LOVE SHOULDN'T HURT

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I AM NOT A VICTIM. I AM A SURVIVOR. when you buy from me, you allow me to help provide for my son and pay my bills. Due to domestic trauma, I have severe anxiety and PTSD that doesn't allow me to work outside the home.

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lojohill I have been there,done that and I applaud you!

Nov 08Reply

momandsonduo @lojohill thank you, its definitely not easy.

Nov 08Reply

lauraliz1986 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

Dec 10Reply

unfoldwings Me too. 16 years of it. Finally left but it was scary and messy. Im a single mom to my beautiful daughter who is now 4 - I can honestly credit her life for saving mine. Stay strong dear - we all stand together. 💕💕

Jan 22Reply

momandsonduo @unfoldwings thanks, just happened in Sept so it's pretty fresh yet

Jan 23Reply

momandsonduo @gunner1215 I just typed this long thing out and then hit the back button instead of post. Its probably a good thing tho cause I may have sounded like I've lost my mind lol. I struggle with the word survivor. What have I survived when my life is still hell???? I can barely get out of bed these days, the anxiety and PTSD are insane!! All I can do is pray that it will get better cause it's been almost 5 months and not much has changed thus far.

Jan 30Reply

scgirl1961 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 Kudos to you & your inner strength. I used to investigate CDV, very rewarding when a victim chooses her/his life & there children's lives & makes that scary, difficult leap to freedom. God Bless you & your little boy. May life one day be what you want & need. 💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

Feb 01Reply

momandsonduo @scgirl1961 thank you, one day life will get there.

Feb 01Reply

ecmrn327 Good for you for speaking up!

Apr 24Reply

momandsonduo @ecmrn327 thank you

Apr 24Reply

shelley999 I've been there for 8 years, left when son turned 5 cuz I was afraid he would go after him. Whatever your motivation to leave is, just leave! Love shouldn't cause bruises or bloody lips! Congrats for leaving!

Jul 18Reply

momandsonduo @shelley999 ty to you as well!!!

Jul 18Reply

shelley999 I will definitely keep that in mind, mine happened 30 years ago. Just concentrate on you and your son and if possible stay close to loved ones

Jul 18Reply

shelley999 Sorry daughter

Jul 18Reply

momandsonduo @shelley999 you're right, son. Thanks its only been 10 months.

Jul 18Reply

shelley999 Sorry again, it is son lol

Jul 18Reply

momandsonduo @shelley999 lol no problem

Jul 18Reply

shelley999 It will get easier but will take time. I hate people have to go through the pain but you will be stronger when you come out of the other side and maybe help someone else going through what you've been through

Jul 18Reply

shelley999 I applaud your courage and best of luck in all you do

Jul 18Reply

momandsonduo @shelley999 ty

Jul 18Reply

momandsonduo @briannahebb5 ty, you too!!!!

Jul 23Reply

ovcasurvivor Good For You! 👏👏 i worked in our states attorneys office for many years and have seen alot. I am proud of you for taking care of you. It is so hard. Sending hugs !! Be Happy! 😚

Jul 25Reply

momandsonduo @ovcasurvivor thank you

Jul 25Reply

isalaman Me too, now I have compassion for him, as a child, he was a withness of domestic violence. I'm sorry for all men that suffer and not look for help. Of course I encourage all women that are in this situation to not be scared. Only when you leave you see there's much a better life for you and your kids.

Aug 08Reply

momandsonduo @isalaman true

Aug 08Reply

bebops I too have PTSS. No one knows unless they have this~~the toll it takes. I have to try & live my life as stress free as possible. It started MANY years ago when my ex & his wife kept my boys ages 9 & 11. Major brainwashing went on & lots of lies. Would not let me see or talk to them. I was 600 miles away. I would go to court over the custody~~ex would not show up. He knew I could not keep doing this.

Sep 24Reply

bebops I doubt my boys got my letters or packages. By not letting me talk to me they no doubt thought I did not care. My ex started seeing this girl at age 16. He moved in her parents dumpy place & lived there until our divorce when she was 18. They married & I had them by myself with no finished college. Mr Bad Cop knew what to do & this evil has continued to now. My grown boys do not speak to me. They are in their late 30s. Christmas is very hard for me & their birthdays. God & Bible verses.

Sep 24Reply

bebops Last Couselor helped me realize I had to forgive them~~finally weeks later I knew this was ruining my health all these years. Fibromyalgia is one thing...but inherited symptoms of Lupus or MS. Tests Neg. for these. Natural Dietician said I am in Adrenal Crisis. His testing showed I have barely any cortisol to cope. I am a Chistian & I never had any idea how evil people can be. If not for God~~I would not be here.

Sep 24Reply

momandsonduo @bebops sorry to hear about everything that you went through!!

Sep 24Reply

bebops Thank-you !! I have a great husband now close to 22 yrs. He is very sweet, caring & does so much for me. After my achilles tendon ruptured 90% out...had to have 2 surgeries. No Walking At All for over 3 weeks. Potty chair next to couch. He did his best cooking & was still embarrassed that he had to empty this potty. I have colitis & Divit. & never know for sure when this will act up. Too bad I did not meet him before #1 that was attending a Christian college w me & lied about so much.

Sep 24Reply

gamer_princess @momandsonduo I’m so sorry you have went through and dealt with this so happy you got through it and got away I had a friend that went through this but she never seem to get away from guys like this she passed away young last year 35 years old

Oct 27Reply

momandsonduo @gamer_princess I'm only away right now cause he's in prison till April so I feel safe for now

Oct 27Reply

gamer_princess @momandsonduo hopefully he’ll stay there people like that need to

Oct 27Reply

momandsonduo @gamer_princess unfortunately he will be out April 15th

Oct 27Reply

gamer_princess @momandsonduo yikes 😬

Oct 27Reply

momandsonduo @gamer_princess right

Oct 27Reply

nylanoelle SAME❣️ Good to know I’m not alone

Nov 20Reply

momandsonduo @nylanoelle you're never alone

Nov 20Reply

rebeccaf612 What do you do for work from home? If you don’t mind me asking. I started my own company last January that has a mission statement of; “Providing products and services for adults and children facing traumatic situations.” I also escaped, I also suffer from PTSD, anxiety, depression and panic attacks. I also have to work from home, though I am officially disabled now. I also can’t get out of bed most days but I continue to give life my all.

Mar 06Reply

rebeccaf612 I have physical scars and injuries that cause me a great deal of pain so that doesn’t help. I escaped Oct 2016 after suffering for over 25 years. Now I hand make fabric dolls for the kids, Go Packs with supplies for two nights, three days, for adults, children, babies, and pets. I could use some help starting this spring or early summer if you are up for it.

Mar 06Reply

momandsonduo @rebeccaf612 25 years as well and have been out 19 months thankfully. I sell here on Posh. Its not too reliable but I am able to work when I am up to it.

Mar 06Reply

rebeccaf612 @gunner1215 would you like to share in helping another person? I have no one to talk to. My story is long and complicated but very similar to yours. I started a company to help people facing traumatic situations in Jan 2019 but the safe house I moved into burned down in Feb 2019. I lost everything I owned and all of my inventory. I can’t get past another 2 events from recently that has me terrified and in bed 24/7.

Mar 06Reply

momandsonduo @rebeccaf612 not sure what you're asking for

Mar 06Reply

momandsonduo @gunner1215 tyvm

Mar 06Reply

rebeccaf612 @momandsonduo if you look at the beginning of the message it says @gunner1215.... I was responding to her. Sorry for the confusion.

Mar 06Reply

momandsonduo @rebeccaf612 lol sorry, that's what lack of sleep does :-)))))

Mar 06Reply