Come Together: The Science (and Art!) of Creating Lasting Sexual Connections --

<b>From the <i>New York Times</i> bestselling author of <i>Come as You Are </i>and co-author of <i>Burnout</i> comes an illuminating exploration of how to maintain a happy sex life in a long-term relationship. </b> <p/> <b>"Emily Nagoski is a national treasure--helping us all understand how to finally build true, joyful, confident sex lives."--Glennon Doyle, author of <i>Untamed</i></b> <p/>In <i>Come as You Are, </i>Emily Nagoski, PhD, revolutionized the way we think about women's sexuality. Now, in <i>Come Together, </i> Nagoski takes on a fundamentally misunderstood subject: sex in long-term relationships. <p/> Most of us struggle at some point to maintain a sexual connection with our partner/s or spouse. And many of us are given not-very-good advice on what to do about it. In this book, Nagoski dispels the myths we've been taught about sex--for instance, the belief that sexual satisfaction and desire are highest at the beginning of a relationship and that they inevitably decline the longer that relationship lasts. Nagoski assures us that's not true. <p/> So, what is true? <i>Come Together</i> isn't about how much we want sex, or how often we're having it; it's about whether we <i>like</i> the sex we're having. Nagoski breaks down the obstacles that impede us from enjoying sex--from stress and body image to relationship difficulties and gendered beliefs about how sex "should" be--and presents the best ways to overcome them. You'll learn: <p/>- that "spontaneous desire" is