genifurh@orrhello I understand!!! I have a maroon one with a long sheet scarf that is posted as well (army flight school ball) and have another black halter top satin dress with pretty beading that isn't posted (have no idea which ball) that I will tag u in in case you can't find anything!!
orrhello@genifurh - awe you are so helpful and I appreciate it. The Army Etiquette thingy from the Military Spouse website says because he is wearing a black tie it has to be 3/4 or full length, preferably black and plain. It's weird, I can't speak at the table unless we are told to mingle, I have to be at his left side at all times, no public signs of affection and a bunch of other nonsense.