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abstractdreams
Updated Jan 30
abstractdreams
abstractdreams
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flutter_buys
flutter_buys I had a real winner last night!! lol. She was advertising her FAKE LV in my listings and selling non compliant items, then wanting them to pay off the app!! Then I reported, but forgot to block her. So she got me again! But a few others helped me, so Posh shut her down!! 😜💃🏼🎈🎉👍💞💃🏼She was really nasty too. Guns and knives at the smiley faces and all! 😳. So, how is the baby? I'll go see! 😉
Feb 04Reply
danielashops
danielashops I always see gently used cosmetics! Ewwww!
Feb 13Reply
kristikreations
kristikreations OMG!!!!! These stories!! Come on people!!
Mar 03Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @bamagirl017 @kcford24 @schoomkie : Sad but true.👎🏽😕
Mar 03Reply
zev4u_lexx_luvr
zev4u_lexx_luvr @schoomkie YEAH! I don't trust Big Bad-mouthers! I have actually blocked a couple Poshers who had repeatedly "advertised nasty stuff about supposed scammers!" I saw one about a person I did business with in the past & had a smooth transaction. Who is next? ME???? 😱
Mar 04Reply
melanieshea
melanieshea Great idea!! What exactly do I need to do to be helpful? Email Posh? I hope this isn't a "dumb question"... I really want to help out! 💖💖💖 Mel
Mar 04Reply
vintage_rocks
vintage_rocks @schoomkie I agree, I saw 2 yesterday. If you follow Posh rules you are safe, and people wouldn't need to create such post because no one would be scammed.
Mar 04Reply
melanieshea
melanieshea @schoomkie Omg, I never thought of it like that... and you're so right!! I have seen some really nasty comments/banter, & I myself sometimes get too "pulled in"... that would be horrible!! Great job!
Mar 04Reply
dimndgrl
dimndgrl Great Crusade! xx
Mar 04Reply
dimndgrl
dimndgrl @schoomkie see above... LOL forgot to tag you !
Mar 04Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @dimndgrl @schoomkie @zev4u_lexx_luvr : Dawn's right, we're grown ups...report but never "engage" (PM terminology) in the nastiness. You can be penalized or reprimanded while attempting to mediate or defend, it happened to Kristie @bamagirl017 👎🏽 Let Posh deal. No drama!👍🏽
Mar 04Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @melanieshea 👆🏽👍🏽
Mar 04Reply
4doggypawz
4doggypawz Oh I got a good one!!!! Two days ago one of my members of my share group sent me a couple pics ( IM) instant messenger of 4-5 listings of items that were priced at 1.00 or in that range...a closet was letting everyone know that we charge mega money for items googled one of them my tops although there are stores that one doesn't need a resale license to get that duplicate ones we pay for quality (same item) she discredited any of us ...cont'
Apr 25Reply
4doggypawz
4doggypawz I guess Manish was contacted personally to shut her down and the listings were removed...now I have been harassed as I responded to one of the listings telling her to do her homework as some are duplicated at poor quality same item we pay quality for and that was harassment...her friend threatened me I ended up blocking her...it was so not cool and the words that were said to me regarding taking advantage of others...so not right!!!!
Apr 25Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @faith2bshared : Try not to take it personally hon. I've been here since 2012, about 6 mos after the app launched & I can tell you that the best thing to do, and also unspoken Posh policy is "do not engage" (that's a quote from PM Support) Poshers who are in violation! Just report (with screen shots) and block.😕
Apr 25Reply
4doggypawz
4doggypawz @abstractdreams you are right I read a couple other post on her and yes I was so ticked to see someone discredit such seasoned Poshers but my bad I just will block...my protective mode kicked in but posh can handle...thank you very much and I do know there will always be one of them..😘😘😘😘😘
Apr 25Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @faith2bshared : Right? There always seems to be at least one! There's no law saying we have to sell anything at the cheapest possible price! Everyone has the internet (obvi) or we wouldn't be here, so ppl can find a lower price & buy it there!! Go save the world somewhere else! Sorry it happened to u!😠
Apr 25Reply
4doggypawz
4doggypawz It's ok good to vent every once in awhile... But so far worse is yapping with many things in the world that need our attention. Prince for one I wasn't a huge fan but grew up listening to him and loved purple rain..he was an extraordinary artist that his story really played on my heart strings the other day...he was different but do welcoming to his fans...a huge loss to fans and the music industry!!
Apr 25Reply
4doggypawz
4doggypawz Iam sorry for your sadness🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 thankfully we have many songs to share and keep his spirit alive✨✨✨👼🏼
Apr 25Reply
dottydaga
dottydaga @abstractdreams wow this actually kinda creeps me out. I've read around about scammers etc and I've been recently just following everyone to increase exposure and sales possibilities but I'm not sure if I should continue to do so... What I've tried its to see how many postings they have listed sometimes I even look to see how many Thank you's have they received... What are good suggestions to avoid such people?? 👀😱😓
May 15Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @dottydaga : I think if you use good judgement & continue to assess Poshers carefully, you'll be ok. Generally closets with no profile pic/no listings/no interactions might be good to avoid. But since 2012, I've not had any problems! Report anything sketchy to PM Support & "do not attempt to engage" them (that quote is from Posh Support)! Plenty of experienced Poshers are here everyday (like myself) & happy to help!👍🏽
May 15Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @danielashops @myblueskydays Wow!! I feel better!! What is it with these kids!! I saw one girl say the lipstick lost its sweetness, it's smell!! What she's smelling is lipstick gone bad!! There's no such thing as gently used!! Or a very rare old special from Mac!! I'll remember the sign from years back!! Make up spoils!! Some grows bacteria and spreads it!! It's has a shelf life!!😊✌🏽️💪🏾👍🏼💖🌺☀️🌈💞💄
May 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @myblueskydays : You said it sister! And that bacteria can be deadly to someone else, and it's not just living on top of the makeup, it's throughout & there's no way it can be "sanitized" away! Some people just think those pesky rules are for everyone else!👎🏽
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @shoomkie didn't finish reading it all but you rock!! I bought a pair of pants specifically because I need surgery n my belly is swollen!! Let her know!! And I checked UO, she was selling the same style, dif season for twenty dollars more, she lowered her price!! I wear a large!! She sent a medium!! Like a fool!! I gave her time to re...I've been ill, I guess by the time I reported her, it was too late! Out 60 bucks!!!
May 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @schoomkie :👆🏽👍🏽
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @schoomkie @myblueskydays I feel like a fool!! I sell retail, she sells tons of FP, but often higher than they do!! My pants came in an FP bag!! I could tell something was up, then I saw her pic, no way does she where it, sounds crazy I'm an Empath and a counselor, I almost felt that she went there every other day, and sells for recognition? So many oh wow comments, followed by 300? FP is selling now for 200$! I feel so burned!! So I just relished, had a lot more come to mind though!!!😊✌🏽️🌺
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @myblueskydays I just wanted to thank all of you for writing about these issues!! As a counselor I will say, being scammed when perhaps someone made a purchase for an item with her last dime to go to a special event, can be upsetting for anyone, for someone in crisis it could be devastating!! I just purchased a FP top for my daughter, the pics were dark, but the price was good! I received it, it had stripes? The pic, no stripes!! I actually gave her !
May 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @myblueskydays : Let me apologize Donna. I'm sorry that you've had some negative experiences here. Posh is an amazing platform where most sellers will bend over backward to do right or make things right!👍🏽You've probably figured out that asking TONS of questions is a good idea prior to purchasing.
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @myblueskydays the benefit of the doubt! I messaged her and asked if she maybe sent me the wrong item!! Check the pic again!! Took a pic of it!! She said no it was the right one?? I told her I happened to like them so it was ok, but now my daughter doesn't? What do these people think?? I won't notice? And the smells!! Sometimes...if something has been hanging for a long time, may be the smell of your home..and ok, but I have to wash everything!!!😊✌🏽️💪🏾💃🏽💖🌟🌟🌟🌟
May 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @myblueskydays : I've learned that "in excellent used condition" isn't the same for everyone. I had a couple ppl who forgot to mention that they smoke & one who sprayed my purchase with perfume (I have Lupus, I had a migraine for two days). But since 2012, I buy more than I sell & have dealt with honest, caring, generous women who have become a constant source of support for me! On PM & in real life. Dawn @schoomkie is one of them.👍🏽💋
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @myblueskydays I didn't realize how bothered I've been, thank you for providing a place for me to let it go!!!! When it comes down to it, it's all about them!! You wouldn't try to reason with someone whose wasted or mentally ill, or in severe pain!! These are unbalanced very unhappy people! As has been said, just block & report..if you need vent& let go..don't give them one sec of your joy! I'm happy to let it go!! 😊✌🏽️💪🏾👍🏼☀️🌈🌴💄
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @abstractdreams the sec I saw your name..I had a feeling!! Believe me I know!! I run to the washer!! I was hit by three trucks n one cars, have fibromyalgia, intestial cystitis, they keep telling me for years lupus, and ms, I have every symptom of both, a c survivor and have developed insane allergies!! They just are clueless!!! I keep everything seperate, and I have two pups, but clothes I sell isn't going to smell like my puppy!! Not a chance!!
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @abstractdreams I'm so sorry you have lupus, I don't want it, but whatever label they decide to put on it, I stumble like a drunk, loose my vision and speech, I'm in agony 24/7...and I get sick where I just can't function..go days without food etc...but my son works at an organic restaurant, he brings me food most nights!! Yells ma eat! No right now!! Lol! I fit weren't for Posh, it all be much worse!!✌🏽️✌🏽💖☀️
May 17Reply
myblueskydays
myblueskydays @abstractdreams that's what I said in my last closet!! You know I try not to be a pain, but maybe I should ask more! I have to tell you I've got some used things that I love!! Ive noticed with size, and the very young,, will try n convince me something will fit...and it's always too small!! So I've learned!!!
May 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @myblueskydays : There is a bit of a learning curve, but I cannot afford to throw money away so I'll ask 100 questions!😳Lol! And if a seller "doesn't have time to answer a lot of questions" I'm taking my $ to another closet!
May 17Reply
deborahrn
deborahrn First of all. .you are the epitome of what, kind and etiquette is all about. I wish I had found you when I first came into the world of Poshmark. I'm still a newbie but trying hard to follow all rules. I feel there are 2 items I need to take out of my closet but when I asked abs then looked at other PC CLOSETS. .I saw similar items. Please take a look at my closet and tell me any small detaili need to correct. ..I would so appreciate it.
May 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @deborahrn : Thanks so much Deborah!💋I'm happy to check your closet! Give me a minute & I'll let you know.👍🏽
May 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @deborahrn : Your closet is totally Posh compliant!👍🏽Did you already remove items?
May 19Reply
deborahrn
deborahrn No. ..I read the rules initially, I guess being a nurse I don't have room for error...I dud reword some listings and took out descriptive words like beautiful, etc.,in the heading. Thank you so much! What a joy to have met you and FOUND YOU! THANKS AGAIN.
May 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @deborahrn : My pleasure!💕There's nothing wron with descriptive titles, as long as accurate search words are in the listing somewhere. No one's going to search "beautiful" but if you read my listings, I'm crazy descriptive! Lol! I use every word Posh will give me! I often have to rework a description, because I've used too many words!😳I'm here every day & happy to answer questions.👍🏽
May 19Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @pinkpanther325 : Sadly tho, not much is done about it. Only the worst of the worst get removed. Or they get removed because someone with more clout than me reports them! I've been here since 2012, and some of the worst violations I've seen (and reported) have too!👎🏽😕
Jun 26Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @pinkpanther325 : I agree! I only sell here, and I'm only interested in selling here.👍🏽
Jun 26Reply
chicknthesticks
chicknthesticks @abstractdreams This is a GREAT graphic! If I give you credit, may I please copy it? It's okay if not, honest ☺
Jul 06Reply
nia1113
nia1113 @abstractdreams Hi, Linda!! 💕🌞😻 So happy to see your picture up!😉 Congrats again on becoming a Suggested User!💕😊💕 I'm so very happy for you!!!❤🌠💕🌞 Do you mind when I introduce myself to new Posh friends if I refer them to your closet?😊❤😊 You have so many great informative listings, especially in regards to what we're allowed/not allowed to list... Would that be alright? Let me know, okay?! Hope you're doing alright. Luv, Nia XOXOXO💕
Aug 05Reply
cherryblast
cherryblast @schoomkie so are you saying that ppl who get scammed shouldn't put up a scammer post? Just asking so I kno if that's what you mean? (I've.thankfully never been scammed nor would I scam anyone!) but always see ppl post where they have been. I've been with posh since they started and honestly it has changed a lot
Mar 27Reply
singmeister
singmeister @abstractdreams omg. ! Thanks for the heads up. Geesh !
Apr 22Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @singmeister Which heads up...did I answer all your questions the other day? It's been a crazy couple days for me!😳
Apr 22Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @moonbeam1958 I'm happy it's helped. Many Poshers don't realize there are rules (that we agree to when we sign on), and sadly...many others don't care.😕Lmk if you have questions or I can help further!👍🏽
Apr 22Reply
singmeister
singmeister @abstractdreams about the Cyber bullies. Amazing. I wanted to try to put a few things up and see how it goes.
Apr 22Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @singmeister Bullies and crooks!! ALL communication can & should go thru Posh! No reason to do otherwise (unless personal). I've given out phone/email for personal communications if/when Poshers needed emotional support or we were setting up a local event or get together.👍🏽Lmk if you need help listing.
Apr 22Reply
singmeister
singmeister @abstractdreams for sure ! Ok thanks for the offer to help! If I get stuck I'll come and ask! Have a good one!
Apr 22Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @singmeister You too! I can tell you in advance that clear, well lit photos & detailed descriptions work best.👍🏽Good luck!
Apr 22Reply
singmeister
singmeister @abstractdreams yes thank you ! I've noticed those things.
Apr 22Reply
a_fire_inside
a_fire_inside I think I have removed the items in my closet that were noncompliant. Thank you for the breakdown slide show btw. Very helpful. If you can ever sneak a few minutes can you give my closet a quick going over and honest opinion about where I stand now? Thank you! Blessings, Loren
Apr 25Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @lmw0082 Happy to! Give me a sec. I'll reply in your closet!👍🏽
Apr 25Reply
blondeinsomniac
blondeinsomniac @abstractdreams how do u report to posh when u see things, or is that on!y for sellers? Thank u. 😃😃
May 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @blondeinsomniac : Hi there! There's a box in the upper right hand corner that lets you share, bundle & report from there. I don't know if you noticed, and maybe you're joking but I'm a registered Sleep Technologist. I can help with tips/tricks if you really do have a prob.😴💤👍🏼
May 10Reply
blondeinsomniac
blondeinsomniac @abstractdreams lol, thank u so much and yes I do have a problem and have for years. One other thing I wanted to ask do we report people who ask others sellers to sell on Merc. I think that's what it's called. Also people who do not sell but ask posher to contact them on their email to buy merchandise? Thanks, and I appreciate any help I can get. 😄😄😄😂
May 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @blondeinsomniac Sorry Lisa, I'm leaving town in the morning & I'm running around like a crazy person! Answer to your question is YES! (Merc Ari) is another resale app & an "Off Posh Transaction" the other is a Phishing SCAM looking to get personal info & should be reported as "Spam." Every transaction should be on Posh. Now...
May 10Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams There are Poshers who do have my email/phone # as we connected in real life or put an event together. There are also Poshers who support each other emotionally as well...after 5 years here, I have a few of those as well. Women I truly consider my friends, tho we've never met.❣
May 10Reply
shine4362
shine4362 I Inquired about a necklace last night from a young college student who's bio stated that she was trying to earn funds to attend a weekend getaway/party with friends.. needs to purchase plane ticket.. etc. As I scrolled thru her other items I saw that she was selling a 3 pair set of VS panties... plus an added bonus for only $25 extra if anyone wanted her to soil them (wink, wink) with an added promise that she'd seal them "real nice" to preserve the scent..... WTF!!! Ewwwww!!!
Nov 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @shine4362 Seriously! Take screenshots & email Posh Support! They will shut that down IMMEDIATELY! That's bad business & bad for their brand.👎🏼
Nov 17Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @shine4362 Sorry to be so short, I was cooking. Posh expects us to help keep the community pleasant, safe & not skeevy by self-policing. They depend on our help. I’ve been here 5.5 years & there was a girl doing something similar. Cover shots that bordered on porn & creepily sexual description of the items she was ‘selling.’ Reported en masse & she was GONE in a couple hours. Same with puppy sellers!👎🏼
Nov 18Reply
mysticalblue
mysticalblue Well, I’m not having any luck reporting Poshers closets that sell all kinds of UNSUPPORTED items‼️‼️There are closets that I have reported to Posh several times in the past few months, and those closets and UNSUPPORTED items are STILL LISTED AND SELLING‼️‼️ I’ve even written Poshmark and never heard back anything!!!!! I know PM is so busy, but this is aggravating and I feel very ignored on very serious matters‼️‼️. Thank you for letting me vent🤯🤯🤯
Apr 11Reply
abstractdreams
abstractdreams @mysticalblue I’m sorry to hear that...you’ve emailed Posh Support and not heard back?? That doesn’t sound right. The basic rule around is report violations and move on. We can police ourselves to be the best part of the community and Posh will get to the closets that are in violation of the guidelines. Eventually. But don’t try to be the Posh Police. You’ll just stress yourself out! 👍🏼💕
Apr 11Reply
gems_of_glory
gems_of_glory Hi, There is a seller who repeatedly lists food items - and I mean over a hundred listings! I wrote in to CS & reported the seller's closet. The response I got was to literally report the prohibited listing on the page where it's listed. I did that. I never saw the items removed, though. I think if they were removed by posh, she relisted them immediately,
Jul 30Reply

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