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curated_404
@kellibeite0 hi! I’m sure I did. Out of town right now, but i fly in tonight. I’ll accept as soon as I get home. Thank you!!
frenchbazaar
🙋♀️
curated_404
@frenchbazaar hi back! 💁🏻♀️ love your style 💕
frenchbazaar
@aallisonr thank you! love yours! 💕
unvarnished
@aallisonr Nicely put 👏👏👏
curated_404
@unvarnished thank you!! Your closet is beautiful by the way! 😍
unvarnished
@aallisonr Aw thank you 😊; the feeling is mutual!
sloanss
Love your closet 💕💕
curated_404
@sloanss thank you! Yours is beautiful too 😍 trying to clean mine out. If there’s anything you’re interested in, feel free to make an offer!
jpsalvalaggio
Hi! I read your rules but I don’t see an option to message anyone on Posh. Can you tell me how to send a message? Thanks.
curated_404
@jpsalvalaggio hi! Sure :) you can comment directly on an item in which you’re interested, or comment on a sold item (typically preferred by most poshers so as not to interfere with an active listing). If there is anything at all I can do to help, please let me know. I hope you have a wonderful day, and thank you for visiting my closet! 😊💕
jpsalvalaggio
@aallisonr thank you for your reply. Love your closet 😍
curated_404
@jpsalvalaggio absolutely. And thank you so much! I really appreciate that. I haven’t checked out your closet yet, but I’m on my way. 😊. Have a great night!!!
abigail_noah
@aallisonr hi Allison💗💗💗💗💗💗💗... the billy Reid cream shoes you listed were originally priced FIRM at my initial counter offer. I will counter w/ the same offer, will you honor the first listing price (from January)?
gadjac
Well phrased!
curated_404
@gadjac thank you!!
curated_404
@wendyinnola have you heard of Network Next Gen? Would be great for your students to follow on social media so when they’re in the field they can get connected. IG: @networknextgen the organization facilitates small dinner parties across the country to connect 20/30-somethings from various parts of the industry (designers, vendors, owners, etc) Helps get jobs, connect people, mentor, etc
wendyinnola
@curated_404 that sounds awesome and now that I read the description I think I’ve heard of it, actually. Tbh, they are so much more savvy than I am about networking and stuff like this I’d be very surprised if they do t already know about it! I’ll mention it to my thesis students though as they’ll be graduating this May! Thank you!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
curated_404
@wendyinnola of course! I just recently went to my first dinner with this group. It was really well done. Everyone from a 22 year old designer who has been in the biz for only a few months to a few of us who are on the cusp of 40 and have been fooling around with the design/construction world for years. Interesting to hear the younger peoples’ views on things, issues, etc. and nice to share our experience with them
curated_404
@wendyinnola however I will say, the one thing that struck me from the younger lot was their salary expectation. They all thought they should be making way more $ than what’s realistic and even thought that they deserved additional compensation for working on a project for a long time, when, in fact, that’s just called doing your job. Not sure why they think they deserve 6 figures at the ripe old age of 26 🤷🏻♀️
nikoneko
I need to post one of these... 😒
curated_404
@nikoneko feel free to steal any of it 😊
nikoneko
@curated_404 Permission to plagiarize! I may just do that... 😈 I woke up to a serial bundler of firm/final price items. Who only adds ONE item to their bundle. Repeatedly. 😐
curated_404
@nikoneko Hahahaha a serial bundler. I love that terminology 😂 and certainly plagiarize away. I’m not sure it does a ton of good having this post, but at least it’s a reference point. I’ve blocked several people this week actually
nikoneko
@curated_404 I must be the dork who loves reading posts 🤓 BTW, I have the exact same problem with crops and baby bells (was looking at your leather ones.) They are WAY too short on me. I have PTSD from having to wear floods in middle school (no long inseams back then) and no matter how hard I try, I can’t do higher than an inch above the ankle bone! I feel like Pee Wee Herman...
curated_404
@nikoneko ugh exactly! And Pee Wee Herman is not someone I would like to emulate. 😂 and what’s the jeans/pants that don’t even come up all the way above your hips?? How tall are the people who wear these things? I can’t even pull Those Rag & Bone Boyfriend jeans I listed up above my hips to even try to button them. My legs keep going and the pants do not 😆 same with dresses and skirts. All the cute ones are made for girls who must be 5’4” or less
nikoneko
@curated_404 Ahhh how I wanted to be a short girl! Now I like being tall, but back then... misery! And I hear ya on BF jeans. Butt crack city! ⚡️🍑⚡️ But I still wear them 😬
curated_404
@nikoneko ha! Absolutely. I sort of hate skinny jeans. I don’t love feeling like a sausage 😉
wendyinnola
@curated_404 ENTITLED GENERATION. It’s unbelievable. I know I must sound like a crotchety old-timer but the inflated and unreasonable salary expectations you speak of - while totally true and rampant - are only the tip of the iceberg. Students now expect their professors to essentially be “on call” 24-7 to answer their emails and texts (when the answer is almost always in the syllabus or project brief anyway- should they have taken time to read it).
wendyinnola
@curated_404 They expect to be able to turn work in late, but then receive instantaneous feedback on submitted drafts. And then there’s my personal fave: do shit work (or no work) all semester and then become energetically vigorous and dedicated all of a sudden to filing a grade grievance for a D which was probably a gift in the first place!! Girl you got me started again!! 2 mornings in a row!! 😂😂 .
wendyinnola
@curated_404 Then there’s the whole passivity problem where they think a design exercise is something you can get “right” or “wrong” and rather than jump in and freaking MAKE SOMETHING (preferably thoughtful, beautiful, and well-crafted) they choose to interrogate the prof relentlessly trying to extract some imaginary list describing in detail what they need to do/ draw/ make to get an A on a given project. In other words, design it for them. I could scream sometimes😖.
curated_404
@wendyinnola hahaha! Vent away friend! They are in for a rude awakening when they hit the harsh reality of the professional world. Wait until they find out sometimes you have to do things crawl around on your knees scrubbing floor tile at 2am just to make sure a site is perfect for handover at 5am. It’s not so glamorous 😊
wendyinnola
@curated_404 @nikoneko And btw, you two with your tall, skinny girl problems are cracking me up right now!! 😂😂😂 It is a revelation to me I’d never considered that you actually wouldn’t have enough rise to get your jeans above the crack?! Ok, that is a legit problem!! Try Rachel Comey Jeans—-tallest rise I’ve ever seen, they come up to the bottom of my rib cage but I still love them 😂😂😜😜. You would have to put up with the crop though.......Grass is always greener!!
wendyinnola
@curated_404 And I’m stealing your rules too!! They’re perfection!!
curated_404
@wendyinnola hahaha! Legitimately it’s a thing 😂 and god forbid you have any hips. Then there’s no hope for getting most pants up and over. 🤷🏻♀️ thank god for cashmere track pants. Yay stretch!
curated_404
@wendyinnola go for it! Maybe if enough of us post these sorts of things, people will start to comply
wendyinnola
@curated_404 TRUE DAT as we say in the Big Easy!! 😂🤣🤣🤣
wendyinnola
@curated_404 There are always maternity jeans?!?! 😬🤫??? Believe me I’m tempted from time to time 😂
nikoneko
@wendyinnola @curated_404 I cannot stop thinking about cashmere sweatpants now... 😍 As for the entitled generation: I have a sister who is 12 years younger. She felt entitled enough to have our parents buy her a house. I couldn’t afford to buy an apartment in Manhattan until I was 43. Yet it never occurred to me to ask my parents for money! I’m Gen X, she’s at the tail end of millennial, but she feels deserving of privilege. I don’t get it.
curated_404
@nikoneko oh wow. That maybe takes the cake! I get lumped in with millennialist all the time, through I strongly refuse the association. These kids at this dinner I was at legitimately were complaining that they worked on one project for 12 months without a raise. I probably didn’t do a good job at all feigning sympathy. Why do you deserve a raise for just doing your job??
curated_404
@nikoneko also, Everlane for awesome cashmere sweats at a killer price 😍
wendyinnola
@nikoneko EXACTLY!!!!! I couldn’t wait to work and earn my own money (and therefore independence!!) - not by necessity, but by choice!! Wanted to choose my own clothes and buy my own records (yes, vinyl my friends) and stupid expensive imported LP’s and British rock mags without having to whine or beg or justify to anyone! Been working full-time non-stop since age 15 whilst earning A’s in school.
wendyinnola
@nikoneko Never did it for praise, just somehow knew what I wanted and what it would it take and the trap/downsides of expecting somebody else to just hand it to me! I frankly fear for my son and his generation (and therefore all of us), cuz I see zero grit or perspective or yearning for real self-reliance. 😖
nikoneko
@curated_404 Ha! Those kids are in for a rude awakening. I must admit I feel a tinge of envy at feeling so DESERVING. Is it a self esteem thing? Are all of their friends getting handouts? It honestly would never occur to me to ask for these things... Unless I was legit going to be homeless. Even then my pride would never recover. *shakes cane*
curated_404
@wendyinnola ugh you’re right. Very little work ethic and instead, very expecting of instant gratification. It’s really disappointing. Then there is all this talk of younger people not being able to find jobs, but the reality is, they simply don’t want to work. Jobs are available, but they aren’t the high-profile, glamorous jobs these young people seem to feel they deserve.
wendyinnola
@curated_404 @nikoneko AGREED!!!! Completely and on all counts!!
nikoneko
@wendyinnola @curated_404 @fccandles MUST VENT! A buyer just gave me four stars bc the shoes were not true to size on her “friend” so she has to resell them. Hey, I’m a perfect 9 and they fit me. Do you leave out “true to size” in your listing unless asked? I’m pissed I lost my perfect rating over some big foot 🤬
curated_404
@nikoneko what?? That’s BS. Gosh I wish I were allowed to actually curse on here sometimes 😂
Anyway, I don’t generally say if the shoes are TTS, but I will measure them and tell people the length of my foot as a reference point. Regardless, you still should’ve gotten 5 Stars. That’s nonsense that they don’t fit a friend so take a star off. People 🤬
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 Oh darling— I’m so sorry but rest assured - your rating either won’t go down or will soon be restored-it’s based on the last 30 sales average I believe? Also—this is nothing compared to what I was subjected to in the same situation. Maybe my tale will make you feel better!
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 So the woman who bought my cute red coclico flat sandals...First the pre-purchase “courtship” went on and on and on......could she afford, should she, would they be comfortable, peppered with her whole life story, etc etc etc. I patiently answered every query, carefully and EXPLICITLY, pointing out that everyone’s perception of comfort and everyone’s feet are unique and that I could only speak to my.
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles .....MY experience of wearing the shoes. Ok, so 2-3 rounds of almost buying then not then back with more q’s....she buys them -naturally at a deep discount. Then the real horror began!
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles They didn’t fit! What should she do?! I was very nice and very sympathetic but made it clear that returns are not an option!! I suggested she relist/ resell as I’ve had to do on numerous occasions because size 29 shorts arrived shrunk to a size 25. I figured my bad for not asking for actual measurements and so actually rated those sellers 5-Star for fast shipping!!!
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles Well, she didn’t have time to relist them and it was too much trouble 🙄.....so now she files a disputed claim, and changes tack completely claiming I misrepresented the shoe size and “comfort” level and and and.....you all know how ocd and TMI I am with my listings so all of this was of course ridiculous and PM found in my favor....but she still even after PM’s resolution, she still kept coming back now complains that my US to EU sizing conversion was wrong.....
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles Ok. Story over. Do you feel any better!?? Girl there are some whack jobs out there/ on here...SELLER BEWARE!!!!!
nikoneko
@wendyinnola @fccandles @curated_404 Wendy wins! That is awful. I’m so glad PM was on your side. Oh - I forgot to mention these booties were marked PRICE FIRM but she bamboozled her way into $10 off. WTF. There really are some gems on PM. Also, who buys shoes for their friend?! GRRRRR!
curated_404
@wendyinnola oh no! That’s ridiculous maybe she should go torment the crazy lady from the other day who thought we were being mean. Match made in heaven right there
wendyinnola
@curated_404 IF ONLY!!! 😂😂😘
wendyinnola
@nikoneko WHAAAAA??????? OK I missed he part where she bought them for a friend?!?!——-who buys shoes for anyone else?!?! Not even would I dare buy my shoe-loving husband shoes though I’ve been sorely tempted and whose feet I know quite intimately (ok stop your nasty imaginings—it’s because we’re dancers and massage each others’ feet ladies!!!)....That is weird, ridiculous, frankly kinda gross!!!
nikoneko
@curated_404 @wendyinnola I blocked. I don’t want to accidentally sell to her again. Is that a bad idea?
curated_404
@nikoneko not at all. I’ve blocked several obnoxious buyers
nikoneko
@curated_404 Good. My block list is growing. And @wendyinnola I think the “friend” was a tee up for this. I sold to a reseller, I believe. My spidey senses went off when she mentioned this friend during presale negotiation. POOP!!
wendyinnola
@nikoneko ITS THE RIGHT THING TO DO!!!!!!
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 I refer to your decision to BLOCK!
nikoneko
@wendyinnola DONE! 👿
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles I’m just off another incredibly annoying experience this time as a potential buyer.....Tried to be a good PM Ambassador and teach the girl something who knows if any of it sank in. Heck of it is she has a great closet and someone we trust introduced/ recommended her. Can’t remember who—maybe jimmycat (not tagging on purpose cuz I don’t know her as well yet). Maybe one of you?? Handle is “designer delight” she has a lot of Everlane
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles . Anyway, I actively promoted, shared and bundled— tried to buy a few pieces. Every time I made a comment or requested further info, I never got notifications of her responses until I’d accidentally later find she had indeed made one. I brought this to her attention multiple times over days, wondering aloud why and could she look into it.
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles Meanwhile one of the items in my bundle sold, and I finally discovered I wasn’t getting her messages because she was misspelling my handle every time. 🙄 when I pointed this out nicely and like “oh crap we all make type-o’s” so she wouldn’t feel badly (which I needn’t have worried about).....she doesn’t take responsibility.
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles She doesn’t apologize (still has done neither), she remains “confused as to how this happened”.....WHATEVER!! I’m too old for this shit!!! BLOCKED!!!!
nikoneko
@wendyinnola I am so glad I put my closet on vacation two days before leaving, I have enough stress! And Wendy, what a waste of your time. I’d be pretty POed.
wendyinnola
@nikoneko @curated_404 @fccandles OK—promise this is the last you’ll hear from me until after class tonight at the very soonest BUT am happy to report “designer delight” finally issued a full and I believe sincere apology. She’s new and learning and said she appreciated my advice. Back on the “approved” list with props and praise! It’s so damn easy to be a thoughtful human—why is it so damn rare?!
nikoneko
@wendyinnola @fccandles @curated_404 Rare is right! I can count my non-drama sales on one hand.
fccandles
@nikoneko @curated_404 @wendyinnola I’m st work and can’t read 🤨... something about shoes? Uhg! Going to at lunch! 🤨🤨😬
curated_404
@wendyinnola oh no! How frustrating. I think I’m the guilty party who made the intro, but I’m not 100% sure. Either way, I am really glad she apologized. That goes a LONG way
wendyinnola
@fccandles Grrrrrllllll its all a bunch a PM BS you’ve been through a gajillion times before!!!! Therapy session currently over after successful venting COMPLETE! A brief note of sympathy to me and @nikoneko for recent ordeals with whack jobs, shysters, and morons will suffice!!! 😂😂😂😘😘😘
wendyinnola
@curated_404 She totally redeemed herself and now we’re best buddies again. I even made the purchase! As a prof I’m a total sucker for anyone who even pretends they’ve taken my comments to heart and actually learned something from me. 😉😉😉
fccandles
@wendyinnola @nikoneko condolences my friends 🙄 and to my dear friend Alexis .. sorry we’re dancing all over your listing 💃🏻🕺🏻😆😆@curated_404
curated_404
@fccandles dance away!
sarahkostusyk
Hi, I just noticed that you liked someones Burberry Large Grainy leather bag. I have a similar one for sale that is white. I still have the tags and it is in perfect shape. Feel free to look at it. Im excepting all reasonable offers and can take lower ones off of posh.
huntculture
You nailed it! 🙌🏻
curated_404
@anamaral thanks!! And thank you for all the shares 💕
amber2286
Congrats on the deals days win! It’s so exciting! I’m running a winners special and HALF off my ENTIRE closet for the next 24 hours!!! Send me offer and please bundle so I can offer the winners discount to you only. Thank you!
Be sure to spoil yourself today and happy Poshing ❤️❤️❤️
curated_404
@amber2286 thank you!! Happy holidays to you 😊❤️
jgajewski
Thank you for the shares! I have to admit I love this post but I love the comments even more. I usually don’t read comments but somehow I started and couldn’t stop! Lol The entitled generation and crazy buyers. It is all SO true and on point! I want to be y’alls friend(as we say in the south)😁 Oh and I can so relate to the rating story! So frustrating!
curated_404
@jgajewski ha! Yes!! I love new friends!! You and your amazing closet are in the club! @nikoneko @wendyinnola @pixelfjnny @uppityminx @fccandles ladies, I’m inducting a new member!!! ❤️💙💜💛💚🧡
jgajewski
@curated_404 I am honored! This is what keeps me going on posh! I’ve almost thrown in the towel a few times..but then I meet intelligent, down to earth women that make it worth the time and effort🙏🏻😘 Very nice to meet you all! Everyone has such a beautiful collection!😍
curated_404
@jgajewski yes! I know that feeling well. There are some people on here that try to ruin it for the rest of us, but these ladies are the best! Oh and I forgot to add @jimmycat @jewelsie and @maux_lux. More best of the best!
nikoneko
@jgajewski Nice to meet you! Thanks so much for your shares 🙏🏼❤️ And I love your closet! Kudos to @curated_404 for finding another Posh gem ✨😘
jgajewski
@nikoneko your very welcome! Thank you for the sweet compliment! Very nice to meet you!💓
fccandles
@jgajewski @curated_404 great find! I’m chasing my tail right now.. but SWEAR when I have 2 seconds to drool 🤤 I will go through your fab closet... Jay ...some REAL Chanel for us dahling 😁@blankcanvaspm 💕
fccandles
@jgajewski btw... I’m ALREADY following 🤣🤣
jgajewski
@fccandles lol! I was actually in your closet the other day sharing☺️ I just commented on your post about “fitness” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Classic
danaauslander
I love this. I’m reposting. Low ballers are the worst.
curated_404
@danaauslander yes, please do!! Maybe if we all keep posting people will finally begin to understand 🤷🏻♀️
danaauslander
@curated_404 I did. My closet is so important to me. These people are just insulting!!
curated_404
@danaauslander oh I completely agree. We all take pride in our listings, and it’s so rude to make offers that imply a lesser value. One of my friends on here was selling a $25k Rolex and a guy offered to trade with her for a belt. Can you even imagine???
danaauslander
@curated_404 I Block all those people. Who needs their energy even hovering over your things. It’s toxic.
nj20172018
Ok so how bad is it if I invest in a mannequin for poshing? Is that next level crazy?! Haha. Happy weekend
curated_404
@nj20172018 I think it’s genius!! I would totally do that if I had anywhere to store it. Happy Easter!!
nj20172018
@curated_404 hmm good point I’m not sure I have room either to store 😂
nj20172018
@curated_404 happy Easter!!
gyspymama84
Hi Alexis! Your closet is looking amazing😍😍😍
Happy holidays beautiful!!
❤️🌲❄️💙❄️🌲🌲❄️🌲🌲🌲🌲❤️❄️💙❄️
curated_404
@gyspymama84 aw thanks Mamacita! Happy holidays to you too!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️ I’m dying over all those Colleen Cordero boots you have 🥰 I just need to loose a few toes
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