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grayasparagus
Updated May 18
grayasparagus
grayasparagus
Updated May 18

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412 Comments
thevintageroze
thevintageroze Love your blog honey!
Feb 21Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @nkhob Thank you so much! I really enjoy writing it :)
Feb 21Reply
kzehnd1
kzehnd1 @grayasparagus hey Elle! Just wanted to comment and say hello! It's Katie from the comment on your post about Bots 🙈 hope you're doing well! Xo
Feb 22Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kzehnd1 yay! Good morning!!!
Feb 22Reply
kzehnd1
kzehnd1 @grayasparagus and same to you!! So glad I found you on here!!
Feb 22Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kzehnd1 I was actually already following you :) great closet!
Feb 22Reply
kzehnd1
kzehnd1 @grayasparagus OMG!! Excuse me while I cry a little bit!! Thanks so much ma'am! Of course, total adoration of your closet & blog!! #goals
Feb 22Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kzehnd1 you are too kind! I hope that you don't realize what a huge dork I am!!! 🤓
Feb 22Reply
kzehnd1
kzehnd1 @grayasparagus even if I believed that (which I don't!) doesn't matter because I am too 👯
Feb 22Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kzehnd1 😂😂😂
Feb 22Reply
nythrift
nythrift @grayasparagus Elle, I didn't get the theme of my party yet on 2/27. You think that is weird? Did I miss it in my 46465 work emails?:(
Feb 23Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @nythrift not sure! I don't know how far in advance they plan the afternoon parties! Yikes! You could always email them, just reply to the party communication so it doesn't get lost in Support emails...
Feb 23Reply
kzehnd1
kzehnd1 @grayasparagus Elle! How crazy is it that I become a suggested user and finally meet you on Posh!! (Also, add to my dorkdom, I didn't see the email for 6 days - 😂 smh)
Feb 23Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kzehnd1 you just got promoted to SU?!?!?!
Feb 23Reply
christine1432
christine1432 @grayasparagus can you share my $5 listing ? Thank you!!!!!
Feb 24Reply
emmalee6003
emmalee6003 Recently stumbled across your blog - obsessed. I haven't even been active on posh all day because I've been pouring over your blog. You are so knowledgeable!!!! Thank you for all your transparency, can't wait to try some of your suggestions 💗💗💗
Feb 25Reply
kblock412
kblock412 I love your blog and this is a great idea!
Feb 27Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kblock412 Thank you so much!
Feb 27Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @emmalee6003 Thank you so much! Let me know how it goes!!
Feb 27Reply
cmc514
cmc514 Great post on the rule breaking items not being removed. Did you go to Poshfest? Manish made an announcement and yep, certain expansions are already in the works!
Feb 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @cmc514 hey! Nope, never been to Poshfest.. I had heard here and there from others that it might happen... I would certainly be all for it!!
Feb 28Reply
tonistwinkles
tonistwinkles @poshuniversity BLOG HERE. 😘😘😘 @grayasparagus Love!!
Mar 04Reply
kalifreshness1
kalifreshness1 Your blog is awesome!!! Thank you.
Mar 05Reply
shay3624
shay3624 Just found your blog today. Found a good tip that I did not know before. I JUST recently started selling my items on another site and marked 4 items as sold on....(the other site) without really thinking about it. Your blog said to delete these items and I did not want to jeopardize my SU status so I quickly went to my closet to do just that and they were already deleted. Looks like posh did it. See below..
Mar 06Reply
shay3624
shay3624 I hope this does not cause issues with my account. Those items were up for a little over a week and now they are gone. Just wanted to update you about that just encase someone ask. Looks like posh deletes those listings..or MAYBE as a SU, they are just following our closets closer. What are your thoughts?
Mar 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @shay3624 hi! If you love look in your closet stats section, does it say that you had X Number of listings removed?
Mar 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @shay3624 not sure how the word "love" showed up in that sentence haha!
Mar 06Reply
shay3624
shay3624 No not at all but those dresses that I sold (on the other site) are no longer view-able on posh. i was just about to remove them myself. @grayasparagus I honestly, dont think it affected the number of listings I had up either, that number did not seem to go down but i list so much everyday, i could be wrong.
Mar 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @shay3624 wow, never heard of that happening within an alert! Thanks for letting me know!
Mar 06Reply
shay3624
shay3624 It was my mistake for keeping those dresses up after they sold on the other site but i had a BOGO sale last week and I kinda wanted ppl to know that I didnt just remove them because i had the sale...you know? So they would not think I was keeping the dresses OUT the sale..lol They were 4 awesome pieces and the customer got 4 evening gowns for the price of 2. :) Np
Mar 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @shay3624 I think you can always just put SOLD on this listing. I do that a lot when I bundle- I keep the original listings up until the purchase has been excepted. Like you said- I think the "bad word" (haha) was the issue
Mar 06Reply
catienicolexox
catienicolexox hey! I have a couple poshmark questions and didn't know if you could help me out? I see your pretty much a pro and know your way around poshmark so didn't know if you could help me with a couple retailers posting questions :)
Mar 08Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @catienicolexox hi! I can certainly try!
Mar 08Reply
catienicolexox
catienicolexox is there a way to message on here? or are you on FB I can message you there : )
Mar 08Reply
catienicolexox
catienicolexox or maybe your blog refers to it. I'm kinda looking for the down low on when it comes to posting things as like a pre-sale. I've owned a online boutique for over 6 months now and am thinking about switching over to poshmark completely. I used to do pre orders and looking to do that again but just looking to get familiar kinda with like the how to post something you don't quite have in stock yet and the back end of things if that makes sense
Mar 08Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Hey @catienicolexox ! I just stopped by your closet and WOW! You have sold tons :)
Mar 13Reply
catienicolexox
catienicolexox Gosh I'm just now seeing this so sorry! And yes first ten orders happened in my first week! Not mad about that! Hahah
Mar 15Reply
cmarshall38
cmarshall38 @grayasparagus great blog post today! You always keep me informed.
Mar 23Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs HI! I just saw your comment about the blog :) Thank you for reading! Tell me more about this "share change" was it a change in your group or did you get an alert?
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz The change apparently does away with the ability to 'blast' an item. In my group, we blast 1 item x 10s. I guess this made it go through the feed differently. That no longer works. It only shows 1 time now I think.
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs did you ever confirm that you could ever see it more than once? In my experience- it never showed up more than once- multiple shares only kept it at the top but never "flooded" the newsfeed.
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz No notification just word of mouth but claims of a confirmation from Manish from a few. I link it to the Posh Bot situation that you swore to never again talk about😉😇
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs HAHA! I could talk about it for hours on end- just don't want to bore people who aren't interested :) I actually posted about this last year and how I tested the theory- but I can't even find my own post!!! I have been asked this a few times recently- so I need to do some digging... clearly. The way I feel about it overall is....
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs If you FEEL like it works- DO IT. I judge whether or not something is "working" but how many shares or likes I receive while doing said strategy. I honestly have never felt like "share blasting" was a good use of my time- but I do not discount people who feel/find it effective. Too many factors with each persons individual circumstance.
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz @grayasparagus my personal experience has been excellent with it. I do between 3-5 groups per day. @soldsold was a share blast based group that I believe to been very effective. However, allegations are that the blast now shows the same as a single share
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs interesting... ok, I will see what I can find out....
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz I do agree that the best strategy is doing whatever has been working😉 I know when an entire group of 30 all share the same item of mine, it usually sales. Time will tell this week vs last week if I see any changes😯
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz Thanks for your response and weighing in on the topic 💜
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz @grayasparagus can't wait for your next blog, look forward to it every time😊 have a great Monday😝
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs Thank you so much! Let me know if you see a difference! I hope its not a slow week overall due to spring breaks...
Mar 28Reply
fanzy_pantz
fanzy_pantz @grayasparagus I am tracking the sales I had last week that were blasted (we put them at top of closet so that is easy)from last week and this. Doesn't consider other variables but at least a guess. 300 shares of the same item was blasted daily vs 30 this week thank you💜💜💜
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @triciatx Hey Tricia! I am just having the same conversation with @mkribs ... check out above. I am not 100% sure yet...
Mar 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mkribs thanks for tagging me! Glad there is some sort of resolution 👍
Mar 29Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy Love that post! My first response is never ever a good idea🤗 Your blog always helps so much!
Mar 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lalalacy12 haha me neither!! Thank you ❤️❤️
Mar 30Reply
lalalaaaalisa
lalalaaaalisa random question, but do you use wordpress? i am just trying to add the widget & when I paste the html it just shows the code. if you have any idea how to add it, please let me know. thank you!!
Mar 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lalalaaaalisa yes! Copy the code and go to "widgets" within your dashboard.... Choose the widget I think called "text"... Based on which theme you are using you may have to change the width.
Mar 30Reply
lalalaaaalisa
lalalaaaalisa darn. that is what I am doing & it just shows the code. I must be doing something wrong. I will figure it out. thank you so much! you rock. Thank you.
Mar 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lalalaaaalisa if that doesn't work let me know and I will look when I get home to my computer...
Mar 30Reply
lalalaaaalisa
lalalaaaalisa you are on my list of favs once i finally figure it out.
Mar 30Reply
lalalaaaalisa
lalalaaaalisa got it!! thanks again!
Mar 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lalalaaaalisa awwww thank you! I remember it not working that easily either. What is your blog??
Mar 30Reply
lalalaaaalisa
lalalaaaalisa It's not solely posh or fashion related, but I am just now starting to write more about Poshmark & my experiences. Blog is https://howtobe30something.wordpress.com/. Thanks!
Mar 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lalalaaaalisa cool! I will def check it out
Mar 30Reply
saintsfreak9
saintsfreak9 Thank you for all your shares!❤️
Mar 31Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @saintsfreak9 Thank you for sharing mine :)
Mar 31Reply
ohwhale007
ohwhale007 @grayasparagus how much for the beautiful asparagus? 💕
Apr 05Reply
ohwhale007
ohwhale007 @grayasparagus hahah, keep doing your thing girlfriend! 💕
Apr 05Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon Good Morning My Friend!! Love your blog sista! Great positivity and fresh idea! You rock!
Apr 05Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Good morning @erikagannon ! Thank you ! Hope you are having a great week!
Apr 05Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon Fabulous so far, Elle!! Hope yours is too!!😃😃😃
Apr 05Reply
cowboysdaughter
cowboysdaughter 💗 your blog!!
Apr 07Reply
lalalaaaalisa
lalalaaaalisa thanks so much for the valuable knowledge on your blog!
Apr 07Reply
blandw
blandw wow! This information is incredible! I'm going to be buying my planner this weekend. LOL! Even though I've been on Poshmark for four years, with all the new people and trends we have seen on Posh, knowledge is power. Sharing this now. 😘😘 @lakeforest @daisygirl321 @lwschlprncss @hydrogirl @scarlettstained @patricewymore @jaimerstone @getluckyvocals @jodisjewelry
Apr 08Reply
patricewymore
patricewymore @blandw Thanks so much Bland!
Apr 08Reply
emalabama
emalabama @grayasparagus Elle, I'll add to the chorus: LOVE your blog. Just commented on your post! Ladies, this is a MUST read!💕
Apr 08Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r @grayasparagus Elle has a blog as well! -- @authorjpro
Apr 09Reply
alwayssposh
alwayssposh im so glad i came across this post ! i'm reading some of your poshmark posts and am loving it (:
Apr 09Reply
alwayssposh
alwayssposh I do have a question though that you may be able to help me with (: i wanted to know how you become a suggested user. I have been active on posh for about 8 months and i have a posh complient closet. I have never been a host to a party but see people who have been active for 4 months and they are... if you could help me understand i would appreciate it (:
Apr 09Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @suzzzann hi! Thanks for reading! If you go to the blog and search "suggested user" and also "hosting" there are specific posts that address this :) hope it helps !
Apr 09Reply
goldrose48
goldrose48 @grayasparagus Hi Elle! Just wanted to say I loved your last blog post! Good to know that others are also keeping track of their trends on Posh! I've been keeping records in Excel similar to what you have in your monthly calendar. Seeing the different trends have been so helpful since I have limited poshing time. Looking forward to your next post! Have a great day! 😀
Apr 11Reply
wellspringhope
wellspringhope @mirirose Based on our conversation today!
Apr 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @goldrose48 awesome to hear that you have had success doing that!! Thanks for reading the blog :)
Apr 15Reply
treviesmommy
treviesmommy @grayasparagus how am I following your blog, Instagram, but not posh closet?!?? Wt*?? Lol!!!
Apr 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @treviesmommy I'm following you on insta too.... Just followed back on here!!!
Apr 16Reply
kristenvanness
kristenvanness @grayasparagus ❤️your blog! So real!!
Apr 16Reply
purpleposher
purpleposher @grayasparagus What an awesome blog. I sure enjoyed reading it :D I have been searching about how to change my user name on here, researched for hours but to no avail lol Now I need to decide if I want to or not :D Thank you so much for the great info! God bless!
Apr 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @juliehall6360 Thank you so much! Good luck deciding! It was a big decision for me but I found it VERY beneficial.
Apr 16Reply
purpleposher
purpleposher @grayasparagus I'm trying to think of a great one, that hasn't been used already ... that may take a while ha! Any ideas??? :D
Apr 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @juliehall6360 I would think of something that may describe your style or personality, easy to remember and spell!
Apr 16Reply
cali_gal
cali_gal Elle- You inspire me to start my own blog and somehow incorporate community into fashion - two of my greatest passions! So in-between laundry, kids, poshing and oh ya- my other job- I may start blogging. 😂 #ineedavacation thanks for being inspiring! @grayasparagus
Apr 17Reply
e_l_e
e_l_e 💕🌹💟👍👌👐🎉
Apr 18Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @frannyzfinds Thank you so much! I would be honored...
Apr 18Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @frannyzfinds This is so flattering! I have a lot to live up to!!!!
Apr 18Reply
tme2557
tme2557 @grayasparagus just read your blog - loved it!!! 💕 Left a comment but I'm not savvy with blogs and accidentally included my POSHMARK name, thinking it was just going to you and not posted for all (yikes)
Apr 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @tme2557 Thank you so much! I love when readers leave their closet name so I can connect the person to their closet :) If you prefer to not have it in the open, I can delete the comment if you have concerns. Just let me know! :)
Apr 19Reply
tme2557
tme2557 @grayasparagus it's totally up to you....I just want you to know I definitely wasn't advertising my closet, I would NEVER do that! So sorry! You have a great blog!💕
Apr 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @tme2557 awwww never would think that! I am just happy that anyone reads my silly blog :)
Apr 19Reply
commonladybugs
commonladybugs Great blog post! So spot on! It's great business practice to ask for what you want as a buyer and seller, it never hurts to try, counter and move along 🌟 love your blog! 💞
Apr 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Downside to changing name 😝 ... I haven't share in the share group for a while- but signed up today!
Apr 19Reply
paigesclosett
paigesclosett your closet is too perfect 😍
Apr 20Reply
liplush_14
liplush_14 your closet is a temptation! love it!!!
Apr 22Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @liplush_14 thank you so much!
Apr 22Reply
hildagricky
hildagricky @grayasparagus hi there...I sent you a message on the open toe heels you have listed. Are they available?
Apr 24Reply
artsunnyh
artsunnyh I love your blog. It's definitely a must-read! Thanks for sharing your tips & personal opinions about how to manage Poshing. I left a comment on your blog too :)
Apr 26Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @artsunnyh Hey! I just looked through your closet and it looks like PERFECTION! I don't think you have anything to worry about :)
Apr 26Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @artsunnyh and thank you so much for the kind compliments!
Apr 26Reply
artsunnyh
artsunnyh Thank you SO MUCH!!! That just made my day. YAY!
Apr 26Reply
jdorecouture
jdorecouture I've been enjoying your blog! Thank you for posting your anecdotes and great info.
Apr 29Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @jdorecouture thank you !!!!!
Apr 29Reply
sdjean
sdjean @dawnmonique This blog (web address outside of PM) has a good post on the mechanics of hosting a PM party.
Apr 30Reply
jkdressler
jkdressler Girl I've been thinking about your post on stats! The past few weeks have been nuts in terms of sales. I sold 23 items which is 1/3 of my closet in the past 3weeks! I took your advice: I definitely follow the fresh closets, and I've been self sharing more, but also since I have lots of dresses in my closet, I've been going into the past parties and sharing dresses in my size. Maybe that's the key? To share items similar to what comprises your closet ? Thanks for your advice!
May 02Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @jkdressler omg! That is sooooo awesome!! Did you sell mostly dresses?! Time to refill your closet!!!
May 02Reply
jkdressler
jkdressler Actually it was a little of everything! Go figure:) yes time to refill indeed!
May 02Reply
tbgarwood
tbgarwood I absolutely love your blog! Beautifully written.
May 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @tbgarwood thank you so much! That made my night ❤️❤️❤️
May 03Reply
sbw1252
sbw1252 @thank you I will love your blog😊
May 12Reply
windandwillow
windandwillow @cottonandwhimsy This is the blog I was telling you about 😊
May 20Reply
tsouth84
tsouth84 @grayasparagus I found your blog on Saturday night and I've loved reading your tips! I've had posh awhile but just started doing it seriously hoping I can stay home with my daughter through working on posh. I especially loved the post on not taking offense to offers.. I needed to hear that perspective! Love your closet!! 😊
May 23Reply
stefielouhoo
stefielouhoo @grayasparagus haha, I just saw the title of your latest post and I'm already chuckling in anticipation:)
May 31Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Hey @cynthia63 it's actually the only way!
May 31Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @cynthia63 I don't know how you "organize" your closet but I used to keep it in categories. I gave that up pretty quickly because it was awful if it got out of order!!!
May 31Reply
marycstephens
marycstephens Great blog today about sharing! 😍
May 31Reply
noy2312
noy2312 @grayasparagus Thanks Ellie! I read your blog about sharing. You put words on what some of us are doing already and there's no need in deciphering Poshmark. Sharing is the key to selling!
Jun 01Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @noy2312 sure is! I sometimes have to find new ways of looking at things to refresh and motivate myself, my blogs posts are what I personally am going through so I share it in case others are too :)
Jun 01Reply
noy2312
noy2312 @grayasparagus any thoughts about the bots? That event totally divided a lot of poshers.
Jun 01Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @noy2312 oh yes, lots of thoughts! I think I ranted in about 3 blog posts LOL. However, I do think the majority has been stopped, but what do I know! You?
Jun 01Reply
noy2312
noy2312 @grayasparagus I think it divided the women I know. Some know who's in it. Some don't. Some was asked to be removed from groups because of it. It's crazy.
Jun 01Reply
alwayssposh
alwayssposh hey quick question (: i love your blog and read the new articles all the time! i just wanted to know your opinion. 1) how often is it best to upload new items? 2) how many items is it best to have in a closet
Jun 01Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @noy2312 oh wow. I don't know for sure who was using the services but everyone had their theories. That sucks that it ended friendships. I just let posh deal with it and I moved on. Were they kicked out of sharing groups?
Jun 01Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Good Morning @suzzzann !Both of those are incredibly important issues but I do not have a definitive answer or a magic number. As far as listing... New listings can bring traffic to your closet (new items show up in "first look" showrooms in parties the first time they are shared) and just in general bring new interest to your closet. Ideally I would list every week or every few days but I don't. (cont...)
Jun 01Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @suzzzann I think it's not so much a question of how many Listings, but WHAT you are listing. For instance, if you only sell shoes- it wouldn't matter if you had 1000 shoes listed, if I am doing a search and I wanted a Gap tee, I won't find your closet. I try to keep a variety in my closet (brands and type of listings) to up my chances of being found. Hopefully when they arrive in my closet, they will find other things and the more you have, the more chance you have to sell. Hope that helps!
Jun 01Reply
raninmyheart
raninmyheart @grayasparagus I saw u on Instagram will have to check out your blog. I have been on here about three years now just really pretty active for the last year. Happy poshing and wishing u many sales!
Jun 02Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @raninmyheart yay!! Nice to "meet" you! I will come back and share your closet a bit later 😘
Jun 02Reply
aliposhshop
aliposhshop Just subscribed to your blog yesterday and it's great! I downloaded the app in 2013, but just started using it last month and your blog has been so helpful in figuring out how to get up and running!
Jun 23Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @aliposhshop thank you so much for saying that! You closet is gorgeous by the way! 😘
Jun 23Reply
sweet_hatttrick
sweet_hatttrick @grayasparagus Hi there. LOVE your latest blog. You read my mind and I'm experiencing exactly the same. What amazes me is no matter how rock-bottom-I'm-losing-$-low I go in pricing, too many Posher still make offensive low-ball offers. I just have to laugh it's so rude. I analyze sales here as tied to the economy and holidays or events...people have budgets and POSHMARK sales are correlated to these outside events. Nevertheless, there's no excuse for offensive low-balling. Good luck. 💐
Jun 23Reply
aliposhshop
aliposhshop Thank you! It's a work in progress.
Jun 24Reply
roe_ellias
roe_ellias Hey babe. You are " wit the business". I mean that I love this straight talk. Thumbs up👍🏽👍🏽. On that note, what is the truth about share groups because I'm starting to think that they only work for the poshers with the most followers. Like a trickle down effect if I share their listing everyone that I share and my followers and the people that I share followers sees their listings especially under the post on the pc laptops. Do you know what I mean?
Jun 25Reply
roe_ellias
roe_ellias Is understand if you don't want to answer😉
Jun 25Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @roedarryl this is how I see it, yes, if I am doing a share group with a posher who has let's say, 5,000 followers, she would benefit from my shares bc theoretically it going out to my 300k+ followers. But that's assuming that they are active and shopping their feed. I feel like I have just ask much of a chance getting a sale if she shares mine to her 5k followers. Share groups are awesome because it's guaranteed share backs and exposure is exposure.
Jun 25Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @roedarryl (cont) So I personally don't think anyone benefits more than another. Does that answer kinda what you were asking? If you want to see my more detailed opinions- check up my blog that I mention in this post- you can search for a post called "Group Therapy" and I have SEVERAL posts about Sharing strategies :)
Jun 25Reply
treasuresbytrac
treasuresbytrac @lex1952 Lex, Elle, the owner of this closet is an incredible posher that writes blogs helping all of us on Posh to be the best we can be. If you have time all of her Blog posts are a must read.
Jun 25Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @treasuresbytrac thank you so much! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Jun 25Reply
sassafras19
sassafras19 I know this probably sounds silly but I' m not very tech savvy. Can you tell me how to get to your blog, please? It sounds like something I would find very helpful! Thank you!
Jul 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Hi @sassafras19 ! If you go to my "about" section at the top of my profile- there is a direct link!
Jul 06Reply
sassafras19
sassafras19 Thanks so much!
Jul 06Reply
ltordoff
ltordoff @grayasparagus hey there! You referred me to your blog earlier today and I just read a few of your postings! Absolutely loved it!! Your posts were super helpful and reading the comments and getting different perspectives of different poshers was super helpful as well. Thanks so much!! 💕💕💕💕💕 xoxo -Linds
Jul 11Reply
closetinbloom
closetinbloom Hey! I just want to say thank you your blog has helped me so much as a new Posher to define my view of success in my closet and I feel like I'm having a very fun & successful time on Posh. Please never stop blogging-you're amazing!!!! 😊👍🏼
Jul 13Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @mrskiki18 Thank you!! You just made my morning! XOXO
Jul 13Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy Yay!! I was waiting for your post about this!
Jul 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Thanks @lovelacy ! I wasn't going to, but couldn't stop my big mouth this morning. I lost you for a while with your name change!!!
Jul 15Reply
imthedesertdiva
imthedesertdiva I am sooooo happy Posh has FINALLY caught up with other apps and added the Vacation feature! Yea!!!
Jul 28Reply
marlanap
marlanap @iqclothessavvy @justice10forme @krbustillos Hi. You both keep up with Posh News. Did you already know about the Vacation Hold? I just learned about it this morning via the Blog mentioned on this listing. If you did not hear, read about it in the latest Gray Asparagus Blog and join online to receive all future Blog Entries. Also please share with others.
Jul 28Reply
krbustillos
krbustillos @marlanap what!?! When did this happen, I emailed poshmark last week about being on vacation and they didn't mention this at all
Jul 28Reply
shoplunagrace
shoplunagrace @marlanap Thank you Marlana!😘💕
Jul 28Reply
iqclothessavvy
iqclothessavvy @marlanap Yeah! I posted this on my FB page yesterday! Happy Dance. And I LOVE Gray Asparagus Blog! Lifetime subscriber! Have a blessed Poshing Day! HUGS!
Jul 28Reply
marlanap
marlanap @krbustillos I do not always read my Posh e-mail, but I checked after I heard from Gray Asp and it is not messaged anywhere in my e-mail, not even on the Posh Blog unless it was recently posted? I guess they will get around to telling us all "officially" about it soon. Apparently, this is Breaking News. This is Awesome, much needed by so many of us, because it was a total drag "Temporarily Closing" my closet last fall. Thank, Heavens we now have this wonderful option.
Jul 28Reply
marlanap
marlanap @iqclothessavvy I figured that one of you probably already knew. YAY! It is much needed!!!! See what I said above. Later this year, I will definitely be using it. Exactly how did others find out this news other than the blog? I subscribe to the Posh Blog and have not seen anything about it there. Not yet. Have a great day and weekend too!!! (-:
Jul 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @marlanap Posh posted it on Instagram about an hour ago... But have not seen another announcement...
Jul 28Reply
marlanap
marlanap @iqclothessavvy Said she saw it on SnapChat and then posted it on her FB page yesterday. Lol I am not on SnapChat. Not yet. 😀
Jul 28Reply
iqclothessavvy
iqclothessavvy @grayasparagus @marlanap Manish posted vacay on FB yesterday
Jul 28Reply
raninmyheart
raninmyheart @grayasparagus i recently discovered as a buyer on here that items listed as various do not show up when ur searching by your size. i didnt know if u knew that a fellow posher is contacting posh about it just thought i would tell u since u do blog about posh u may already know ty
Jul 28Reply
marlanap
marlanap @iqclothessavvy On the actual Posh page, looks like it just got posted today. I checked. 👍🏽
Jul 28Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes!! xo <3 @jimsprincess @jbortkiewicz @sparrowsage @stunning_29 @mandapanda83 @cyndy_bennett @chicbabygirl @tpmom @hobsonwife @iqclothessavvy
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes!! @jayssboutique @thia_b @jenbcloset @annc64 @nory_gemma @kymstewart @cyd143 @faith2bshared @mturn2 @closetfairies @evolvingalways @cinq1964 @bandbcustomshop @dinofinder @koalaandkween
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes!! @kimmando @livianna @stacy194 @tamarismom @jill555 @colorado_mommy @nanookmom @jmacci7 @legallybfashion @vixen676 @restlessangel @happystore @blondsoul @teekee @livealohagrl @sweetbee17 @dkjewelry @thepinkposher @keyonnasummers @poshboutique16 @fashioniata @lemurianmuse @mmadonna40
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes!! @janimack7 @kimberly803 @dawnediva @sylviaharris55 @sparrowsage @schx4 @voodoodoll @remiirae @nyc_apple @mmdanzot @swanagin @jinxiego @jeren27 @tpmom @bdbcsr @guo791999 @cassandra8187 @bdbcsr @tazzyg @luckyu77 @jeren27 @julskewl @dawnediva @aswartzer @loribarrhall
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes! @restlessangel @bandbcustomshop @frannyzfinds @kimmando @dierks24 @mandapanda83 @midnightjewels @joyamarino
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes! @nory_gemma @rposen @cajlove @holdon3 @veperez @thortam @mtnhiker @ginga69 @alluck1210 @foxychica21 @sammy @justice10forme @juliejoff @bekkalimon @3mdr @amyfly @fashionmellow @fallinup @hollylightly
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes! @paradise_808 @cityoffashion @fashionmellow @pandacute @ginger_nj @wendibearr @stefreedom @fionaspassion @yellowandpink27 @scarletemerald @mmadonna40
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r The wonderfully supportive pff @thegrayasparagus, she has really been a total inspiration & sweetheart. Please like, share, & tag this listing "How to Posh-Packaging!", tyvm Poshettes! @bluerubie @mkribs @hrv_boutique @dmccain @mrsalfonso @jenixan24 @tiffany123f @teekee @mrsmadariaga @thewifeysthings @kalifreshness @roedarryl
Aug 12Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @goodchic you blow me away with your kindness! ❤️❤️❤️
Aug 12Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r @grayasparagus lead by example right?!,. 💟💕🌹
Aug 12Reply
sparrowsage
sparrowsage What an awesome post! @sparrowsage 🐨🌼💜🍀
Aug 12Reply
aanyaa_
aanyaa_ Hey! I love your closet 😍. Check out my closet! I think it matches your style 💅🏽 Feel free to make offers/purchases! ✨ Happy Poshing ♡
Aug 21Reply
juliejoff
juliejoff Best post! Thank you :)
Aug 25Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Thank you @juliejoff ❤️
Aug 25Reply
jessiesgirl0718
jessiesgirl0718 Hi! I really enjoy your blog. Always find your information useful and practical. I started using a notebook calendar to track my sales patterns and share activity, as you suggested. It's really helped me a lot. Thank you for putting your ideas out there. I really appreciate it. Plus, you look like a FUN person!! And, you love clearly love dogs!❣🐾. So again, thank you! Jeannie
Aug 26Reply
dawnmaries
dawnmaries @grayasparagus Just read "Running toward my goal" and it was spot on!! I started running in my early 30s too 10 yrs ago. I run 15ks & 13.1s. I did a few 26.2s but only to check the box. Stay running - you'll be thankful in your 40s 😊
Aug 29Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @dawnmaries thank you so much! Wow- I can't even imagine running those races!
Aug 29Reply
lolli_posh
lolli_posh Hey! This is random, but I know you're probably the best to ask! 💕 My "Find People" button has vanished! 🤔 it happened first on my iPad, and now it's gone from my Android phone. I can't even find someone's closet unless I'm following them now! Do u know anything about this??
Sep 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lolli_posh oh goodness! No, I just check and mine is still there... I am on and iPhone. When did it happen?
Sep 06Reply
lolli_posh
lolli_posh About a week ago it disappeared from my iPad. And today it went off my android! It's a pain trying to search for listings if I didn't 'like' them to begin with. Maybe I should reinstall my app? But it's soooo weird that it's gone on both devices. I honestly figured you would come back and say they did away with it all together 😬
Sep 06Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lolli_posh I don't know why they would do away with a search... So weird! I would guess it would have something to do with an update but not since its android AND iPad.... I would def email them. For MONTHS my account would delete my web address every few days in my about me. Weirdest thing!
Sep 06Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy So good! Definitely needed this. I get lazy with my descriptions since about everything is NWT and I figure it speaks for itself. But I def appreciate a detailed description. I go on a listing frenzy and want to hurry, then tell myself I'll come back and fix it, but I usually forget. 😁
Oct 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lovelacy I do that too! And then I wonder why no one "likes" it ! I go back and am like "really? I didn't describe it?" Or only have like 1 picture!
Oct 03Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy Even worse when I use the stock model pic and I never upload my own to show the item. I would personally never buy a listing like that so why should I think someone else would?? I'm trying to switch over to using only my own pictures. Holy moly! It's a lot of work for sure!
Oct 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lovelacy SO much work!!! Will you let me know if you notice a difference in attention or sales once you switch over?
Oct 03Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy Of course! I've probably read it, but what do you use to take your pics? I'm still trying to figure out a way to take lingerie pics. Don't know if I should get a dress form or just lay it on a pretty background? It's kind of hard to not use stock photos for those.
Oct 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lovelacy what do I use in terms of camera or background? I have never sold lingerie or bathing suits. I have seen a lot of pretty flat lays tho! Might be hard on a mannequin for panties and stuff 🤔
Oct 03Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy Camera😊 I love how your photos come out. Yeah, I don't know how I'm going to do it yet😁
Oct 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lovelacy gotcha, thanks!! I use an iPhone 5s... I put it on a tripod and use the selfie facing mode and timer- that way I can see how it will turn out. No filters or adjustments- just natural lighting.
Oct 03Reply
emmegreen
emmegreen @grayasparagus so much great content in your blog and in your closet! I'm sitting here looking at the humongous pile of stuff I need to style and photograph, and just want to go back to sleep lol I'm gonna follow you on IG first, bc priorities 😁😁😁
Oct 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Lol @emmegreen ! Thank you so much! I too live in a constant state of needed to list things. Don't believe for a second that I have my act together!!! Xoxo
Oct 03Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy Yay, just ordered a tripod!! Now I just have to get the motivation to tackle the crazy pile of stuff I need to take pictures of :/ I will let you know if I see a difference in sales :)
Oct 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lovelacy yay!!! Can't wait to see !
Oct 03Reply
emmegreen
emmegreen @grayasparagus @lovelacy quick question - do either of you notice that sometimes when uploaded, the exposure is different from what it looks like on your monitors? I do my best to not use any filters, but sometimes (especially in the morning light), it's so harsh and bright that I need to adjust the exposure
Oct 04Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy @emmegreen Yes, I have to adjust my pictures a little to either brighten them or tone down the exposure. My main problem is my phone making it crazy bright and washed out. I haven't figure out how to stop that yet😔
Oct 04Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @emmegreen @lovelacy I don't use adjustments typically.... But there are only certain times of the day I can actually take photos that are acceptable since I use natural lighting😳
Oct 04Reply
emmegreen
emmegreen @lovelacy try adjusting the the "white balance" setting on your phone. It helps me sometimes, especially since I use a cream and eggshell background. 📸📸📸
Oct 04Reply
lovelacy
lovelacy @emmegreen Thanks!! I didn't know I could do that. :)
Oct 05Reply
chicrevival
chicrevival @grayasparagus hi Elle! your blog is like the holy grail for how to succeed in Poshmark. Thank you so much for your advice!
Oct 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lightupthenight thank you so much! Xoxo
Oct 14Reply
kurozetto
kurozetto I am so happy to have discovered your blog @grayasparagus!!! Thank you for generously sharing your insights and advice!
Oct 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kurozetto thank you so much! That was so sweet of you to come by and say that! Xoxo
Oct 15Reply
emmegreen
emmegreen @grayasparagus I looked on your blog but I know I'm missing it, have you written about share groups? I'd love your take on them :)
Oct 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @emmegreen I have! In the search bar type in "Group Therapy" :)
Oct 15Reply
emmegreen
emmegreen @grayasparagus Merci! ***whispers*** i knew you had to have written about it I was LOLing bc I was wondering what others have experienced. As always, thanks for the great content!
Oct 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @emmegreen thank you so much! Thank you for bringing it up bc I have some more opinions on the subject now than from when I wrote it....
Oct 15Reply
whitetrashfinds
whitetrashfinds @grayasparagus I just stumbled across your blog today. As a former editor, it was my GREAT pleasure to read your writing! May I make a suggestion - and I give it with much POSH love! Change your tagline on your blog? You obviously DO know what you're talking about and much (if not all) of is so very right! Something like "Musings of A Poshmark Maven" or "Posh-itively Poshmark" or... I'm sure you could come up with something great! Looking forward to reading more from you!
Oct 16Reply
whitetrashfinds
whitetrashfinds @grayasparagus BTW, I've been pondering deleting my SOLD listings because my closet is HUGE, but not sure if that would be an advantageous thing or not. since they all sink to the bottom eventually, anyway. What do you think about that?
Oct 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @whitetrashfinds thank you so much! My tag line was written before my blog was about anything- probably before I knew Posh existed! Thank you for the suggestion! I don't know what direction it will take in the future but will definitely change it when I know Xoxo thank you SO much for reading it!!
Oct 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @whitetrashfinds I have always deleted anything without a "sold" banner because of my need for order and minimalism. HOWEVER, some people look at the "listing" number and may judge the success/reputation by the listing number. So there is a positive and negative to both...
Oct 16Reply
whitetrashfinds
whitetrashfinds @grayasparagus I thought that might be the case :).
Oct 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @whitetrashfinds so do what feels right for you!
Oct 16Reply
whitetrashfinds
whitetrashfinds @grayasparagus Me too! Minimally speaking, that is. I also think that there is something to the reputation factor when I see a large number of successful transactions. So appreciate your input! Thanks!
Oct 16Reply
e_l_e_a_n_o_r
e_l_e_a_n_o_r @hrv_boutique have you met @grayasparagus ?!,. 👆🏻🔝
Oct 17Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Hi @hrv_boutique ! It's great to meet you :)
Oct 17Reply
visualbrands
visualbrands I know I've been MIA. Just know that you really scared me. I thought you were gone!! 😫😫
Nov 03Reply
visualbrands
visualbrands Just read your blog! Hope to see you back soon! Also that's a great idea! I'm sure your idea will work out for you and you will come back with a BANG! You'll be back like you never left! I'm telling ya! 😊😘
Nov 03Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @icravebargains thanks!!! 😘😘😘
Nov 03Reply
lilylily76
lilylily76 @grayasparagus Hello darling, I'm so happy I have found your blog! It is very detailed and helpful! Thank you for what you have done😘😘😘 P.S. Love your sense of humor☺️😀❤️
Nov 08Reply
jenrossi1217
jenrossi1217 Here I am! Love reading the blog and FB posts. 💓
Nov 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @jenrossi1217 yay! Sometimes I can't connect friends from the blog to their closets 😬 sharing now!
Nov 14Reply
jenrossi1217
jenrossi1217 @grayasparagus I get it! Guess what - I got an offer already! Magic touch!!
Nov 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @jenrossi1217 nooooo!!! That's awesome! Did you accept?!
Nov 14Reply
jenrossi1217
jenrossi1217 @grayasparagus Countered. It was 15$ less- so 25 on a 40. Countered with +7.
Nov 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @jenrossi1217 👍👍👍👍
Nov 14Reply
jenrossi1217
jenrossi1217 @grayasparagus yeah!! Done. Thank you!
Nov 14Reply
cmarshall38
cmarshall38 @grayasparagus this last post was the best!! Now I'm excited about doing a post to promote my PFFs closet. I may even do a kids section for the holidays......maybe😂😂. But I'm so excited about promoting shopping!!!
Nov 17Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @cmarshall38 yes!!! I had really been feeling like we were getting too much into promoting selling... I'm a SHOPPER ONLY this year! Btw, you have some fantastic new listings up!
Nov 17Reply
cmarshall38
cmarshall38 @grayasparagus thanks so much!!! I've been shopping like crazy this month. I'll post my PM finds on IG this weekend. Expecting a package today too!!!! And you are so right!
Nov 17Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @cmarshall38 I am getting a package too!!!! I totally think you should try kiddo stuff... With Totspot people joining I'm sure it's on 🔥🔥🔥
Nov 17Reply
cmarshall38
cmarshall38 @grayasparagus we'll see. Maybe just a season I'll try it out.
Nov 17Reply
elliejo503
elliejo503 @musemax thank you for the tag!! Elle has great advice and I love her writing style.
Nov 28Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus Thank you so much @elliejo503 @musemax !!
Nov 28Reply
peacehopelove
peacehopelove I went to share back but no listings. Did you close?
Dec 07Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @peacehopelove for the time being, yes. Might reopen after the new year...
Dec 07Reply
peacehopelove
peacehopelove Well thank you for sharing. Have a wonderful holiday season and New Year!
Dec 07Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @peacehopelove thank you! You too! Posh is a hard habit to break so I have to still share and shop sometimes :)
Dec 07Reply
peacehopelove
peacehopelove Yes! That's true! Xoxo
Dec 07Reply
unityblend
unityblend Your blog on comparisons is great advice for new and veteran poshers alike. A helpful article to all of us to compare ourselves to OURSELVES. Thanks for sharing.
Dec 13Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kakchat1 thank you so much!!!
Dec 13Reply
juliewahoo
juliewahoo You are so kind for sharing my closet (hope to again share yours someday!). Thank you for your lovely blog posts. Your advice is much appreciated.❤️ -Julie
Dec 13Reply
cbree74
cbree74 This is Great🏆 A must Read & exactly what I needed to hear !!!!! 😘
Dec 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @coolmum2 thank you!! I certainly enjoy writing it!
Dec 30Reply
secondlovedco
secondlovedco @grayasparagus Hey girl! Question: Should I be worried that I haven't been in the Suggested User circulation list in almost 2 months? I haven't gained hardly any followers lately. Should I contact Posh or just wait it out?
Dec 31Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @247mommieto3 definitely contact! Have you been tracking your followers closely? (It sounds like you are...) If I am listed overnight sometimes it's easy to not notice.
Dec 31Reply
secondlovedco
secondlovedco @grayasparagus I definitely have! I've only gained about 900 followers in 1.5 months. It's ridiculous.
Dec 31Reply
secondlovedco
secondlovedco @grayasparagus I noticed that the higher number of followers you have, the more the traffic seems to slow down. I've tried to stay pretty active even though we are closing on our first home.
Dec 31Reply
secondlovedco
secondlovedco @grayasparagus Have you experienced this?
Dec 31Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @247mommieto3 what do you mean by traffic? Do you mean sales or shares...?
Dec 31Reply
secondlovedco
secondlovedco @grayasparagus By traffic, I mean sales, shares, and followers. 👍🏻
Dec 31Reply
bearablecandy
bearablecandy Happy 2017! I found your blog by Google search and it has been very helpful. I love your photographs and style. Thanks for all the tips. I hope the new year is a good one for you! :)
Jan 01Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @bearablecandy Thank you so much for stopping by to say that! Happy New Year to you! XOXO
Jan 02Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @247mommieto3 In my opinion, it definitely picks up based in followers. I think sometimes we expect more though. Congrats on your first home!
Jan 02Reply
thejanismarie
thejanismarie I love the blog post. I realize, I'm in the same boat. So what if I don't sell 5 packages a day or week. I do this for fun and hobby! I couldn't have said it better myself!
Jan 06Reply
trishcook
trishcook Welcome back! 💙💚💙💚
Jan 07Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @trishcook thank you!!!!!!
Jan 07Reply
bitty360
bitty360 @grayasparagus I poked around on your blog today. Such good stuff! I'm new and found your tips and experience super helpful. Thanks! I have a❓. I see closets and even SUs 🤦🏼‍♀️with random junk (Lyft referral codes, Shakeology, etc) posted. As a Type-A rule follower (it's not my fault! I was born this way!!) I report it and... nothing happens. Can you lend any insight? TIA for your time. 😊 Looking forward to implementing some of your strategies (selfish sharing, HELLO!) tonight.
Jan 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @bitty360 thank you so much! I appreciate you stopping by to say that!! My opinion is (purely opinion) is that there are LITERALLY millions of closets... It would take forever to go thru all of it and enforce the rules 100% of the time. If only a small-ish percentage don't follow the rules- it's probably a win! I, like you, am a huge rule follower too, but I pick my battles- they are all potential customers! I am responsible for myself and sometimes even that's more than I can handle 😂
Jan 14Reply
bitty360
bitty360 @grayasparagus Truth. As I'm fond of saying "Not my monkeys, not my zoo." 😂😂 Onward! 😊
Jan 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @bitty360 HAHAHAH! Yessssssss!
Jan 14Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon Good Morning and Happy Sunday My Friend!!! I have SO been enjoying your Blog! Please keep it rockin! xoxo
Jan 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @erikagannon Thank you so much my friend! I appreciate that :) I hope you are well!
Jan 15Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon You are very welcome! I am indeed...thank you!!! Hope you have a fantastic Sunday Funday!
Jan 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @erikagannon great to hear! You tooooooo!!
Jan 15Reply
chicrevival
chicrevival @lollie0409 I recommend reading Elle's blog for tips and inspiration! She truly gives great and honest advice about Poshmark for new users.
Jan 18Reply
lollie0409
lollie0409 @lightupthenight Thanks so much. Will do!
Jan 18Reply
melissa_renee
melissa_renee Just read this!!! Love love love!!
Jan 31Reply
dsf58
dsf58 Please add me!
Feb 06Reply
emora22
emora22 Love your closet! Happy Poshing! 💙🌻👍
Feb 06Reply
mickeymcfierce
mickeymcfierce Love this.
Feb 07Reply
crystalpelka
crystalpelka Love your blog! I've read every one ❤️
Feb 07Reply
alexandria_
alexandria_ congrats on hosting ! so exciting 🤗 would love if you could stop by my closet & maybe choose one of my items for a HP 🙏🏼💞 good luck & happy selling 😘
Feb 07Reply
kittycafe
kittycafe I am dying to read your blog!!!! I'm just starting out as a blogger myself but I need LOTS of help. Originally I just started it as a personal outlet. I spent a whole year just using it to express my personal interested, style, faith, rants and random other things. I wasn't worried about followers and I was super sporadic. This year I'm starting to focus. I would love your advice.
Feb 07Reply
modeloffdutyny
modeloffdutyny Count me in! 🙋🏻
Feb 07Reply
ktw8
ktw8 Really enjoy reading your blog! Thank you for all the tips!
Feb 08Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @ktw8 thank you so much for checking it out!
Feb 09Reply
audrinapearl
audrinapearl @grayasparagus I was just literally on your blog!! Yay thank you so much for your tip!
Feb 09Reply
myvintagevanity
myvintagevanity @grayasparagus completely GRATEFUL for the incredible woman you are!!! Thank you for sharing with us ... I ADORE your blog GF!!!! 💞💝💖💓💗💘
Feb 10Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon hey chickadee!!! A non Poshmark advice hope... I ADORE your cacti babies... will you check these out and lmk know what you think? I do not have a green thumb :/ call or text me anytime 9196090441
Feb 11Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @erikagannon hey! I know NOTHING about how to take of them! It's all luck and Google 😂
Feb 11Reply
indziy
indziy I just came across one of your blogs particularly the suggested user one, and I love how detail oriented you are! It's so pleasing haha especially how you notice and inspect everything, not many do so props to you:) I couldn't stop reading them. Keep writing!
Feb 24Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @indziy thank you so very much!!
Feb 24Reply
vicky_ymcagirl
vicky_ymcagirl @westcoastcrazy you might find this interesting 👍
Feb 26Reply
edavis25
edavis25 Love your blog ❤ it's so awesome to read and helpful! Two questions: where did you come up with the name Gray Asparagus, and how do you get in the habit of waking up at 4 am?? I would love to get going earlier but I love my sleep! Any tips would be appreciated 😊
Mar 05Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @edavis25 Thank you so much! The name is a long story that I may blog about one day :) Tips for waking up early: rescue an abandoned hunting beagle! You will then have no choice. XOXO
Mar 05Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon Hiya Elle!!! I always ask first...I borrowed your "tiny sale" idea a couple years back...I am not sure if you know but I have recently married my 6yr long love...and we got FULL CUSTODY of his teenager...YAY and EEEEEK...all at the same time, lol. y biggest EEEEEEK is that I am losing closet and storage space!!! Would it be ok if I leveraged off of your husband sale with y own twist?! I think it's light-hearted, yet heart felt, and real....please let me know what you think chickadee!
Mar 09Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @erikagannon hey!!! Yesss!!!! Use whatever you want my friend! Xoxo
Mar 09Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @erikagannon you are so sweet to remember that sale!
Mar 09Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon You are WONDERFUL!!! I always love to see what creative ideas you come up with!!! Not always do they apply to my current situation, but sometimes, it's like you are in my noggin!!
Mar 09Reply
flourishstyling
flourishstyling Love your blog so much! I appreciate you sharing your knowledge. 💋❤
Mar 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @rockettcollins thank you! I appreciate you taking time to read it!❤️
Mar 14Reply
southernwisdom
southernwisdom That's so Cute
Mar 14Reply
visualbrands
visualbrands I loved this topic!
Mar 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @icravebargains yay! Glad you did my friend!!
Mar 15Reply
triciatx
triciatx @grayasparagus I just wanted to stop by and thank you. I haven't read your newest post yet. I did however read about how the suggested user rotation works. Since, then I have been able to predict when I will be featured. Not only that, but I have some up with a way for suggested users to gain followers from one another when they are featured. I am planning to make an infographic about it. I look forward to reading your latest entry. Thanks Again ~ Tricia
Mar 15Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @triciatx thank you so much! And thanks for sharing too❤️
Mar 15Reply
chewsigirl
chewsigirl Yes please☺️✨✌🏼💚😊✨
Mar 20Reply
patriciamildred
patriciamildred @grayasparagus I feel very silly but I am 76 and I'm really not familiar with how to work a iPad which is what I have I want to get your blog but don't know how and of course I would also like to be a full time seller now that I am retired if you can let me know how to do any of these I'd be very grateful
Mar 20Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @patriciamildred hi! It's a web address and is not related to the poshmark app :)
Mar 20Reply
bluerubie
bluerubie @ealowery Here is the great blog I told you about
Mar 21Reply
agirlnamedjax
agirlnamedjax Love your blog💕 Just subscribed😊
Mar 23Reply
ali_c17
ali_c17 @grayasparagus where is your blog located? I am reading this thread and am so lost! I just started selling the other day and would love to learn from a pro!
Mar 24Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @ali_c17 hi! The web address is on the first picture and also in the title :) thanks for checking it out!
Mar 24Reply
ali_c17
ali_c17 @grayasparagus Thank you! 🙏🏻😊
Mar 25Reply
sexysupershero
sexysupershero Your blog has instantly become my new favorite thing to read! Thank you! 😍😍💘
Apr 01Reply
toryshop
toryshop @grayasparagus Elle/can u please tell me how to find the blog/Ive tried & tried I really would appreciate it! I want to learn all I can! @toryshop💕
Apr 10Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @toryshop hi! It's my personal website and the address is in the title of this listing :)
Apr 10Reply
toryshop
toryshop @grayasparagus Elle/Thank You so Much! @toryshop💕
Apr 10Reply
layervint
layervint Read your blog love it 😍
Apr 11Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @pmclosetshopper 😂👍thanks my friend! Glad it could help
Apr 11Reply
moremoetplease
moremoetplease i got my very first lowball offer!! i feel like i've been initiated into poshmark now haha i thought of you in my response! thanks for all your tips :)
Apr 14Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @moremoetplease 😂😂😂 how did it go?? Did it end in a sale??
Apr 14Reply
moremoetplease
moremoetplease @grayasparagus unfortunately, not this time! she came up to $15, but i wasn't parting with a NWT and on trend piece at that price. the wild world of poshing!! :)
Apr 14Reply
thejanismarie
thejanismarie Elle, where can I find the "Posh Now" Tab??
Apr 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @janisboutique hey! I responded to your comment ... Check out the blog post "Poshmark's New Listing Feature" and I have screenshots n stuff on there!
Apr 19Reply
thejanismarie
thejanismarie ⚘Thank⚘You⚘
Apr 19Reply
_rebeccah_
_rebeccah_ @grayasparagus just read/ commented on your blog post about Following. Loved it!
Apr 28Reply
grl26m
grl26m I just started following you you have a great closet
Apr 28Reply
iehystyle
iehystyle Hi, check your spelling love 💖🌹
Apr 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @iehystyle hahaha! Well.... maybe it got someone's attention 🤣 thank you!
Apr 30Reply
iehystyle
iehystyle I always follow and share your post love. I just wanted to let you know. It has happened to me before and no one said anything. God bless happy Poshing 💖🌹
Apr 30Reply
iehystyle
iehystyle Your very welcome
Apr 30Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @iehystyle omg, yeah, you never know how the other person will react! Thank you for always reading... You probably "know" enough about me by now to know that I would be appreciative! *Palm slaps forehead*
Apr 30Reply
iehystyle
iehystyle Your doing very well I enjoy your blog 💖🌹
Apr 30Reply
pink_elephants
pink_elephants @grayasparagus Hi! 😊 Love your blog and your beautiful closet! I have learned so much from the tips in your blog since I started listing items and just wanted you to know how helpful it has been! @rachelkelllyy check out her blog, I think you'll love it too!
Apr 30Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon Good Morning Elle!! Hope you have an excellent day!
May 11Reply
pagesandpapers
pagesandpapers @glitterygirly this is the blog :)
May 13Reply
pagesandpapers
pagesandpapers @theglittergirly this is the blog :)
May 13Reply
theglittergirly
theglittergirly @whitg21 ❤️PFF FOREVER❤️ If you're ever in the Los Angeles area, I hope you let me know
May 13Reply
pagesandpapers
pagesandpapers @theglittergirly of course girl! And you the same if you are ever in Indy or Chicago!! Haha xoxoxo
May 13Reply
djcdearing57
djcdearing57 You gotta be kidding lol
May 20Reply
kbeckworth
kbeckworth Hi! Thanks for the post about having thicker skin. I needed to hear that one! After 4 years and so many sales I can't count, I had an item returned. It DOES feel personal. But I truly think we should be able to rate buyers, just like every other site, and I'm going to be more careful about who I'm selling to. I'm way more familiar with the block button these days.
May 21Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kbeckworth thanks for reading it! I figured if I was going through it others must be too!
May 21Reply
kbeckworth
kbeckworth I just looked up my stats. 4.9. That drives me crazier than it should. Lol. Maybe I need to relax.
May 21Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kbeckworth Hahha! It will eventually go back to 5.0 I believe :)
May 21Reply
kbeckworth
kbeckworth Did your closet have another name? I've been here since 2013, had a baby and took a break and now I'm trying to find people again! :)
May 21Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kbeckworth yes it did- it was Vance289 then I made it reflect my social media so it would be easier to find.
May 21Reply
meg23
meg23 Hi Elle I recently stumbled on an article on your blog about giving your sales a boost by either relisting old items or adding new ones. I recently moved and decided to go out on a limb and delete all my unsold listings (have a few I'll relist later). But for now I'm only adding new items. In just 3 days I've had my first sale in months! Great advice, thanks so much for the tip! I'll be checking back in with your blog for sure!
Jun 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @meg23 Awesome! So glad it worked for you! Thanks for stopping by to let me know :)
Jun 16Reply
ofpsalmsncoffee
ofpsalmsncoffee Thanks for the shares!!!!
Jul 17Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon I absolutely LOVE your system! I am where you were...binning things by category...but it's hard because one bin will be stuffed full and another may have only a couple of items! I have recently started pre-bagging...but think I will be adopting your lettering system...thank you SO much for sharing! I LOVE your front loading stack-able bins too...do you mind me asking where you found yours?
Jul 17Reply
seastar1322
seastar1322 just read like 4 of your posts! great subject matter and well-written!
Jul 17Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @hailika thank you so much!!
Jul 17Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon found them!!! :)
Jul 17Reply
kiryssa32
kiryssa32 Hey girl! I've stumbled upon a few of your blog posts while searching for poshmark tips on Pinterest and google, and I love your blog! Your advice has helped and motivated me a lot 💕 thank you 💕
Aug 04Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @kiryssa32 thank you so much!! Thanks so sweet of you to come by and say that! ❤️
Aug 04Reply
zalfam
zalfam @grayasparagus Delighted and grateful to have visited http://thegrayasparagus.com for the first time - you brilliant thing you 😉
Aug 28Reply
dejanewforyou
dejanewforyou Good morning 😃 my name is Lynn. I’ve been reading your blog and there is such great information in there. 💕 I’ve been Poshing for almost a year and there is still so much to learn. Just wanted to stop by and say thank you😊
Sep 24Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @dejanewforyou thank you so much for taking the time to come by and say hi! I'm so glad you have found some helpful info- I'm still learning myself!! ❤️
Sep 24Reply
dejanewforyou
dejanewforyou @grayasparagus I work full time and Posh part time. It’s like a second job but I love it 😊 I’ve met so many nice people on here such as yourself who help mentor and are very kind 😌 Happy Poshing 😘💋
Sep 24Reply
erikagannon
erikagannon Elle, you are always most amazing1 I can't wait to read your newest post! I've had a little something set aside for you since...forever! I know we're friends on insta...when you get time please DM me you mailing addy Keep on doing what you're doing chickadee!
Oct 07Reply
latedecember
latedecember I was at Poshfest but sadly was fighting the seasonal bug and couldn't grasp everything So looking forward to this post!🤗
Oct 11Reply
southernwisdom
southernwisdom @grayasparagus Hey girl I'm not sure if you remember me ... I just talk to you about your blog from time to time. A anywho I just wanted to let you know I was going to make a sign and I wanted to put you on it as the best Posh bloggers to follow for advice and newbie bloggers but I wanted to ask you if it was okay with you before I do it
Oct 11Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @southernwisdom aw thank you! I would be honored!! ❤️❤️
Oct 11Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @latedecember I hope you are feeling better!
Oct 11Reply
salvagedbdesign
salvagedbdesign Great info, thanks for the post!👍💕💋
Oct 11Reply
southernwisdom
southernwisdom @grayasparagus Awesome!!!! You're the best on explaining info on your blog
Oct 11Reply
taywilkins
taywilkins Love your blog and your closet! Happy Poshing! 💓💕
Oct 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @taywilkins thank you💕💕
Oct 16Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @southernwisdom thank you so much! ❣️
Oct 16Reply
maplebear
maplebear I just saw that you liked a similar sweater to mine so shared it to your closet. Then realized that I've read your blog. Love it! Thanks for keeping it updated!
Oct 17Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @maplebear thank you so much!
Oct 17Reply
maplebear
maplebear @grayasparagus You're welcome! I just went and read your two latest posts. They were great, and informative. I'm still not sure how I feel about the "style me" requests, but I am trying to make use of the dressing room feature. Thanks again.
Oct 17Reply
meliadf
meliadf Hi! I’ve been reading your blog a lot lately! It’s been really really helpful! Thank you so much for everything you do!!
Oct 29Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @meliafleetwood thank you so much!
Oct 29Reply
skmcphee
skmcphee @grayasparagus thank you, awesome information that I didn’t know! 😍Wishing you and yours a happy turkey day!👏🏻🦃💕
Nov 20Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @skmcphee thank you so much for checking it out! 💕
Nov 20Reply
skmcphee
skmcphee @grayasparagus Thank you Elle, for sharing it to my closet! I’m going to read them more thoroughly, especially arranging your closet and the lighting! You’re a doll!😍💕
Nov 20Reply
salvagedbdesign
salvagedbdesign Great post, I think I’ll try it! Thanks❤️
Jan 24Reply
ttree916
ttree916 Silly question. I am technically challenged. How do you get those ad pics? Is there an app that you can use for writing on pics or designing sale ads? Any direction you can give will help. Thanks for the post!
Jan 25Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @ttree916 not a silly question at all! Yes it is an app... there are tons out there to choose from. I like Rhonna and lots of people use A Beautiful Mess. But again there are tons that are free and others you have to buy.
Jan 25Reply
ttree916
ttree916 @grayasparagus Thank you...I will search for the one you mentioned. Anythings better than taking a picture of your computer screen...lol. Have a blessed day!
Jan 25Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @ttree916 thank you, you too!
Jan 25Reply
goldenpolkadot
goldenpolkadot @grayasparagus 🙋🏻‍♀️ur tips n blog are ALWAYS Bomb!!! So informative and up to date! 💯Thank you for your part in making Poshmark so Fabulous! WTG!!!🏅👑 Sharing 💞 😘💨 Olga Formerly Partymk999
Feb 19Reply
treasuresbytrac
treasuresbytrac @grayasparagus You are the BESTEST!! I look so forward to your blogs👏🏻And appreciate the time you take to bless all of us with your wonderful insights! Thank you, Thank you!! 💕💐🌹🌻🌹💐💕 Can’t wait t get this new feature!
Feb 19Reply
delosangels
delosangels Hi! I’ve been trying to figure out how to offer a private discount to people who like my items. Any idea? Thank you in advance!
Feb 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @delosangels hi! Did you check out my latest blog post? It breaks down how to do it- if you don't have the feature you hopefully soon will. It is slowly being rolled out.
Feb 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @treasuresbytrac thank you soooo much!!!
Feb 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @goldenpolkadot thank you!!! ❤️
Feb 19Reply
delosangels
delosangels @grayasparagus no I haven’t but will now. Thank you so much!
Feb 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @delosangels no problem! There are lots of screenshots to help ❤️
Feb 19Reply
delosangels
delosangels @grayasparagus I’m on it right now! 😁
Feb 19Reply
grayasparagus
grayasparagus @lindsayb2019 thank you! ❤️
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