreams could you take a look at my closet and give me some feedback. I'm a newbie, but very coachable. My main issue is what to post first. I'm blessed and cursed with having a 2,600 sq ft home filled with anything you can imagine. I'm stuck because I don't where to start. There's a lot of us here with physical issues but Posh keeps me distracted from having a pity party. Good lick guys, come visit my closet.
Jan 11Reply
dniko
dniko Thank you for helpful posts❤️. Have a blessed day 🙏💕❤️ dniko
Sep 05Reply

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