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📢📣-NOW HEAR THIS,😤WITH REGRET I WILL NO LONGER BE HOLDING ITEMS! 👿EVERYTIME I EVER HAVE IN THE PAST, YOU DONT RETURN, YOU SIMPLY DISAPPEAR, YES MANY OF YOU HAVE HELD THINGS FOR ME, YOU MAY BE THE EXCEPTION... IM JUST TIRED OF HOLDING THINGS AND MISSING OUT ON SALES BECAUSE I WAS BEING NICE.. SORRY BUT JUST NO MORE . IVE ALWAYS COME BACK YO PURCHASE FROM YOU , WHEN ITEMS ARE HELD FOR ME . THERES JUST NO EXCUSE FOR NOT BEING COURTEOUS AND GETTING BACK TO ME... 🙋THANKS BELLA

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poshlove78 Haaahaha. Love the face. Hey its fine to hold items for a few months isn't it? Large bundles especially🎀 Lol. Change my name from Marta to SAVINGS & LOAN or better yet "ACT UBER INTERESTED, MAKE ME JUMP THROUGH FIERY HOOPS," Then hide and ignore me. Make sure you make me try everything on first though. I really like that

Nov 29Reply

gnetoh @poshlove78 that last bit though. Sometimes I wanna shake people who ask "model?". Especially when it's a t shirt... Really? Good luck ladies :)

Nov 30Reply

bellasbeauties @gnetoh , oh I've modeled jeans and a dress, I had an accident, so my body isn't what I really want to model with.. But I have.. When asked to model that truly gets your hopes up , thinking they're really interested.. Then they disappear... It's just rude.,a simple sorry I won't be buying. Would be nice..

Nov 30Reply

gnetoh It's rough sometimes but hopefully it turns out somewhat rewarding for you guys :)

Nov 30Reply

bellasbeauties @gnetoh , thanks , same to you!💁Bella

Nov 30Reply

misshaylee315 I AGREE! This is by far the most annoying thing! Definitely sharing & love the picture lol 😋

Dec 05Reply

noy2312 @bellasbeauties I love this pic! Hahahahha

Dec 06Reply

braydens_mommy Love, Love this! Agree! The modeling part...seriously would I list it, if it fit or wanna wear it again? Let me shove my 7 size foot in these 5s and try to look like a damn shoe model. I'm new to this but I'm getting annoyed. I've bundled like 15 items before and the "magic" just kidding I just wanted you to make a listing and never purchase happens a lot. After re listing everything I have to drink a few...😂😂😂

Dec 07Reply

classyvintage Lol love the pic

Dec 09Reply

lady_dar @bellasbeauties I know what you mean I stopped

Dec 09Reply

bellasbeauties @pinkerly , every time I've been asked no one has ever come back.. Now I have asked many and have come back every time, no I'm wrong one time I couldn't buy, but came and explained my situation at the time and was blocked right after.. That's rude as well. I mean I came and explained that I could more than likely do it further into the same month, but she got pissy, ...

Dec 10Reply

daisymae061874 That's hilarious. Lmfao

Dec 11Reply

daisymae061874 @braydens_mommy Ok. 👏👏👏👏. Is ALL I have to say about your RIGHT ON comment. I actually laughed out loud no joke you said it perfectly it's like okay if I wanted to model the damn outfit I would have done it to begin with so no, I'm not going to model anything for you. Like seriously people use your freaking imagination look at the things in the background to judge how big an item is.

Dec 11Reply

daisymae061874 Can I steal this pic?? Lmao

Dec 11Reply

braydens_mommy @daisymae061874 sunglasses for example to see how big they are.... seriously face shapes are all sorts of shapes... you could have a fat head. I got a skinny long face like a horse they look hideous on me. I told her to go to a sunglass hut they don't pay me to model here they actually take a percent. I also have a 1 year old that I have to chase all day. I don't have time for that crap lol. We have the same humor😁

Dec 11Reply

bellasbeauties @daisymae061874 , feel free to steal my pic. I'm the best eye roller around. Lol

Dec 11Reply

lovecolor7 Amen sister, amen! Not a single hold has worked out. One girl even told me that she would never disappear and how awful it was & pretended to be decent, she disappeared. Last week I was asked and I said I don't hold anymore and then she pretended to be this upstanding person. After she had me adjust her bundle 4 times I asked if it was correct and she didn't answer and we were literally going back and forth seconds ago. So 5 hrs later she is liking things in my closet not realizing she was in my closet. So I said since you're on posh can you confirm the bundle is correct and you will come back for it. She sent the grossest message "you shitty shifty, I'm NOT going to buy it . You are trying to close a deal like a contract". Uh, ok. Some serious nuts here and so I said no the other day to a gal and felt really bad but she said she would come back the next day. She never did and someone else purchased same day. Don't do it, just don't. I've always honored a hold. Anyways, I feel your pain, lol!

Dec 14Reply

bellasbeauties @citygirlny.

Dec 14Reply

ali65 Oh my gosh, what I went through last night...... Soooooooo NO MORE HOLDS!!

Dec 18Reply

bellasbeauties @ali65 , oh boy tell me what happened, tag me to the listing . I'm so curious..

Dec 18Reply

laurx22 Hey hey now lol I see it all the time but there's still some honest people I get holds all the time and every single time have purchased sorry you all weren't as lucky ... I don't get why shop on posh and talk people down if you know you won't buy it's a waste of their time as well as yours ..common sense isn't that common lol but hope you have a good holiday

Dec 20Reply

sublimefashion Hahahahahahaha

Dec 22Reply

bbq415 @gnetoh I hatttteeee when you have enough pics and people ask you to "model"

Dec 23Reply

leoninus @bellasbeauties LOL The facial expression!😜

Dec 24Reply

heidihoney Amen! Im done holding as well, 5 times I have now and every single one of them was a no response disappearing act, how much energy does it take to say "sorry, I changed my mind" it's common courtesy people, we are grown women, so start acting like it! Awesome face! My sentiments exactly!

Dec 29Reply

jalexandria Lol

Jan 06Reply

bellasbeauties @chaseprincess . I just wanted to talk to you about a or of sweats you wanted to trade.

Jan 06Reply

jrsboop Hahaha -hilarious 😂

Jan 17Reply

shari23114 @bellasbeauties Beauty your a hoot!

Jan 21Reply

ginasjewels4you Frustrating isn't it!! I stopped holding and then last week I did a 5 day hold for a suggested user and she never purchased, never responded! 🙉🙉🙉🙉🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈

Jan 21Reply

bellasbeauties @ginap7777 , shame on so many of the so called suggested users, I've been trying to be looked at to become one for a while. Nothing, then I see so many hosting parties and pick from closets that simply don't follow the rules or they pick unsupported items. I've spoken up recently to a few of them. They got nasty then blocked me... I wish posh did a better job all around. ...

Jan 21Reply

shari23114 @bellasbeauties Bella your a hoot!

Jan 21Reply

bella4 @bellasbeauties I don't name u. Some ruin it for others 😢

Jan 23Reply

bellasbeauties @bella4 , I'm a bit confused on your comment..

Jan 23Reply

bella4 @bellasbeauties hi;))) I was just saying I don't blame u for no longer doing holds. 🙈

Jan 24Reply

bellasbeauties @bella4 , I think your words came out wrong.. Lol

Jan 24Reply

bella4 @bellasbeauties lol my god ur right. My apologies. Loooong day 🙈

Jan 24Reply

bellasbeauties @bella4 , no biggie I won't hold it against you , lol

Jan 24Reply

bella4 @bellasbeauties ok good ;) lol. Thank you 🌷

Jan 24Reply

bellasbeauties @bella4 , well on the other hand I may have to block you... IM ONKY KIDDING ... I've been blocked before for asking 3 questions, this girl said I asked to many questions.. I said well how does one know what your getting if you don't ask all the right questions.. Lol

Jan 24Reply

bella4 @bellasbeauties omg seriously ?! Lol I can't believe how Immature ppl can be. Thanks for not blocking me lol.

Jan 24Reply

hello2u Lol....amen!!! Lol...its like "darn if you do and darn if you dont"...but i have regulars i hold for with no problem...its the others we dont know about....they just go MIA...

Jan 25Reply

sublimefeline @bellasbeauties YOU CRACKED ME UP!!! LOVE THE FACE!! YOU ARE SO RIGHT TOO.

Jan 30Reply

theresab @bellasbeauties omg lmao !!!

Feb 02Reply

mldarocha @bellasbeauties I wish some posher have some courtesy to at least get back to you and let you know there no longer interested instead of ignoring you....😁

Feb 03Reply

bellasbeauties @mldarocha , that's my point exactly. I have never once not come back to buy after so many ladies have been nice enough to hold for me. Because I get pd, once a month as I'm disabled.. So I've been very fortunate, but I've also been here in Posh for two years now..

Feb 03Reply

mldarocha @bellasbeauties no one wants to be ignore right! I'm sure they see the comment. Another things that I don't like is when it's been delivered to them and won't release the funds it's on Pending acceptance and you tried to communicate to the buyer to release the funds again they ignore you and you have to wait for the 4th day after delivery to received your funds....😁. I signed up with Posh on 2012 but didn't pay full attention until last year so far I'm doing ok adding more stuff in my closets 2 times a week...lol I'm addicted to this apps...lol

Feb 03Reply

bellasbeauties @mldarocha , tell me about it. As soon as I get pd like right now my money has been deposited. So if I have anything in hold I'll go and start buying now. In a year and a half I added up my total in purchases, I'm embarrassed to say I've spent over 3,000$ here on Posh... I seriously need to stop and control my self.. My Bubby gets mad he doesn't know how much but he's knows it's many items each month .. So right now I have two VS sparkly journals on hold that I'm waiting to buy.. Then I somehow need to not buy anything else , it's at least one way to keep the peace in my house.

Feb 03Reply

mldarocha @bellasbeauties I know exactly what you mean It soooo hard not to shop...😁😁😁It's hard to control it but so far I've been good...😊. Like you said we need to keep the peace inside the house...lol.

Feb 03Reply

mldarocha @bellasbeauties What State do you lived in?

Feb 03Reply

bellasbeauties @mldarocha , I'm from Boston Massachusetts..

Feb 03Reply

msrosiep This pic is too funny...lmbo😂 and I feel your pain😨

Feb 04Reply

poshlove78 I friggin luv this face! I hope someday we get to meet 🎊💜🎊

Feb 11Reply

bellasbeauties @poshlove78 , lol that's my eye roll. I, the biggest eye roller around.. It would be great to meet , to bad a few of us couldn't get together ..meet up somewhere in the middle..

Feb 11Reply

poshlove78 Lol. We could practice our eye rolls and see who gets the migraine 1st 😍. So completely offended here . Will FB you after my needle appointment

Feb 11Reply

bellasbeauties @poshlove78 , what do you mean you're so offended ? That has to be some kind of a joke right?

Feb 11Reply

poshlove78 Not about you. Give me a minute

Feb 11Reply

gab34 Exactly! Everyone gets mad at me for not holding but when I do they never come back and someone else wanted it.

Feb 13Reply

gaby01 lol....you go girl...i hear you....love the pic

Feb 16Reply

liz3 @bellasbeauties what a face!!! Lol call me

Feb 16Reply

creativecher I have the same thing posted in my closet!!!

Feb 19Reply

bellasbeauties @faynna. I'm sorry to tell you this please I hope your not upset, so I figured I'd do it from my closet. But after I looked at your other things. Well check your other jewelry. You're bangles say -bugle.. One says I thinks bagel.. I'm not picking on you I hope you don't take it that way...

Feb 19Reply

faynna @bellasbeauties oh no thank you I did not noticed that

Feb 19Reply

masha91 Hahaha... Exactly how i feel!!!

Feb 20Reply

gerri_01 Hello Bella. I saw that you tagged someone on my ring, which does concern me, I did see your remarks on @justfabulous32 Co-hosting listing all the closets that we're giving host picks by her follow Posh Policy's, me included. She had to delete her listing due to that, that was not necessary. I saw the comment up above you blocked her, she didn't block you until after. I also saw your comment on another lady's SU listing, which was well deserved plus a few of her other listings. Poshmark is a place where we should all come together and help each other. Not harass others because they had the opportunity to become SU and Co-Host both of these members worked hard for it. Your opportunity will come.

Feb 26Reply

bellasbeauties @liz3, oh my goodness , look above and read the comment, I'm getting sick of others sticking there nose into comments I've left for others .. What's that saying freedom of speech, but don't come and give me crap, because you don't like my comment... Right

Feb 26Reply

liz3 @gerri_01 she actually was tagging me to some rings earlier because I'm looking to buy some rings. So actually that's a compliment. And she has not hosted a party because she hasn't asked to & she's been on here for 2 yrs & has PLENTY of Poshers, including lots of SUs that are pulling for her to get SU that she should've gotten way before now + plenty of HPs & even tho she's not an SU YET she goes out of her way to help new Poshers to learn & follow the rules. If you'll notice her comment to 1 above she states several times, n trying to b helpful "I'm not being rude, etc" ....she put it very nicely. We were honestly shopping together earlier. So yea, PLZ don't make comments about things u don't know of, u may hv just cost yourself a nice sale.

Feb 26Reply

liz3 @bellasbeauties that's sad too, I really liked that ring u showed me of her's but I'm not buying from someone that doesn't even know that we POSHERS show each other nice items omg!!! Plenty of other nice rings without the NON-POSH attitude 😝😜

Feb 26Reply

liz3 @gerri_01 & @elizabeth_01 Im not trying to start trouble. I was simply pointing out that me & my friend (that I also knew 1st off of Posh) earlier today were on the phone & she was shopping around with me helping me look for a certain metal, etc ..... for a couple of rings I'll b buying n a few days. Ppl do it all the time. I do not know what was unsupported in either of those particular parties. But, as an SU, myself I report unsupported items some idiots share to parties, cuz it's wrong. I, myself & ALOT of other Poshers hv worked WAY too hard for ALOT longer than a year (just for example) & if we can follow the rules, so can everyone else. But I'm sure Yall agree. Bella (@bellasbeauties) I guarantee you is only doing that too. And we all need too. It's way too much for 2-3 mods to do & lately they are getting ppl to co-Host that hv bn on for a few months? So YES there hv bn quite a bit of non supported items chosen as HPs. Y their closets aren't slammed shut on the spot is beyond me & pretty insulting to those of us that have worked hard & followed the rules for years. But no, I didn't attend those particular parties, so of course I don't know a certain item nor user from it, especially from 1 & 2 months ago. Too much life has gone on since then (lol I hv a teenager 😜). I really, honestly wouldn't worry about a listing in January about a December party. With SO many ppl (women) on 1 site.... it's easy to get caught up in the drama. But it's much more pleasant to enjoy the true Posh Community & just ignore the drama. I didn't read any of what Bella wrote bk then. But truly, whether they say it to someone or not, the GREAT Poshers, 99% of them do get livid if they see the junk even shared to parties but then to get an HP. But again, we were shopping earlier, which is a compliment to your lovely item. And well not much more to say but, whatever she said...... U can bet a lot were already thinkn it. Again, I was not at these parties so no, of course I can't say which items. I can rattle off what all is not allowed. But ppl can & should read that for themselves. :) I'm simply replying & personally do not like the petty girl fights, but with this many women (outside a certain circle that I love!!) it happens & misunderstandings happen. @bellasbeauties sorry to put this here but both asked me something then my reply couldn't go thru cuz I was blocked lol. Y ask me? I was just shopping around for rings! Dang lol 😜

Feb 27Reply

liz3 @bellasbeauties omg 1 of them followed me, I went to her closet. She has some nice handbags, I was gonna LV her a compliment about them, she blocked me too! Lol I get it tho, they're friends. Not a great start on Posh tho. 👎 They are by far not alone

Feb 27Reply

sylviaharris55 I don't blame you. It has happened to me 3 times just since last week. This one person had me fo two days changing her mind the. She finally decided I mean she ordered 16 items after she had me for two days I have a thing that if you buy 4 items at 5 I will charge you 15. Well she orders 15 items at 5 and then a dress for 25. So after two days I mean two days. And she was extremely rude. I mean very rude. And I was as nice as I could be to her so her total was 100 after everything I went through with her and I held it for her for 3 days and she continually changing her items anyway the balance was. 100 for 16 nice items then after I pack everything and I'm thinking finally she turns around and offers me 60. I told my husband I'm done, I'm done, I'm done. I could have gone out to the street and ran screaming. She can't read this because I had to block her because either she was and elderly lady that really didn't know what she was doing or just a person with no brains. So I get you honey. I am not holding anymore. When they ask you to bundle their likes on Thursday and then they say well I can't pay you until Monday its like what????? If people are really serious about selling and buying on POSHMARK I am learning they will either buy or go on. That's what I do. Nice to meet you. Things will get better. I'm learning a lot. And I love POSHMARK I always wanted my own store but this is close to nothing😘

Feb 28Reply

sylviaharris55 @bellasbeauties no seriously I have never blocked anyone and I've been with PM since October, but she kept trying to argue with me, I mean she was really rude and I will take as much as I can because I am a people person, but after she offered me 60 I told her tha there was noway that I could accept this offer. She told me ' well all I have is 60 and your the one that is trying to make me buy more'. I tell you I seriously did not think that she was rt in her mind. She is a Posher but she has no listings and like 65 following and 20 following. But I am not usually this way. That's working with the public. I have always worked with the public and every now and then your going to find some not too nice people.😘

Feb 28Reply

fashionlover_17 OMG, I needed a good laugh today!! You just made my day hahaha

Feb 28Reply

sassyconnection LOL! This post is awesome! And, totally appropriate. People seem to think that you have nothing better to do than see around & wait for them. Don't even get me started on the people that ask questions, for more photos, measurements & can't even say thank you!! OR, the people that ask for a bundle and you go through the trouble of making it (personalizing it) and they never purchase and never let you know they no longer want it. PLAIN RUDE! Thumbs up to this post👍👍👍👍.

Mar 08Reply

sassyconnection @sassified See post. LMFAO

Mar 08Reply

bellasbeauties @alise28 , lolol how do you like this ? I'm THE best eye roller ever. Lolol

Mar 11Reply

gecko586 I agree.. I've had same dilemmas too~

Mar 11Reply

carrion @bellasbeauties this is too funny😳

Mar 12Reply

cocoamy Amen :-)

Mar 13Reply

stineweitzel Omg this just happen 2 me & I said the same thing

Mar 15Reply

sammiepiffer @dak0tax3

Mar 16Reply

acquittdapparel This is hilarious! I only hold for my repeat buyers any more. I have a few girls who buy from me once a month and I don't mind holding for them. Other than that, contact me when you have money to buy lmao! And please dont ask me to make you a bundle then back out. :-)

Mar 18Reply

kbrooks0906 LOVE THIS!

Mar 27Reply

chunglee4819 I thought that I was the only one that got these rediculous request only to be ignored after I jump backwards through hoops I started saying wow people are so rude so when I was asked to model a dress I kindly said sorry I can't fit it i knew what she was up to because she never responded back.

Apr 14Reply

leoninus @trendycutedeals See the expression on this woman's face? Now you can relate.😕

Jun 07Reply

trendycutedeals @leoninus we should make a community list and tag all the flankers here 🙈😂

Jun 07Reply

trendycutedeals @leoninus oopsy correction flaker lol

Jun 07Reply

luvsmink @bellasbeauties ....Amen, Sister!!!! I was preaching this last night with another friend.

Jun 22Reply

kristikreations Agreed!! There is NO excuse for it at all!!

Jul 20Reply

diblue25 Hello I'm kinda new here, still learning the ropes. I gotta say I love your posts, so helpful. 💕And this one cracked me up! Unfortunately I'm learning It's so true! 🙄

Nov 29Reply

jillse Hahaha!! You are funny, that pic says it all!! You're absolutely right, no common courtesy for others on here.. Not just with holds but with questions, I will go out of my way for some and not even a thanks. Grrrrr!!

Dec 21Reply

jesuslover7777 Lol love this listing ha! Amen!!! 👏

Jan 08Reply

mandavais Agreed!!! Some girl had me bundle 8 Items, and then never purchased, and for holds, I'm never holding again!❤️ Love your eye roll 🙄😳😊

Mar 23Reply

mindykirby1 Oh I'm laughing! Good one!

Mar 30Reply

lorenmiller22 PERFECT!!!!!! im so gullible or naïve or just plain ole dumb-I say every time I wont say YES to holding, but I wind up doing it and shit sure enough-they are gone like the wind! HAHA. not anymore! that was the yesterday me- new an improved me is not going to keep getting burned. :) Your face has made my day and I need to come back and look at it whenever I feel like giving in. LOL AWESOME!!

Oct 26Reply

datpiff99 💯 😍

Dec 17Reply

mamacatz @bellasbeauties Totally agree! 1) I don’t hold anymore. 2) I don’t model! How it looks on me, will probably be different than it looks on you. Many items don’t fit & that’s why I’m selling. 3) Unsupported & counterfeits drive me INSANE! ESP when they are SU’s! 4) Hate when party hosts pick only from friends & boutique closets. Oh you can definitely tell when they do too.

Oct 30Reply

mamacatz @bellasbeauties 5) Lowballers! I research my items prior to posting and always try to post lower than most. I might start higher, but that allows for private offers, offers, & price drops to trigger reduced ship. I got an offer for $5 on a NWT VS bra priced at $16🙄. I informed her of posh fees and I’d get $2.05 for a $59 bra, and that it’s rude and most people would block her for that.

Oct 30Reply

mamacatz @bellasbeauties Told her Instead, I was trying to be helpful thinking she was new. She replied, go ahead and block me, I buy here all the time. I currently have a member wanting 15 items totaling $255. I offered her 35% off plus free ship. She took two items out, but and gave her 32% off with free ship. Been going on 5 days now. Least I’m not holding! Fantastic post😊😂!

Oct 30Reply

lindsaydutcher ARRRRGH these styling requests! not one has bought from me. yesterday, i share a bunch to this gal and she keeps 15 in there and tells me she is DEFINITELY BUYING. has she accepted my offer? NOOOOO

Dec 11Reply

bellasbeauties @lindsaydutcher oh I understand, I ordered an item and the person has yet to ship or answer me at all. I’m pissed off . I really wanted the item. I had someone ask me and put the eyeshadows and pallet the go into by magnetic. But then after an hour of back and forth she said she’s gonna pass at this time. She came to me first!

Dec 11Reply

meekwanfeather no holes always fcfs. pictures understandable. modelling out of the question. find a stock photo. I know this feeling ur expressing here. the worst I got was can I get cheaper price free shipping and hold a couple days LMAO 😂

Mar 25Reply

meekwanfeather holds*

Mar 25Reply

bellasbeauties @meekwanfeather is there something I have you’re interested in?

Mar 27Reply

meekwanfeather @bellasbeauties lol I thot u don't ask if anyone is interested?

Mar 27Reply

meekwanfeather @bellasbeauties just being cheeky. I have followed u and will msg if I find something I am interested in. thanks

Mar 27Reply

bellasbeauties @meekwanfeather but yours wasn’t a direct question that’s basically answered in the comment.

Mar 27Reply

meekwanfeather @bellasbeauties 🙃