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Dear Posher's: NO ONE has time (or interest) in reading "all comments" (all 490 of them?!) in your listing just to save you 2 seconds, ANSWER QUESTIONS!😠As of 01/17🚫PET CARRIERS ARE Still NOT ALLOWED!🚫**UPDATE : 07/16. Posh allows the sale of Men's/Children's clothing/accessories. "Can I trade? What's allowed? Why did that person block me after I just asked if she was "interested?" Check out Brenda's @queenmumm's blog : midlifealamode.com for ALL things Posh!👍🏽

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abstractdreams @bamagirl017 @erika75 @habanera87 @katz2 @miami_wife @motherkiss @reneedavis @sukinukiss @@schmookie @tamarismom : Did I forget anything?

Jun 30Reply

miami_wife We can't hold an auction in our closets 😘

Jun 30Reply

abstractdreams @miami_wife : I knew You'd come thru... No drawings or contests either. Right? How're you feeling Suzy?💋

Jun 30Reply

abstractdreams @reneedavis

Jun 30Reply

miami_wife That's right 😘 I'm ok very busy with guests from out of state all summer 😳😄but doing so much better Ty for asking 💕💕💕how r u doing?

Jun 30Reply

abstractdreams I'm hangin' in, waiting to see how long the steroid injection lasts...Idk why, I'm sure they're going to do one more small surgery. But I'm in WAY better shape, doing pt everyday, so hopefully it won't be too much of a setback.👍🏽So happy to hear you're feeling better. Take care & let people take care of you this Summer too my friend.💋

Jun 30Reply

abstractdreams @miami_wife 👆🏽👍🏽

Jun 30Reply

katz2 No household items!👍

Jun 30Reply

abstractdreams @katz2 I ran out of room!! I need to refigure this...lol

Jun 30Reply

katz2 Linda, don't worry about it! lol You've got most of it listed!💕

Jun 30Reply

amyjack0 @abstractdreams awesome!

Jul 02Reply

abstractdreams @twinkletoestoni : Thank you! I was seriously chewed out this morning by a teenager who's been Poshing since Feb. I welcomed her & gave the usual "read the faq & guidelines & share..." spiel & she responded by telling me that she's "not new, is aware of the rules" and "people like you are insulting and incredibly annoying!" She promptly blocked me! Ok then!😳She did start by saying "Thx..." though. Lol!!

Jul 13Reply

tonistwinkles @abstractdreams KIDS. LOL!! 😁😁😁

Jul 13Reply

abstractdreams @twinkletoestoni : I've followed & learned from Brenda queenmumm since 2012 & her mantra is "Each One Teach One" I cleaned up my closet & made that saying my own ever since!! I spend so much time doing that, that I hardly ever share my own closet!! This is the first time that anyone's told me to shove it!!😕👎🏽

Jul 13Reply

tonistwinkles @abstractdreams I'm a high school English teacher; kids tell me that all the time. I guess Im just jaded so it doesn't get to me, lol. Just swat that little girl bug away Linda, you're awesome!!!

Jul 13Reply

abstractdreams @twinkletoestoni : I was just kind of shocked actually. I was mouthy as a kid, but 40 years & the anonymity of the internet has taken that to whole new level!! I never report newbies that are selling no-no's, I always welcome them, & give them the share/rule info in terms of how it benefits them. I made mistakes when I started & want to give them a heads up first.👍🏽You can bet I went thru her closet & reported every violation!!😜

Jul 13Reply

minionqueen @abstractdreams am I allowed to sell my beats headphones?

Jul 16Reply

abstractdreams @minionqueen : Hi Lisa. It's my understanding that no kind of electronics are allowed. No phone cords/plugs, ear buds/ear phones. Sorry.

Jul 16Reply

tonistwinkles @abstractdreams awesome!

Jul 21Reply

abstractdreams @petals2u : Please! This came straight from Posh Selling Guidelines & was updated recently when they allowed some used under garments/swim wear.👍🏽💋

Jul 26Reply

abstractdreams My pleasure Melanie! @petals2u 👍🏽💕

Jul 26Reply

abstractdreams @alyssaholland : Welcome to Posh Alyssa! Super cute closet started & having Melanie @petals2u point u in the right direction is a really great way to get going! There's a HUGE support network here for Posher's that are PRO...Posh Rules Only! Good Luck & let me know if you have questions.👍🏽💕

Jul 26Reply

abstractdreams There can be drama (report it to Posh Support asap), but the majority of women here would do anything for you & truly want you to be successful! Follow TONS of others, only about 1/3 follow back & that's who sees your closet when you share your own items. 🎉Congrats🎉on making sales already...you're good!💋

Jul 26Reply

abstractdreams @alyssaholland : always forget this isn't fb!😳👆🏽👆🏽👍🏽

Jul 26Reply

kristikreations This is great!!

Jul 30Reply

re_glam_it Thank you for sharing my closet ♡♡ may you have a beautiful blessed day today♡♡♡

Jul 31Reply

abstractdreams @re_glam_it : Always happy to share your lovely items!💋

Jul 31Reply

bgbirchett Question: how do you make these pictures? Like the "make an offer" or "everything must go" ones?

Aug 01Reply

abstractdreams @bgbirchett : Hi Brianna. Some I make with templates from apps like ImageChef.com. The Do's & Don't's I did from scratch by searching images of black backgrounds & taking a screen shot of it. Then I did the rest at A Beautiful Mess. Those took a lot longer.

Aug 01Reply

abstractdreams @bgbirchett And I just realized the top pic in these is black wallpapers.👍🏽

Aug 01Reply

bgbirchett Ok thank you :)

Aug 02Reply

abstractdreams @kaharvell : Thx for the shares, especially these tips!💋I was told recently that "they're insulting and annoying!"😳Lol! I've been here since 2012, lmk if I can help or you have any questions.👍🏽

Aug 05Reply

abstractdreams @kaharvell : That was the nicest thing she said to me! And you hit it spot on! She's selling all kinds of things that are not allowed because they directly violate Federal shipping regulations! I try to give people that info in terms of how not following PM rules impacts sharing and sales as many won't follow, share or buy from them... But she was one bad apple! Not too many out of 25,000+ 👍🏽

Aug 05Reply

abstractdreams @kaharvell : Thx hon, I appreciate that! I only made them recently, because I thought... maybe ppl will finally read the rules if I compress them into fast & easy to read posts! I wish someone had done this 3+ years ago when I started! I had to learn from my mistakes. Lol!👍🏽💋

Aug 05Reply

greekmama1 @abstractdreams Good Morning. I just happened upon your closet. It's lovely. I love this listing. I have been on Posh for about 3-4 months. I love how you did this. I read the one set of prohibited items where it said " No Health and Wellness Products ". After I got in . trouble for selling Wen Conditioner. So in my mind I honestly was thinking vitamins and supplements. They wrote me and sent me to that line.

Aug 07Reply

greekmama1 @abstractdreams Which I thought was vague.I am not a rule breaker at all so I took it down immediately. I love this. So many Poshers are breaking the rules with what they're selling. I know you don't know me but may I take a copy of this? If you don't want me to I understand. Just let me know ok? Thank you so much and God Bless You💝

Aug 07Reply

izzyr83 No perfume? Oopsies 😧

Aug 10Reply

abstractdreams @izzyr83 : Perfumes are liquids & also flammable. As a result, violate Federal Postal regulations.😕

Aug 10Reply

izzyr83 Uh oh... I'll take them down! Phew I'm glad I read this 😗

Aug 10Reply

abstractdreams @izzyr83 : It's just not worth it...even if Posh is slow to remove listings or ban Posher's who violate these "rules" (I was one myself!😫), there so much more support from the community as a whole & you can't put a price on that! Many Posher's won't follow, share or buy from closets that don't follow the guidelines! So it's good for your pocketbook to do so!👍🏽

Aug 10Reply

moonequalist Lol I love this. I just took down a post about post etiquett. I pride myself on posh etiquett but I thought maybe it was too pushy. Lol. But reading all this it makes sense why I put it up in the first place. Yes just because I like something doesn't mean I don't know how to press buy if I do want it and no I don't need help. Lol. Thanks for this it's awesome I totally relate. I take posh very seriously. You're awesome.😊

Sep 05Reply

cmsblaz @abstractdreams Good Morning Is wrong doing! Please LMK ? I've had that posting for along time! No one has commented! Thanks ! Rene'e😊💐🎉

Sep 15Reply

abstractdreams @cmsblaz : Good morning Renee, which listing are you talking about?

Sep 15Reply

yack_21 @helyne updated 😁 thanks and sorry!

Sep 16Reply

yack_21 @helyne thanks for being nice about it and responding to my apology. Much appreciated

Sep 16Reply

abstractdreams @helyne @yack_21 : Everything good?👍🏽💕

Sep 16Reply

abstractdreams @moonequalist : Regardless of pushy or not, many Posher's feel overwhelmed by reading the guidelines & this puts all the rules (or as many as I could think of...) in a nutshell. I've gotten 99% positive feedback. 👍🏽💕

Sep 16Reply

leptique Thanks!!!

Sep 16Reply

moonequalist I was saying your post was too pushy I was trying to explain that than post I had up was too pushy. I don't know if you understood that or took it the wrong way. I didn't mean to offend you or anyone else. I was talking about myself. Hope that clears it up. 😀

Sep 16Reply

moonequalist Sorry but auto correct got me again. I WASNT saying your post was too pushy. 😰😱😫😪 Sorry. Got to proof read everything now.

Sep 16Reply

abstractdreams @moonequalist : You were perfectly clear hon, that's exactly what I read.👍🏽💕

Sep 16Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams THIS. IS. AWESOME. I have several rules graphics, but I know no one reads them. I want to tell newbies if they have unauthorized items and it makes me crazy that we aren't supposed to. May I please copy it if I give you credit for the graphics?

Sep 16Reply

yack_21 @abstractdreams thank you for asking, however, some rules I was unaware so the direction given felt cold and "here are our rules" versus "hey! Just in case you didn't know". I comment back with the changes and updates and not so much as a "thanks or just a heads up." If you're going to pass along info and attempt to maintain a happy environment, I believe the delivery should be happy as well.

Sep 16Reply

yack_21 @abstractdreams No harm done, just unappreciated for making immediate corrections. I joined last year but have been very active in the last couple months so my apologies for not knowing all the rules and guidelines. All is well 😊

Sep 16Reply

abstractdreams @yack_21 : I agree as well! I made plenty of mistakes when I first started in 2012, I just listed the things I saw others selling. I asked an amazing Posher what it took to get Host Picks & she kindly explained about PM rules & the need for compliance if I wanted one. Her motto is "Each one teach one." I took that to heart & try to pay all the help I received forward. If I can be a help to you lmk.👍🏽💕

Sep 17Reply

abstractdreams @rcatheron : And you know what? That's the exact reason I did these! I guess the guidelines seem too daunting to read or...? Idk. Lol!

Sep 17Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams It would seem so! But I love that you've made it a more fun, positive experience to follow the rules! ☺❤💕

Sep 17Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams And to share and reinforce them!

Sep 17Reply

abstractdreams @refashionline : I try...I also try to explain to non-compliant Posher's that there's a huge support network here, that's not available to them when they list items that violate the guidelines: many Posher's won't follow, share or buy from those closets. They report them & move on.😕

Sep 17Reply

yack_21 @abstractdreams I thank you and appreciate the info! I really do! 😊 but the gal who reached out, to call me out as though I was trying to break rules on purpose is what really upset me

Sep 17Reply

moonequalist I'm so glad. Don't want anyone thinking I'm dissing anyone. Cool thanks. I agree with you so much. 👍🏾

Sep 17Reply

leptique Thank you so much. It means a lot for you to explain all this to me😍

Sep 17Reply

raquel91407 @abstractdreams also shared this one too. .should've done this first...but did it backwards...sorry...lol💕💕💕

Sep 18Reply

abstractdreams @bittersweet8 : Thx for sharing these!💋

Oct 11Reply

debsmacso Hi I'm trying to get all of this before I setup my closet .thanks Debsmacso

Nov 02Reply

abstractdreams @debsmacso : You're very welcome!💕 Tag me when you get set up & I'll be happy to share & spread tag others alerting them to a new Posh compliant closet!👍🏽💋

Nov 02Reply

debsmacso Great Thanks Debsmacso

Nov 02Reply

abstractdreams @kelyemd :👍🏽💋

Nov 04Reply

abstractdreams @ifiminnie : 👍🏽💋

Nov 13Reply

frockqueen @abstractdreams got it, just womens clothes, underwear with tags or unopened makeup!

Nov 13Reply

abstractdreams @ifiminnie : Right, many labels/designer's put the brand or logo on everything! That does not mean it can be sold here. Posh has a very narrow definition of "accessories." Lol!

Nov 13Reply

abstractdreams @loanyc : Thx! I thought breaking it down might make the "rules" easier. Feel free to share with your followers!👍🏽

Nov 21Reply

heavensparadise @abstractdreams Is my closet ok with posh rules? Don't want to be a bad posher😀😀🌟🌟

Nov 22Reply

abstractdreams @vickyss : Thx for the likes! Please share with your followers or feel free to borrow & repost in your closet!👍🏽💕

Nov 23Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @foxxie_fairie this is another one to read! She was so helpful answering all my questions!

Nov 23Reply

foxxie_fairie @vickyss thank you so much for the tags! I'm getting a crash course in posh101 that's for sure ;)

Nov 23Reply

abstractdreams @foxxie_fairie : Welcome Jennifer! I've been here since 2012 & try to break it down the way I wish someone had back then! But I had great mentors & they set me on the earning path!👍🏽@vickyss : Thx for the tag Vicky!💋

Nov 23Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @abstractdreams thank you Linda!! You were just so helpful to me! 💖❤️ I helped Jennifer as much as I knew...but that ran out pretty quickly! 😂

Nov 23Reply

abstractdreams @vickyss : There is definitely a learning curve! One thing that still helps me is a blog written by a Posher who actually has her own contact person @ Posh HQ!! queenmumm write www.midlifealamode.com and she's always updating with tips & new info! If you follow her (which I suggest highly) she has lots of "Q-tips"

Nov 23Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @abstractdreams Got it! thank you. Going to be my evening reading! 😊

Nov 24Reply

foxxie_fairie @abstractdreams wow! I had NO idea Posh has been around that long!! Now I see how some people got to hundreds of thousands followers/follwing. I'm just late to the party :(

Nov 24Reply

abstractdreams @foxxie_fairie : Posh actually started in the Fall of 2011. I started in May of the next year. Early or late, it's a great party!🎉

Nov 24Reply

cramermari @hleist , @mkcramer This is helpful for new people.

Nov 27Reply

abstractdreams @cramermari : Thx for tagging another Posher Mari! I hoped breaking it down into bite-sized factoids would make it more clear.👍🏽💋

Nov 27Reply

cramermari I was happy to see these. A couple of my friends joined and I liked your posting. Very helpful.😊

Nov 27Reply

cdaviszimmer Great outline!

Nov 27Reply

abstractdreams @cdaviszimmer : Thx Cynthia!💋I found that so many Posher's are confused & intimidated by the guidelines, that I thought I'd just break it down into what I wish I'd had in 2012... "Poshmark for Dummies" Lol!! Fortunately, I had great Posh mentors who set me straight and straight onto the road to Posh success! If you have questions, I'm happy to help!

Nov 27Reply

cdaviszimmer @abstractdreams I have noticed so many people don't follow. I glanced in September but how easy to forget! Have a great holiday season. Beginning to put up all of my decorations!

Nov 27Reply

abstractdreams @cdaviszimmer : You're right, too many don't follow, either because they don't know or don't care. I inform Poshers whenever I can because there's a pretty militant directive from PM to force people to follow by not supporting them & reporting them.✋🏽My plan was to decorate too, while the temp is really mild, but after cleaning my kitchen (which looked like it exploded, lol!) and getting Posh pkg's ready to mail, I'm exhausted!😳

Nov 27Reply

here4looks77 @katz2 Hi Clara! Good Sunday evening. I don't understand what's going with qualifying your NWT items. Pieces I'm trying to sell that are NWT arent allowed in those parties. And many sellers listing in those parties don't show purchase prices or actual labels! Posh now leaning toward promoting Retail Stores? What ever happened to "selling personal items you no longer wear"? Geez, there are so many vendors on here taking orders for items they don't even have available yet. Thanks Clara!

Dec 07Reply

katz2 Hi Linda, the Retail is a new category for those who buy wholesale and sell on Posh. It's a totally new category and for a while they allowed NWT at the party, but recently, they stopped it. Guess it's another way to showcase the boutique sellers.

Dec 07Reply

katz2 pops, I meant @here4looks77 Madonna, please read above.👆

Dec 07Reply

abstractdreams @laslollipop : Check part 2 listing also. As things evolve, I make changes.👍🏽

Dec 22Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @taeloranderson hey Linda, Taelor is my baby and just opened her closet! 💖

Jan 01Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @kateyjane2

Jan 01Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @joannb14 and there's a part 2 ☺️

Jan 03Reply

vicky_ymcagirl @janisfb there's a part 2 ☺️

Jan 03Reply

poppir Hello! Just a few quick questions..... Can I sell children's clothing if it would fit adult sizes? Like an extra large in kids that fits a extra small or small in adults?

Jan 07Reply

abstractdreams @poppir : The technical answer is no. But...I don't think PM does anything about it if you do. It will however prevent you from getting support from many in the community (including Host Picks) who won't follow, share or buy from non-compliant closets. Posh has plans to expand the app this yr to include children's clothing & also start a Men's app.👍🏽

Jan 07Reply

abstractdreams @janine_e : 👍🏽💋

Jan 23Reply

baglady24 @clever102 Great info to know😘

Jan 25Reply

abstractdreams @baglady24 : Instead of telling ppl to read everything...I thought it would be way easier broken into specific little bits!👍🏽💕

Jan 25Reply

baglady24 Perfect‼️💋💋

Jan 25Reply

chunglee4819 Do not comment on peoples pictures just for the gain of attention in your closet you will get deleted and blocked

Feb 07Reply

abstractdreams @chunglee4819 : Are you talking to me?😳

Feb 07Reply

footcandy @loreenny

Feb 21Reply

jlynnyoshida Thank you so much for the shares! 🙂

Feb 24Reply

abstractdreams @teamaddison : You'll notice, I had to edit after Posh changed it's mind (and policy) about 🅿️🅿️. Even tho they did...you still can't write it!! Lol!😝

Feb 26Reply

teamaddison @abstractdreams I do not use 🅿️🅿️ for anything. I like to keep it simple. Some of the "✅FREE with 2+ bundle" items in my closet are not clothing/accessories. Is that still okay since I am giving them away free of charge?

Feb 27Reply

abstractdreams @teamaddison : It's exactly the appropriate way to get rid of other stuff! Lots of ppl get dinged by the Posh Police because they put a price on things they say are "free." Your closet is totally, perfectly compliant! That's why I shared so many things with 30,000+ of my closest friends! Lol!👍🏽💋

Feb 27Reply

teamaddison @abstractdreams Awe. 💗 Thank you! I always share back. I'm a little posh obsessed... But I enjoy this process. Especially wrapping everything up nicely. I have an entire closet of wrapping paper, tissue paper, bows and cards. I was meant for this❣😀

Feb 27Reply

bmonska @abstractdreams it was my understanding that pm is accepting *it as a form of payment option for the buyer at check out. That's different from when sellers try to get the buyer, or vice versa, to make the whole transaction off posh on *it to avoid fees....

Mar 05Reply

bmonska @abstractdreams I think people are getting very confused. Example, if a gal buys a shirt and checks out choosing *it as her funding source, posh gets their fee still and the transaction is supported but going through *it instead posh to avoid paying posh fees is still not allowed. Correct?

Mar 05Reply

abstractdreams @bmonska : I believe you are correct! I have to find time to redo this to say "no off-Posh transactions." I thought I added it to the description, but my heads not all here when I'm here.👍🏽💕

Mar 05Reply

lifeinstiches Ate fit it's allowed not that I have any but hosting soon & not sure since they are a watch but not really? Ty if you can help

Mar 20Reply

abstractdreams @hotpantsrhoads : Good morning Heidi!💋I believe fitbits are allowed based on some of the Posher's who have them listed. It seems like they would qualify as jewelry (of sorts).👍🏽

Mar 20Reply

lifeinstiches Ty so much I have been hunting for an answer for a while 😘

Mar 20Reply

erika75 @boll69 hi, check out this listing and the one next to it :) I hope it helps you!! Thank you @abstractdreams ❤✌😆 hope you are doing well

Mar 25Reply

abstractdreams @erika75 : Thx! My four year Poshaversary's in May & I just decided to make/share listings that would have helped me in 2012!👍🏽💕

Mar 25Reply

lifeisgood63 @rd1001 Here is some good info!

Mar 30Reply

nia1113 @jmjla7 Keeping a Posh compliant closet!!

Apr 10Reply

brunette212 @abstractdreams you seem to be doing well with your 4 years experience. Happy Anniversary!...I'm a new user and just started last month. Am doing okay but find it a little slow in the likes/questions dept. Would you mind peeking at my closet and giving me your first impression or any suggestions on what could be better. I think I read that Spring time is the slowest selling period? What's the best period in your opinion?

May 01Reply

brunette212 @abstractdreams thanks very much for the feedback. Guess I'll be dropping the gel nailpolish. I wasn't aware. Thanks again!

May 01Reply

abstractdreams @brunette212 : Check both of these listings Donna (parts 1&2)!👍🏽

May 01Reply

mizkk35 @abstractdreams im aware this is an old comment, however as a newbie I love when im offered help. Ive seen a lot of rudeness on here about asking questions etc.... I love the fact that you laid it all out....

May 15Reply

abstractdreams @mizkk35 : That makes me very sad Kristen! Let me apologize & welcome you to Posh!!💕I think the internet can make ppl nasty.👎🏽I've been here nearly from the beginning & I can tell you that there are way more kind, supportive, generous Poshers than not! You just tag me if you have a question or if/when you're ready to start listing and I'll introduce you to 36,000+ of my closest PFF's!👍🏽💋

May 15Reply

mizkk35 @abstractdreams I thank you so very much. I must say this last week or more has definitely changed my view and thoughts due to other ladies like you who have been very welcoming and ready to help. Im still learning and am sure I will need help at some point. Again thank you so much for your warm welcome

May 18Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams I love this ☺ It's too bad we have to post things like this when it's so easy to read the dang rules (and follow awesome Poshers like you and queenmumm Brenda) ❤

May 26Reply

cncalabro @abstractdreams Hi Linda, hope you're doing well! I was wondering if you could help clear something up for me? I commented on an upcoming party host's page asking her to check out my closet and others, and she commented back saying she'd love to but my closet isn't posh compliant bc all undergarments, including bras and swim tops must be brand new, not even worn once. I have not and would never sell swim bottoms..

May 29Reply

cncalabro ... or panties that weren't NWT, but I've never heard anything about bras and swim tops?! I thought as long as they're in good condition and everything is clearly written out in the description it was ok. The bras I'm selling have been worn 1-2x and are in excellent condition. I just want to make sure that I'm being posh compliant. Can you please help?

May 29Reply

abstractdreams @cncalabro : Absolutely incorrect! That's old Posh rules. Anything swim can now be sold used! Same with bras! Panties do still need to be nwt - tags attached.

May 29Reply

abstractdreams @cncalabro : there was a big debate among many of us who've been here so long that rule applied; what's the dif between a used swim suit/bottom & used panties??

May 29Reply

cncalabro @abstractdreams Thank you! I thought that was the case, but this person made me feel so dumb. She was polite though, but I just wish I could find something in writing to show her bc I don't like being told I'm not compliant if I am. (And I agree with you, I think it's weird to sell used bottoms...but if someone wants to buy them than that's their thing!)

May 29Reply

abstractdreams @cncalabro : I just checked "selling guidelines" and it does still use the term "underwear" bug I know absolutely that everything you mentioned (except panties) is allowed to be sold used. You can email PM Support with any question & have an answer in writing. I did that with my journals, which also were not allowed until last yr. Then I posted the email in my listing!👍🏽💕

May 29Reply

lfriasurzua @abstractdreams hi there! 🤗I just started actively pushing and I'm still learning all the rules. Could you let me know if I'm maybe in violation of any rules or even just friendly posh etiquette I'm not aware of? Thank you for taking the time to welcome us newbies! 😘😘

Jun 18Reply

the_body_shop Thank you so much!! This helped and part 2. I wouldn't want to do wrong. I even shared a wrong earlier tonight and didn't know it was.

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : I'm glad it helped. While many Posher's are militant about not following, sharing or buying from non-compliant closets, I am more forgiving. I made mistakes back in the day, and I got help from forgiving mentors so I give Posher's the info about violations & I will follow & share compliant items that first time, but not after that. I feel like it's my job to teach/help, not be the Posh Police.👍🏽

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams I have a few more questions. There's not a way to not be on wall is it?

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Technically, no. Posh assumes that outside contact between Posers is for the sole purpose of arranging offsite transactions.😕If it's a conversation that someone does not want in their own closet, it is generally done in a listing like this. Or some Posher's communicate in old "sold" listings.

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams ok so like my first question. I saw comments on no perfume allergies and such. I was gonna cut a small part of dryer sheet to set in it. Is that bad too? Also I always give my Avon customers a free gift. Planned on it. That ok? And is it ok to but a Avon book. And business card the the box. Btw I'm so glad you found my closet. I'm so thankful for your help. No I don't mind it in open. I'm just shy. It's like talking Infront of people.

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams see ohmygawsh I forgot ... So do I comment on the posting about buying it. And excited. Do I tag the buyer in a post to thank for buying.

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Don't be shy hon. I'm one of those ppl who approach everyone like we've known each other forever!👍🏽I include gifts in every pkg. Small bags of candies, Poshmark Poshaholic pencils I had made years ago, Sephora samples...stuff like that. Here's the thing about scents: I have Lupus & I'm very sensitive to perfumes. Many ppl with migraines are the same way. I've read more...

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams ...more complaints about smells (perfumes, smoke, animals, and others) than ppl being excited or happy to be on the receiving end. If you included little Avon samples, that's perfectly fine, and I think including your business card & a catalog is too! But...there are always (always!) those ppl that you just cannot please who will complain!👎🏽

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady. :👆🏽👍🏽

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams oh how I know that. dealing with the public with Avon. Don't take it personal and don't prejudge anyone. Thank you so much !! I'm only like 3 days into this. And made my first sale and my first purchases.

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Do you comment on which listing?? I always thank a buyer, at the time of purchase. I tell them when I expect to post the pkg & I always thank them for rating (regardless of what it is-I've had a couple of "no pleasing" ppl lately give me less than 5⭐️. One with no explanation, the other when she did not read description & expected something else😳).

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams ok so see I'm blonde even in my writings. Ok I bought stuff. Is it ok to comment. After or just wait til I get. Also I have sold my first item. Do I thank them in the item that sold or under their profile pic.

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams another ❓when it tells me someone added item or items to a bundle. Am I suppose to ask them anything or no. I haven't been just making sure

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : I don't, for a couple reasons. First, if I'm sharing using the button at the top right, I accidentally "bundle" things all the time. And second, many ppl are checking yo get an estimate of their spending & the discount. "Let me know if you'd like a bundle" is leftover from prior to the auto-bundle feature, which is pretty recent.👍🏽

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams 👌🏻thank you

Jun 21Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : My pleasure Brenda! I was up all night, never did get to sleep, so if I don't respond...I will. We're in two different time-zones, but If I wake up during the night, I always check in.👍🏽💕

Jun 21Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams I am so messed up on sleep. I'll go 36 hrs no sleep then sometimes 36 hrs straight or 5 hrs up 5 hrs asleep. Taking heavy meds for Lyme disease. So I'm not on a clock. That's why I love going Avon. I can do it when I can. Just like posh.

Jun 22Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams ok it's me again. I was clicking on my Avon jewelry to be nwt retail one of the rules was not using a stock photo for the first pic. But I wasn't wanting to get them out and touch unless I had too. I was thinking I saw a lot using stock on the main pic. But want to be right. So can you tell me :)

Jun 22Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Despite the fact that stock photos are not legal to use (without permission) in any of our listings, there are stock cover pics all over Posh!👎🏽If it was me...I'd take them out, take my own pics, clean with a buffing cloth & rewrap them.👍🏽

Jun 22Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams thank you‼️

Jun 22Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : My pleasure hon!👍🏽💋

Jun 22Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams another question. If I'm a bother please let me know. Someone wanted to get 2 items. But was asking about a bundle so went a head and got the one to make sure she got it. ... Since it's not shipped can I do the shorts no shipping and add to the same package

Jun 25Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams I understand her thinking on might sake. Cuz at the same time someone else was negotiating a price on a bundle and a shirt she wanted sold.

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : In no way are you a "bother."💋I tell most 'likes' thx & fyi: "my single item prices are flexible about..." so it's in my head already, the discount I'm willing to do & I'll work with most ppl (and I will hold items) to make that sale!👍🏽💰

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : If that isn't what you're asking, I apologize. I'm havin' a bit of a rough day today. If I got it wrong...ask again.😆

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : You can fill the box with 5# of whatever you want!👍🏽

Jun 25Reply

the_body_shop Well she bought a pair of pants. But wants shorts added. Any way to do that without me another fee and her another shipping. That clearer?

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : That is what I read & answered above. You mark the appropriate items sold/or edit them as NFS, and send what ever you want! No need for second shipping label. That's an "old school" bundle. The auto bundle feature is fairly new.👍🏽💕

Jun 25Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams ok I'm being blonde. But she checked out and I paid the $2.95 fee the 2nd item will be another $2.95 fee will it be that way if bundles the new way anyway.

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : The shipping promo is guaranteed to be reduced shipping but not one guaranteed shipping price, it's random ($1.99 - $4.99). If you worked it out, good! I've put as many as 10-12 items in a bundle with one label.

Jun 25Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams I understand that. I can fix to be no shipping. But I'm not sure how the $6 added item to the $10 that she already checked out with can be one item and not to different under than $15 posh fees.

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Tag me on the listing that she already purchased. You may need to cancel, redo the listing & get a new label if you're trying to pay the least of Posh fees. I didn't realize that was the question...👍🏽

Jun 25Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams I'm not sure why but I tried tagging a party host on a pic too and I can't seem to tag y'all if haven't commented. It's the black/tan zig zag pants and wants to add old navy shorts

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : you can still tag, you just need to remember my tag. Lol!👍🏽

Jun 25Reply

abstractdreams @melliejo :👆🏽👍🏽

Jun 27Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams Do you know you were my inspiration for my own no-no list? I had forgotten where I saw this, and didn't give you credit. I will now☺ I think maybe I'll make a one of Brenda's mantra, "Each One Teach One." I don't think I'm as tactful as you, because I got myself blocked once back when I was just starting to welcome new Poshers. I might be able to say it better in a graphic. I'll try hard to not sound like the Posh Police this time 😕

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @chicknthesticks : Thank you! Actually, Brenda is who I try to model after. She helped me turn things around back in 2012. I adore her Q-tips & "Each One Teach One" is a motto I try to apply in life as well as Posh. I don't enjoy being the Posh Police either, but I sure can police myself! I'm not as militant & unforgiving as many here. I report, but I give Poshers the 411 & follow & share (I may even buy) from those closets. I think it's PM's responsibility to police the site, not ours!

Jul 06Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams I love to teach; I was an instructor in the Navy for several years, and really enjoyed it. I'd much rather help a new Posher than ignore and report them, but I think age has made me less tactful and diplomatic than I was. How do you tell a new Posher she has unsupported items? I'm always afraid they'll get defensive and block me. It happened once, even though I thought I was polite and helpful. Her first response was "Everyone else is doing it, why are you singling me out?

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @chicknthesticks : Speaking of age, it has made me less patient & I wasn't all that patient when I was younger!! Lol! I usually relate following Posh guidelines to their own bottom line.💰I tell them (after I've shared their items) that most Poshers will not support them & won't follow, share or "most importantly...buy" from non-compliant closets. I offer to help/answer ?'s. If they block - I do not care!😳👍🏽

Jul 06Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams I agree that it's Posh's job, not ours, to police their site. They're getting paid to do it, we aren't. Sometimes I resent the way they just assume we'll submit reports, especially when it's on the same thing in the same closet for over a year. I don't know why they can't have key words that stop an item before it's ever listed, like "ounces" or "oz," "swatched" or "tested," etc. I even made the suggestion, but the response was something like "We've got it under control."

Jul 06Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams 😈😆 *snort* 😈😆 After last night, they can block me all they want. Less headache for me!

Jul 06Reply

chicknthesticks @abstractdreams Thanks, that's a really good plan- tell them AFTER sharing for them.

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @chicknthesticks : I answer as many questions as they have, but will not argue, engage them or go back & forth about the rules or what is/should be allowed! Like the chick yesterday who called me a loser...water off a ducks back. I took screen shots, reported & blocked her. I've seen long time Posher's (even SU's) get reprimanded by PM Support for "engaging" with harrassers.👎🏽That's not right in my book, but it's what it is.

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @chicknthesticks : You know they DO have ways to do it! That's why you can't type names of off site transactions or many cuss words!

Jul 06Reply

annielaurieshop @yack_21 after all the talk back and forth about Posh Compliant Closet I see you have men's Cologne in your closet! Now that's sad.

Jul 06Reply

annielaurieshop @brunette212 welcome to Poshmark 👒👢👝 Having @abstractdreams as a mentor you are already a winner!

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @chicknthesticks : Right?? I got no room in my life for all that negative DRAAAMA! No thank you very much!👎🏽Lol!!

Jul 06Reply

annielaurieshop @abstractdreams I'm glad I stumbled into your dream world! I too made a gentle reminder when welcoming a new closet and she went all snarky told me it was none of my business. Leave her alone and then blocked me! But I could still get in her closet so I got busy and reported all her knick knacks, and other UN-Poshmark merch. I'll so you 60 years old snark!

Jul 06Reply

annielaurieshop @abstractdreams and what's really crazy, a lot of the old timers are some of the worst offenders of having non Posh compliant closets. Oh another one went crazy when I made mention of p* now being accepted. Well she says you still can't write it so no thank you and step off. Oh well as my mom would always say there's those that'd bitch if you hung them with a new rope!

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @annielaurieshop : Thank you Laurie, I really appreciate that!💋Yesterday someone told me I could "have an L" because I was a LOSER for listing this!😳👎🏽@brunette212 : I hope things are going well for you.👍🏽

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @annielaurieshop : On Posh as in life, I can only take care of myself. Do the right thing, give Poshers the 411, treat them with kindness & compassion and just be me. If they don't like it...they can block me from here to high heaven!👍🏽I'm ok with that!

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @annielaurieshop : Not only old timers, who know better but Party Hosts & Suggested Users!!👎🏽

Jul 06Reply

annielaurieshop @abstractdreams, Linda thank you for the share blast! Yep the regular host do seem a bit WASPY, entitled valley girls! Things are picking up, was pretty slow for a couple of weeks! We chat on Facebook page called Posh User Group (PUG) Good info exchange and we can rant if need, good support. Hop over and join us. Nice chatting and I love your DO'S &DON'T'S Board.

Jul 06Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams 🙋🏼 new ❓posher wants me to list SSS to sell. Which is against being posh complaint. Is adding to a listing free against policy. I want to make sure I am posh compliant as I grow. 💕💕💕💕thank for your help

Jul 06Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : Wait...she wants you to do what?

Jul 07Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams Avon SSS (skin so soft) it's a body oil. I think that's not posh compliant

Jul 07Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady : I adore SSS, I'm totally sleep deprived & wasn't thinking of Avon (duh). You are absolutely correct! It is not PC to sell here! The only liquid allowed is foundation. You have your Avon link in "about" info, right? She can purchase online...correct?👍🏽

Jul 07Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams yes. She could if wasn't sold out because of new packaging and price raised when debuts. Lol. :( umm

Jul 07Reply

abstractdreams Oh...so it's a smidge more complicated. Well, it's entirely up to you, but it is a violation of Posh guidelines. I'm way more forgiving than most here tho. @the_avon_lady

Jul 07Reply

yack_21 @annielaurieshop I have great reviews and am very fair...sharer, fast shipper, and honest about anything. Falling onto hard times with medical bills isn't easy but thank you for policing one listing and making me sound awful when I am just looking to get bills paid.

Jul 07Reply

abstractdreams @yack_21 : I'm sorry to hear that Sara, I'm in the same boat! I hope my earlier shares will generate sales for you. You have a lovely closet!💕If you read some of the comments here, I have ongoing convos about the good/better/best way to pass this info along. I've been here since 2012 when Posh was not quite as militant as it seems to be now. I made mistakes then & it seems to me, as humans, we all do. If I can help in any way or you have questions, just lmk.👍🏽

Jul 07Reply

yack_21 @abstractdreams thank you for the shares, I appreciate the understanding and not just lashing out. Maybe ladies want to buy reasonable gifts for men? I get no electronics etc, but there's also a way to approach one another. You don't always know what's going on behind the scenes

Jul 07Reply

abstractdreams @yack_21 : That is a fact, not to mention that there are actually male users of the app. But the way the current "terms of service" that we all agree to when we sign up are written, those items (and male users) are violations! That's why there are major changes with every Posh upgrade. The app has to evolve or go the way of the dinosaurs! Some items, like anything flammable are USPS shipping violations.👍🏽💕

Jul 07Reply

beardove Hey! Quick question, Is there a way to remove followers?

Jul 18Reply

abstractdreams @beardove : You cannot "remove followers" but yiu can block them. That unfollows them on your behalf. Are u having problems?

Jul 18Reply

beardove @abstractdreams I had someone comment on one of my listings letting me know she removed me and other followers that liked - pretty much as a favor. I didn't realize one could remove followers (other than block).

Jul 18Reply

abstractdreams @beardove : I'm pretty sure I can guess which listing...(actually, on a hunch I checked & was correct😳)! Many of the Posher's who buy/wear fur are pretty militant about their "right" to do so! The only creature with the right to wear fur is the animal born with it!! There's no such thing as a "followers list."👎🏽

Jul 18Reply

beardove @abstractdreams I totally agree! And yep you figured out what I was referring too. ❤🐰 I was really curious about the removing follwers statement and if it was indeed possible. I had only heard of blocking people. But this answers my question! Thanks!

Jul 18Reply

abstractdreams @loveandposh : Check out Pt 2 also!👍🏽💕I'll be happy to share your closet asap (I'm not one of those Poshers I mentioned. I made mistakes when I started, got help, found out that there were rules for using the site & turned things around!💋

Jul 21Reply

hwallis1 love it girly!!!

Aug 03Reply

abstractdreams @hwallis1 : Hi there! Thx!! Breakin' down those guidelines! Did u see there's a part 2 listing as well?👍🏽

Aug 03Reply

ses54 @abstractdreams I'm pretty new to Posh & have seen a lot of electrical items, makeup, nail polish & children's items on here. So what exactly IS allowed on here? Also seen lots of ppl advertising they will sell same item listed on M or via email. And should I share other ppls listings to parties? I don't want to be doing things I shouldn't bc I rly like this app. Lmk & ty. 💐

Sep 04Reply

abstractdreams @ses54 : Hi Sherry, I know it can seem confusing. As the app evolves, Posh sometimes changes it's policy & allows items that had been violations. The items in my listings Part 1 & 2, are still prohibited and so is offering transactions off the app. Some ppl don't know there are rules, and some just done care! Posh depends on each of us, to report & not support violations of the guidelines.👍🏽💕

Sep 04Reply

abstractdreams @ses54 : I've been here since 2012, if I can help in any way or answer any other questions, I'm on the app many times a day💋

Sep 04Reply

ses54 @abstractdreams Thank you! 👍

Sep 04Reply

abstractdreams @hcalvird : Posh has very specific guidelines about what's allowed. Listing violations will prevent many from following, sharing or buying from your closet.😳I've been here since 2012, if I can help or you have questions, just lmk! Check out my what's allowed listings (part 1 & 2). 👍🏽💕

Sep 09Reply

goodgaudy But I love used makeup........ just kidding

Sep 20Reply

lynn_825 Thanks for the heads-up! I had no idea!!! And I thought I was a rule follower! I've seen so many similar items, it never occurred to me that these wouldn't be compliant. (I'm taking them down now.) It's very nice of you to offer tips like this. Thanks!

Sep 28Reply

abstractdreams @lynn_sk59 : Thx Lynn, I've been here since 2012 & try to help the way I was helped early on. It is my understanding that items like that can be gifted with purchase, but I don't know first hand from PM Support that's the case. They respond promptly to all questions & are very supportive.👍🏽💕

Sep 28Reply

lynn_825 Well, after reading the rules again, I see that my items could easily fall into the liquids and health & wellness categories. I took them down. I'll drop them off at the women's shelter nearby. Thanks again. I think you're awesome for taking the time to guide the rest of us! I've been on Posh for almost a year and it's been so much fun. It really is a nice community, thanks to people like you!

Sep 28Reply

abstractdreams @lynn_sk59 : Thx so much! One of my mentors has a listing that says "Each One Teach One" and I try to live that & create a Posh community that reflects the way I'd like it to be!👍🏽💕I'm here many times a day, everyday if you need any other help.💋

Sep 28Reply

abstractdreams @krazy_kloset : If items were removed, there's no dispute. Posh would only remove if they're not allowed. Check the other listing (part 2) as well. 👍🏽Posh is for the exclusive sale of fashion, jewelry, accessories & makeup (must be new & sealed).

Nov 04Reply

nicolek111 So someone was kicked off of Posh bc they were threatening others, but they have made another profile and are on again doing the same things!? How does that slip through Posh? How can you make another account? Are the accounts not monitored? She has the same things in her closet even..

Dec 01Reply

abstractdreams @nicolek111 : That's really frustrating!👎🏽There are screening, and I'm not sure how they get around it so easily. But Posh is so large now that they really depend on us to report it when we see things like that! It's our community.👍🏽They move very quickly with screen shots. Let me know if that's clear & a name if you can.❣

Dec 01Reply

popular_brands No pefumes? Is it just used ones or all?

Jan 04Reply

abstractdreams @vbedollac : Hi Vanessa, some things are against Posh selling guidelines & others are USPS Shipping rules : perfumes are NOT allowed at all, they're liquid & flammable, neither of which is permitted (liquid foundation is an exception). Check out listing #2 for more info. If there's anything else I can help with, just lmk!👍🏽💕

Jan 04Reply

popular_brands @abstractdreams I'm fairly new & I saw a lot of people selling perfume so I just assumed it would be ok as long as they were new. I sold a little one. Does that mean my closet will never be compliant?

Jan 04Reply

popular_brands @abstractdreams thank you for the shares. I will return the favor ☺

Jan 04Reply

abstractdreams @vbedollac : Thx for the shares!💕No one sees items unless they're shared! Posh is very forgiving. I did the same thing when I started in 2012. If you scroll to the bottom of my closet, you'll see mistakes. But I made my closet Posh compliant when I realized there were rules & I'm a SU now. Share everything in your closet, so that non-compliant items are @ the bottom.

Jan 04Reply

popular_brands @abstractdreams ok, thank you sooo much for answering my questions. I def want to follow all the rules.

Jan 04Reply

justpeep @abstractdreams very informational thank you!😉

Jan 09Reply

abstractdreams @justpeep : My pleasure Regina! Did you see Part 2?👍🏽

Jan 09Reply

justpeep @abstractdreams yes I did! I even went to a blog that was mentioned! Very very full of info! I had no idea how amazing and how far posh goes! I read all your listings which lead time to more and more! Thank you so very much! 😊

Jan 09Reply

abstractdreams @justpeep : I'm glad you found it helpful! I've been here since 2012 (a few months after Posh launched the app), if I can help or u have ?'s, just tag me. I check in many time every day!👍🏽💕

Jan 09Reply

justpeep @abstractdreams thank you that would be awesome! The blog I read about the Vegas meet up the first one I believe was very insightful! A lot of your listings are so full of info I'm glad I found them! 🌹 thanks again 😊

Jan 09Reply

abstractdreams @justpeep : There are meet & greets all over the country, all the time! You can enter you city/state into search & find local Poshers!👍🏽

Jan 09Reply

abstractdreams @flyingcrochet : Thx for the share.

Jan 13Reply

ally_marc Thank you so much 😊 this will help me. I'm new at this. So far I found everyone very nice and sweet, except for one, who blocked me. I still don't know why?? I follow, I like or share an item than I comment saying "thank you for sharing ". And she blocked me.

Mar 11Reply

abstractdreams @ansul : I'm glad you found it Anne! I figured more people would read this than ALL the Poshmark guidelines. I try to update it as te app evolves & new things are allowed.👍🏽I've been here since 2012. If I can help or you have questions, just lmk. I check in many times, everyday.❣

Mar 17Reply

abstractdreams @eangelora 👍🏽💋

Mar 24Reply

cloudlvr4 @abstractdreams hi. Thanks for all the info. I'm a little confused with whether it's ok to give out free items with purchase and list the free item?

Apr 09Reply

abstractdreams @lmw0082 : I put these together because no one's got time to read all the guidelines! Updated as the app evolves (more changes in 2016 than in the nearly 5 years I've been here)!

Apr 23Reply

abstractdreams @singmeister : Here you go. I thought I mentioned it earlier...I meant to. So much to remember when talking to someone just starting out tho.

Apr 24Reply

51twenty Love your updated pic of a flower. We're driving. We have our hotel too… we know the area 👍🏽 We go to chi very often. Going next week.

Apr 26Reply

abstractdreams @51twenty Well then I need to talk to you about where to stay...etc!👍🏽Where are u staying?

Apr 26Reply

51twenty @abstractdreams We're at the Marriott downtown.

Apr 26Reply

51twenty @abstractdreams On the map were you bought tickets it shows you a map of where we're going to be. So, we did google live for the event location, which is right across from the IRS building. Yahoo! We usually do Thursday through Monday. I think we'll stay Friday through Monday

Apr 26Reply

abstractdreams @51twenty I love the downtown hotels! The last time my daughter went to meet a casting director (for all the Chicago tv series) we stayed a block from the Lake, but I can't remember where. That's close to where the event is?

Apr 26Reply

abstractdreams @51twenty : Ok! I'm SUPER excited now!! Ima google it!👍🏽💋

Apr 26Reply

51twenty Not too too far…… Yes, I'm pretty sure you may have been near this area or not far from it. Events are held there all of the time. I'm ordering balloons for my sons grad party and ordering cake. I month to go. 🎓 errands… sorry for delays

Apr 26Reply

abstractdreams @51twenty 🎉Congrats Mom!🎉That's an exciting time! Is he planning on college?

Apr 26Reply

closet_finds @abstractdreams I could be wrong but a I don't think journal books are allowed.💁🏼💁🏼💁🏼 You should lead by example.

Apr 30Reply

abstractdreams @closet_finds : I believe I am leading by example. After seeing many journals listed I waited for a response to my email from Posh Support confirming that they are allowed before listing my own.

Apr 30Reply

closet_finds @abstractdreams Well, ok then. I just saw on this listing...no books. What category do you list blank books under? It would be nice if they would make this news available to all. 👍🏼

Apr 30Reply

abstractdreams @closet_finds I agree! I asked one of the sellers, who was also a SU. She informed me she had asked Posh Support first & after I asked, she posted the email. So, I emailed & was told NO the first time & yes after sending them screenshot of her email! I included the emails in my listings. "Books" still aren't allowed, not even kids books! Seems like one policy across the board would be more fair/appropriate!👍🏽Happy Sunday!

Apr 30Reply

abstractdreams @bantonboutique : I was going to tag you here. You're FAST!👍🏼❣

May 20Reply

bantonboutique @abstractdreams any tips on selling higher priced items?? I have some listings that are priced 60% off, but still well over $500!

May 20Reply

abstractdreams @bantonboutique : Sharing to Parties for those brands will be critical. Many Poshers only shop Parties, since they're brand/designer specific. Detailed titles/descriptions help too since Posh algorithms catch key words from both when shoppers search for items without a brand/designer. Posh is cyclical, there are busier/slower times.

May 20Reply

bantonboutique @abstractdreams thank you so much!

May 20Reply

boymommaresells Thank you for your time to post this info.

Jun 20Reply

abstractdreams @mama__glam : You're very welcome Rae! I the 5 yrs I've been here, it occurred to me that very few new Poshers take the time to read (or even know about) the Guidelines, so I thought I'd breakdown the basics into quick, simple bits! 👍🏼❣

Jun 20Reply

boymommaresells @abstractdreams 1 question I have is why do some here have option to buy now with PAyP, what is that about?

Jun 20Reply

abstractdreams @mama__glam : I'm a Suggested User, and we get a newsletter about new updates. To my knowledge that is NOT an option allowed by Poshmark. There are many who do advertise that they have "lower prices/free shipping" on other apps. But once Posh notices, they can & do shut down those closets.

Jun 20Reply

abstractdreams @mama__glam : In a recent update Posh has added the ability for a buyer to PAY with 🅿️🅿️ But that's it.

Jun 20Reply

love_buzzz I just want to thank you for all of your informative postings! It is truly helpful for newer Poshers, such as myself :) I still have many items to list and a lot to learn here. Upon opening my account, I very carefully read through the Posh regulations. I appreciate your references that neatly summarize everything. I have noticed many closets that are not compliant. I want to avoid making those mistakes. I do have a question, but having trouble posting it here...

Jul 30Reply

love_buzzz When I joined, p. p. was a payment option. I noticed that some sellers here do not accept it. Are there additional fees (for the seller) associated with using it? I thought that the seller gets a flat fee of 20% regardless of payment method. I tend to use that (whenever I can) so as to avoid inputting my c c / bank everywhere online. Just curious why so many avoid it on Posh, and wondering about my pay ment options as a seller :)

Jul 30Reply

love_buzzz Thank you so very much for your help and support, I appreciate your time! It's wonderful to meet such a dedicated Posher :) Have a fantastic Sunday. Hugs, Barbara 😘💕🌹

Jul 30Reply

abstractdreams @fun_family : I apologize, I lost power yesterday so was trying to save my battery & not Poshing. 🅿️🅿️ is ONLY allowed as a payment method THRU Posh. Poshers who say they "don't accept it" mean they don't do any transactions off Posh - which is not allowed. Lmk if I can help in the future!!👍🏼❣

Jul 31Reply

abstractdreams @fun_family : And thank you for all the kind words, I try to make listings with info I wish I had when I started in 2012! It took month for me to find someone to help...I eliminated non-compliant items, turned things around & never looked back!👍🏼

Jul 31Reply

originalsbyliss Also just because you like something doesn't mean add it to my dressing room!! I get this so often ,a lot of times I'll like something so I can tag a friend. I personally like to shop in private. Great list !!

Jul 31Reply

abstractdreams @melissacrump : Thx! I appreciate it.❣Actually, Posh adds likes/bundles to "dressing room" automatically. Someone can send you something to "style" you, but your dressing room is really just set up by you. I don't know how I feel about it, but I LOVE the ability to send a private offer!👍🏼

Jul 31Reply

love_buzzz @abstractdreams Thank you very much for your detailed reply. I really appreciate your feedback and clarification. Glad your power is back. We realize how much we depend on it when it's gone :) I admire your efforts and the support you give to the posh community.

Aug 01Reply

love_buzzz @abstractdreams I've only been here a few months. I haven't received any help either, even when I've looked for it. So, I've just been busy reading and watching :) I am grateful that I found you and your wonderful closet. Especially now that I am preparing to sell. Thank you again and have a wonderful week. Kind regards, Barbara 💐

Aug 01Reply

abstractdreams @fun_family Thank you again Barbara! That's very kind!💋I have to apologize again for the delay! My dad had a heart attack recently & Dr's think it's too risky to do surgery. He's 83 & worked every day, so I convinced my folks to have a big barn sale to help with taxes & put $ aside in case he's laid up 4 awhile. Lots of ppl contributing items, I'm pulling tons out of my Posh closet!

Aug 01Reply

abstractdreams @fun_family I was making another run today & unloading my car when my foot got caught on some old wire junk on the ground right in front of the DOOR!! I may have blown my good knee out!! Too early to tell! I'm generally more responsive when responding! I'm happy to help, whenever you need it!! I think I told you, it's my favorite thing about Posh! If I sell something that's just gravy!😂

Aug 01Reply

love_buzzz @abstractdreams No need to ever apologize, life happens. I'm always the first to understand. I'm terribly sorry about your father. I know how difficult it is. Will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers 🙏🏻

Aug 02Reply

love_buzzz @abstractdreams Sounds as though you have health problems too (bad knee). Sending you well wishes also! I have Lupus. Was dx 20 years ago, and still recovering from a mini-stroke I had a few years ago. Good and bad days but I'm grateful for the recovery I've managed to make thus far. My children and hubby keep me going :)

Aug 02Reply

love_buzzz @abstractdreams Take good care of your good knee! Hope it's okay! It's my pleasure to meet you and I'm lucky to find such a kind Posh friend 🌹 Thank you! Have a peaceful and restful night. Big hugs for your family 💐

Aug 02Reply

love_buzzz @abstractdreams 💜 I noticed that you have Fibro. We share a lot in common there (my Lupus). I make Lupus / Fibro (and Autism) memory lockets using NOS vintage gemstones and Swarovski crystals. I'll let you know when I list them here. I donate a lot to families impacted. I just made a lot for a friend's family (she now has kidney disease from the Lupus) so I'm giving my hands and eyes a little rest, lol but will get to making more very soon 💜 HUGS 💜

Aug 02Reply

ixy_r Thank you so much for sharing all your knowledge!! I wish I had read this prior to my first purchase!!! I just started this month! Purchased a pair of shoes & an offer was accepted from the same seller right after I made my purchase. The seller advised me to pay outside of Posh

Aug 12Reply

ixy_r to save the extra shipping charges and I did just that (not knowing that it wasn't allowed!) Now the items are not as described and there's nothing I can do :/ I truly wish more "seasoned" poshers were as honest and kind as you for wanting to make sure all newbies are informed :)

Aug 12Reply

groovychick4u Good morning! I just want to say thank you for being such an awesome mentor to so many and you are soooo appreciated!! I'm fairly new to Posh and have slowly been learning as I go. I was wondering a couple of things. 1) I got one host pick a few months ago but nothing since. I'm not sure what I could do differently. How do the Hosts pick?! I have been trying to share as much as possible, add new items regularly, share during parties of course. Any thoughts?

Sep 01Reply

groovychick4u And 2) if I report an item is that anonymous? There really are a ton of Poshers selling so many prohibited items. I was one of them too when I first started! I never say anything to the newbies just encourage them and tell them about being compliant. But there are some who are not newbies still selling stuff! Thanks for your input. I'm all ears!! ❤️

Sep 01Reply

abstractdreams @groovychick4u Thx for the kind words! I appreciate it as mentoring is my fave part of Posh!💋You have a great closet! First, reporting is confidential! If you see anything really alarming, take screen shots & email PM Support (they love screen shots)! U can tell you that the more Hosts you follow/share, the more HP's you're likely to get! You certainly warrant more!👍🏼Lmk if you have any more ?'s!❣

Sep 01Reply

tipsymoon @abstractdreams hi doll , im new and came across your feed accidentally, but gladly😊 anywho how do I know who can see my closet and any tips for making sales for a newbie?

Sep 19Reply

abstractdreams @tipsymoon : Welcome Lucille!❣Basically everyone 'can see' your closet but the more you share, or others share for you, the more eyes on your items! LOTS of followers help too since that's who sees your items. Clear, well lit cover shots/photos, detailed descriptions & timely responses to questions/comments will are also important!

Sep 19Reply

kriss10fashion awesome🌹🌹

Oct 27Reply

bjt41157 Thanks for taking the time to create this helpful listing! I've been on Poshmark for five months and I'm still learning. It's frustrating when I start sharing items from a closet only to discover it's filled with prohibited items, but I've never reported any of those. Wish I could "unshare". Another thing that bugs me is misspelled words in listings.... but that's a whole other story :/

Jan 04Reply

the_body_shop Hey sweet posh friend. Question. I woke to one posher sharing 84 times. That may be everything I have listed right now. Do you return 84?

Jan 29Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady Good morning. That's a nice surprise!! 👍🏼You're not obligated to return share for share, tho some Poshers do. She may not have that many items listed. I'd thank her profusely, check her about & see if she's new & looking for guidance or a share buddy!💕

Jan 29Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams 37,000 followers in one year. Started last January. And over 700 items. She’s just a beast at sharing lol. Thank you again. Blessings to you

Jan 29Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady My pleasure hon! Will return your kindness asap!💋

Jan 29Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams you know how you talked about my 2017 pretty bad. Well it ended with my grand baby in nicu. And one day we almost lost her. This past Tuesday my husband fell through a skylight 15 ft to concrete. Busted head open blood all over. Should have died but only has fa tired forehead nose and eye socket. All other is bruises and muscular. I need a break I tell ya. Already thinking 2019 better be good.

Jan 29Reply

abstractdreams @the_avon_lady OMFG!! Brenda...hon, I hope everyone's doing better!!! Will keep you all in my prayers.💕Take care of you during this time too!

Jan 29Reply

the_body_shop @abstractdreams thank you!!

Jan 29Reply

goldenpolkadot @abstractdreams 👇🏼😳💞💞 Did u have this problem when u changed closet names? 😩👇🏼

Feb 08Reply

goldenpolkadot Linda i just refollowed u! I just realized that since changed closet name from i have had to re follow my follows😳 i has no idea i woul have to go thru this😩 plz bear w/ me as i transition. It may take me some time as i had my old closet name for 4 long yrs. Plz LMK if u know anyone else w/ name changes so i can refollow them. Many thx Ma PFF So partymk999 is now @goldenpolkadot P.S. U may want to click follow me as well cuz that may have been lost too😩 Sorry bout that💐 😘 Olga

Feb 08Reply

abstractdreams @goldenpolkadot I did notice the name change & realized by items/pink army girl cartoon that it was you! I’m happy that you’re feeling up to Poshing!💕My name change went fairly smoothly. I didn’t loose followers, that I’m aware of. But I’ve had ppl say “There You Are!’ So I kept the notice high up in my closet for a couple years, just in case. I’ll be sure to tag you if I see other name changes. But I’m not really feeling well this Winter.👎🏼I check in often, but not much more.

Feb 08Reply

serenity_style_ @abstractdreams hi I'm all about helping others on posh, may I share this in my closet, very eye catching and put together well, I'm a Secret Posher mentor. Plus I would love to show case your closet in my Secret posher game. Thanks for your time Cindy ☺

Feb 18Reply

abstractdreams @cincinpierce Absolutely! Borrow away. Thank you for asking. I'd love to be included in your Posh Game! I love that!!👍🏼💕

Feb 18Reply

serenity_style_ @abstractdreams ok doll, just sign in Care Bear, I post Secret p daily, you just follow the ladies picked followers. Then share 5 listings to show posh luv😚 The I will pick you to be show case and hopefully help generate sales. You do it at your leisure.

Feb 18Reply

the_body_shop Hey my push help/ mentor. Is there a way to delete my whole closet items. Including the sold. With hubby’s it’s been a huge mess on top of I can’t sell Avon on here anymore.

May 06Reply

sheer_fabulous @tjnorton great advice from a great posher...hope this helps

May 12Reply

tjnorton @mrs_ah Thank you so much!

May 12Reply

j_mitton Hi I just wanted to Thank you for all the info! I've been poshing since the beginning of this year and I absolutely love it! I did have perfume for sale at one point and it was removed which enticed me to read the rules thoroughly. Now i also report people, especially for replicas! I believe my closet is now compliant. Do you mind taking a peek and letting me know? Also I sent you a listing I often send people, do you think I should stop? Thanks dear. 😊🛍

Aug 08Reply

glimmergirl61 Hi! I’ve only known about this site since the beginning of July , when I joined! How long has Poshmark been in existence? (Nice to meet you, by the way!) Deb, Posh Ambassador 🌷😊

Sep 03Reply

yayalisa67 This is amazing. It’s great to see such a large community of compliant closets and those of us who want to do the right thing!!!!!

Sep 10Reply

ladylilyfern @pbjperry another good informational post

Oct 23Reply

shortcake67 @abstractdreams , kudos to you! Wish I'd known half the rules as well when I started. Trust me more than a few bad apples out there. I'm downsizing my closet items..using way too many closets.! I wish you all the best with your closet!

Nov 20Reply

blreibman1948 Good info but household can be sold on HOME !

Jan 12Reply

shortcake67 @tonistwinkles 🤐🤐🤐☹☹ wish kids would!!

Oct 29Reply

shortcake67 @abstractdreams good job!! they deserve it just for being so rude. who entitles these kids to start with?

Oct 29Reply

shortcake67 @abstractdreams I recently came across a closet selling nothing but adult "toys" , lotions, and so on. color me shocked!

Oct 29Reply

roxannesoko allllll factual 😍😍😍🎉🎉🎉🎉 good part and good reminders! xoxo

Dec 12Reply

ths76 I am wondering do you fit all 700plys items in a spare bedroom or do you have a storage unit? Just trying to figure out if I have the space?

Aug 07Reply

cyndisales i wish not to see anymore USED PANTIES OR SOCKS! Its disgusting! thanks for reminding everyone of rules! 👍🏼😊🌈 any suggestions as to stop this, other than reporting?

Sep 20Reply