Looking for trusted traders

I know there are a lot of us. I love a trade!! Like money out there I don’t have a lot of money to spend on a high-end purses and jewelry that I adore! So, coincidentally some things I don’t mind letting go and getting something new! IF …it’s something that is agreed upon by both parties, equal trade value, and something I would love to own ! I have over 300+ trades plus positive reviews. Unfortunately, if you but if you are not well known around the Posh community for trading. Then YOU MUST SHIP FIRST!! This rule is nonnegotiable ! If you have a problem with that, then we have no business trading just skip my closet and move to the next !! If we haven’t traded in the past, although you have an extended trade history! Then I don’t mind shipping at the same time !